Umshado ngonyaka onyakazayo

Umshado ungomunye wemfanelo enkulu, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo, izenzakalo ezijabulisayo, lapho imibhangqwana esemisha ihlanganisa imizwa yawo ngokuzihlanganisa, ukuhlanganisa izinhliziyo ndawonye. Ukulungiselela umshado, ukugubha kanye nobusuku bomshado kuqala isikhathi eside ngaphambi kokuqala kwalolu suku othandekayo. Ukuhlelwa kwemikhosi yemikhosi, ukuthenga izindandatho zomshado , izingubo zomshado , izembatho kanye nezembatho ngokuvamile kuba yisimo esinzima futhi esinzima kakhulu kumbhangqwana, njengoba umshado, njenganoma imuphi omunye umkhosi, ungozwe ngamasiko amaningi, futhi-ke, inkolelo-ze.

Abaningi bayesaba lapho beqaphela ukuthi ukugubha kwezinhliziyo zezinxenye ezimbili zothando kuthatha unyaka onyakazayo, lapho kunezinsuku ezingeziwe - ngoFebhuwari 29. Kunemibono eminingi mayelana nokuthi ngabe unyaka we-leap ufanelekile emshadweni noma ngabe kungcono ukudlulisela umkhosi isikhathi esithile. Phakathi kwabantu kukhona umbono wokuthi emshadweni onyakeni ungeke wamukeleke, kusukela manje kulesi sikhathi esibi kakhulu: okushona okuningi kwenzeka, abantu bahlushwa izifo ezihlukahlukene, bawela phansi kwebhizinisi labo kanye nokuphila kwabo siqu. Abantu abaningi abasha bazama ukudlala umshado ngaphambi konyaka wokuqhaqhazela, ngoba bakholelwa ezincwadini eziningi. Umshado onyakeni we-leap, ngokombono wabo, ulahla labo abasanda kushada empilweni emfushane ndawonye, okuzogcwala amahlazo nokuphikisana. Kodwa izibalo zifakazela amaqiniso aphikisayo.

Umshado odlalwa ngonyaka owedlule, njengoba abasebenzi behhovisi lababhalisi bephawula, kungenye yezenzakalo ezijabulisayo ezingase zifike ngesikhathi esinikeziwe. Abantu abazwa imizwa eqinile, naphezu kwezinkolelo-ze nezibonakaliso ezimbi, baqonde ukuthi uma kukhona uthando nokuqonda, ngakho-ke akukho nhlekelele engayikuma endleleni yenjabulo yabo. Lokhu kusiza abashadile ukuba bagweme isehlukaniso.

Ababhula ngezinkanyezi abatholi lutho olungavamile futhi olungavamile ngonyaka onyakazayo, ngoba ngoFebhuwari 29 usuku olujwayelekile, oluzayo ngenxa yokuthi unyaka wezikhathi ezingu-365 namahora angu-6. Ukuze ugweme iphutha elihle kakhulu ekubalweni kwesikhathi nesikhangiso sonyaka ngamunye, okuyi-multiple of 4 futhi wanezelwa izinsuku ezengeziwe. Ngesihlandlo sokuqala unyaka we-leap wasungulwa ngonyaka we-45, lapho abantu bashayela khona ikhalenda yeJulian, ebizwa ngokuthi uGuy Julius Caesar.

Umshado onyakeni we-leap, ngokusho kwezikhonzi zeSonto Lobu-Orthodox, awuziphatheli ngokwayo noma yini engonakalisa inyunyana encane, ngoba ayikho "isikhathi esibi" sothando. Akulotshiwe kunoma iyiphi incwadi yesonto ukuthi umshado onyakeni we-leap udlalwa kwamanye amasiko. Amakramenti womshado afana nhlobo nanoma yimuphi omunye unyaka, usuku nenyanga. Izinkolelo-ze ezikhona nezisho zezikhonzi ezingama-Orthodox zenqaba lokhu futhi zijabulisa kakhulu ukwenza amasakramente omshado wabantu abathandanayo.

Kubantu, unyaka we-leap ubizwa ngokuthi "unyaka wabashadikazi", futhi akuyona ingozi. Amantombazane, ukuze balondoloze inyunyana yabo yomshado yesikhathi esizayo, bavakashela ngokuzenzekelayo izindlu zabo "ezincane" zokudlala imidlalo. Futhi beza ngokuphelele bodwa, ngaphandle kwama-matchmakers. Insizwa ekhethiwe ayikwazanga, uma kwenzeka intombazane efika kuyo i-woo, iphika ukuphindaphindiwe kwayo. Kwakungemva komlando wenani elikhulu lemishado ngonyaka odlulayo - izinkolelo-ze kanye nezibonakaliso ezimbi zishonile, futhi unyaka uthola igama elihlukile ngokuphelele, "unyaka wabashadikazi."

Uthando lwangempela noluthando, eqinisweni, azikho izithiyo nezithiyo ezinjengomnyaka wokuqhaqhazela, noma ngezibikezelo zezinkanyezi. Uma uqiniseka ngemizwa yakho nemizwa yengxenye yakho yesibili, ungangabazi usuku lomkhosi womshado. Phela, izinhliziyo zothando zizonqoba zonke izithiyo ezizokwenza indlela yenjabulo yabo siqu.