Ikhaya linikezwa kanjani emshadweni?

Umshado ungenye yezenzakalo ezithakazelisayo kakhulu ekuphileni komuntu wonke. Futhi yingakho izinkolelo eziningi nemikhosi kuhileleke kuyo: imithetho yendlu yangasese yomlobokazi, nesihlengo sakhe, nemincintiswano yama-comic yokushaya i-pie ukucacisa ikhanda lomndeni, nokunye okuningi, okuningi okuningi. Esinye sezici ezithakazelisayo zomshado yi "Domashniy ozg", ekhanyiswe emshadweni njengophawu lokuqala kokuphila okusha kwabasha. Luhlobo luni lomkhuba lokhu? Sizoqonda ndawonye.

Isizinda semlando

Ake siqale ngezimpawu, mhlawumbe. Umlilo kusukela esikhathini esidlule wawubizwa ngokuthi yizakhiwo eziyisimangaliso. Waqeda (khumbula ukugijima phezu komlilo ku-Ivan Kupala), futhi waholela abantu emgomweni omusha (lapha ungabhekisela kuDanko wakwaGogol, owaqeda inhliziyo yakhe esifuba futhi wavulela indlela), futhi wabafudumala. Umlilo ungukuphila, wawunjalo ememori yabantu kusukela esikhathini esidlule. Lona manje ilangabi - into efinyeleleka ekungcoleni futhi ngakho-ke ayikwaziswa kakhulu, futhi emakhulwini eminyaka adlule kwakungelula ukuthola umlilo. Yingakho wakhe, uphawu lwendlu, oluphephile, olufudumele nolunokwethenjelwa, lwadluliselwa emshadweni. Umkhosi "Ikhaya" emshadweni kwakusho ukuqhubeka kwezizukulwane, ukuqala kokuphila okuzimele kwabantu abasha. Kusuka kancane kancane ukuvutha umlilo ovuthayo kungashisa, ngakho-ke lesi siko sabangela into entsha.

Emazweni aseSlavic, ngendlela, lesi siko asivamile kakhulu. Okubaluleke nakakhulu isimo sengqondo kulo Melika: AmaProthestani aphika ngokuphelele isenzo esinjalo, kanti iSonto LamaKatolika libhekisela emcimbini wokuthi "Ikhaya" emshadweni, nakuba kungavumi ukukhanyisa umlilo womndeni omusha ethempelini likaNkulunkulu. Ukuze uchaze lesi simo sengqondo enkolweni ende kungase kube ukuthi izimpande zawo zisebuqaba, kungenjalo ubuKristu.

Option eyodwa, evamile

Sekuyisikhathi sokuthola ukuthi yini ehlukile kwamanye amasiko "Ekhaya" emshadweni, ukuthi impilo yomndeni omusha ivuliwe kanjani. Ukuze wenze lesi siko, uzodinga kuphela amakhandlela. Ukuhlotshisiwe noma cha, okuzenziwe noma okuthengiwe - kufike kwabashadayo. Kunezinketho eziningi zokwenza lokhu.

Okokuqala, okunye kwe-archaic, kudinga amakhandlela amabili okushisa kuphela. Omama bomakoti nomkhwenyana, njengokwejwayelekile abesifazane babhekwa njengabagcini bendawo, futhi, ngokufanayo, bomlilo, balethe ikhandlela elisanda kushayelwa kulabo abasanda kushada, okufanekisela ubunye bale mindeni emibili. Abashadikazi abashadile nabo bafaka umlilo kukhandlela lakhe, ngezinye izikhathi lenziwa elincani ngobukhulu ukuze kuboniswe ukuthi umlomo womzali usuvele usungulwe, umxhwele, kanti omusha usanda kuqala ukuvela.

Yiqiniso, ngaphandle kwezifiso eziphanayo, umkhosi othi "Indawo yasekhaya" emshadweni akunakwenzeka. Amazwi wabazali kulo mkhosi ngokuvamile awakulungiselele kusengaphambili: umkhwekazi nomamazala bafuna umbhangqwana osanda kushada ube ngumndeni oqinile, indlu ethembekile futhi, ngezinye izikhathi ngendlela edlalwayo, ubudlelwane obunamandla obufanayo.

Option ezimbili, yendabuko

Enye inguqulo yomkhosi "Domashniy ochag" emshadweni ingokwesiko. Okuyimfuneko kuye - ubuso bomlobokazi kumele bufihliwe ngendwangu, ngaphezu kwalokho, kuze kube sekupheleni kwesenzo umkhwenyana akufanele avule umsebenzi wakhe omncane. Amakhandlela amathathu asetshenziswe kakade lapha: amabili amancane - omama, kanye nanye obukhulu - abashadile.

Kukholelwa ukuthi owesifazane ngamunye unikeza umakoti entendeni yakhe, okungukuthi, ilangabi lendlu yakhe lizohlangana nomlilo womuzi womunye umndeni. Ngokushesha nje lapho ikhandlela lekhandlela elisha likhanya, umlilo womlilo uphuma. Futhi lelikhandlela elisha lo mbhangqwana kufanele ugcine kuwo wonke umndeni wabo womndeni.

Ukuze unikeze isenzo singcwele futhi siyiqiniso, amakhandlela ekhanda "Ekhaya lasekhaya" emshadweni ngezandla zabo siqu angenziwa. Izinkumbulo ezihlobene nomshado zizoshisa ngisho nokufudumala kusuka esitofu samakhandlela, okwabeka isisekelo semikhaya yomndeni.

Ukuhambisana

Yiqiniso, kungukuthi ngeke uqale umkhosi onjalo - kufanele kube khona uhlobo oluthile lokungena kunoma imuphi umkhosi. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukufaka isenzo kuskripthi kusengaphambili, kokuba uxoxisane ngaphambilini nomethuli - kumele athole amagama afanelekile ukuhalalisela. Yiqiniso, okuhle kunazo zonke kuleso simo kuzodlala ngokukhethekile esihlokweni esithi "Ikhaya" lezinkondlo zomshado.

Okubaluleke nakakhulu kwalesi siko ukuthi noma yiliphi ivesi elingeza lapha - kokubili ngamakhandlela afanekisela isakramente somshado, nangothando lwabancane. Kukhona nezifiso ezilula ezijabulisayo zenjabulo - konke kuxhomeke kumphathi wezinsizakalo futhi ukuthi uzosabela kanjani ngokucophelela emsebenzini okwenza lolu suku lungalibaleki ngempela umbhangqwana.

Khumbula ukuthi ngisho nesenzo esihle kangaka njengesiko "sekhaya sasekhaya" emcimbini womagama omholi singashintsha kusuka engcweleni ibe yi-farce eyiziwula.

Isithombe

Uhlobo luni lomshado olungenza ngaphandle kwezithombe? Ukuthatha umzuzu obalulekile wokuphila kubalulekile, ngakho-ke awukwazi ukwenza ngaphandle komthwebuli wezithombe. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, wonke ubuhle benkambo ethi "Ikhaya Lomlilo" emshadweni ngeke ludluliselwe esithombeni - ukuthuthumela kwelangabi lamakhandlela, ubukhulu bobukhulu bomama obutha umlilo emndenini omusha badlala indima enkulu kakhulu. Kodwa, ngakolunye uhlangothi, akekho oye waxosha ama-photoshoots amahle ngaphakathi ehholo lapho umshado kufanele ugubha khona, noma kusengaphambili kungenzeka ukuhlomisa iphuzu eligxile, elifanekisela noma eliyiqiniso, lapho abantu abasha abangakwazi ukubeka khona ikhandlela noma ukukhanyisa ilangabi langempela kulo.

Futhi isihloko semindeni yomndeni singashaywa ngosizo lwamakhandlela akhethekile, okwenziwa ngezakhiwo ezincane. Ngaphakathi ubeke ikhandlela elizokhanyisa futhi lifudumise indlu ngaphakathi, njengendawo yomlilo yangempela. Enhle, yangempela futhi engavamile - futhi yini enye edingekayo?

Ngaphezu kokukhethwa kukho

Ngendlela, ngaphandle kokuhlukahluka okungaziwa komkhosi wekhaya, kunezinye izinhlobo. Omunye wabo wukuthi abesifazane abasha bakhonza isinkwa somshado namakhandlela amabili, bathi, kusukela esizukulwaneni esidala kuya komncane, isinkwa nomlilo. Kulesi simo, i-pie ehlotshisiwe ivele etafuleni lalabo abasanda kushada ngesikhathi sokugubha yonke imikhosi, bese isetshenziselwa esinye isiko somshado: ngubani ozokwazi ukuluma kancane, uyoba yinhloko yomndeni. Amakhandlela Yebo, aphikelela.

Enye into engaziwa kakhulu ukuthi umdlali oyinhloko akuyona umama, futhi ingane encane endodlweni yengelosi, ekhanyisa ikhandlela lalabo abasanda kushada. Yiqiniso, lokhu kwenza umkhosi ungabi nasecala, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo uphikisana namasiko obuKristu, okukhulunywe ngaye ngenhla kancane.

Umlilo namanzi!

Ekuphetheni, ngingathanda ukukhuluma ngelinye ilanga lokusebenzisa amakhandlela ahlanganyela emcimbini "Domashniy Ochag". Lapha, noma kunjalo, udinga ngisho ne-toastmaster ngomqondo omuhle wokuhlekisa.

Wonke umuntu uyazi ukuthi yonke imindeni kumele ihambe ndawonye, nomlilo, namanzi. Njengamanzi angenza ngisho nezibuko ze-champagne, gqoka phansi, okudingeka uwele kuwo. Ukuze uthole ukuzijabulisa okukhulu, yiqiniso, ungakwazi ukunakekelwa komunye umthamo, ogcwele amanzi ngama-rose petals. Futhi umlilo uzofanekisela lezi zikhandlela (ukuwela phezu kwabo, umakoti kufanele abheke kangcono umgqoko wengubo).

Yilokho, ngokuhlekisa, labo abasanda kushada futhi bazohamba ndawonye umlilo nomlilo.

I-Postscript

Imikhuba isisiza ukuba silondoloze ukuma kwethu kwamasiko nobuzwe. Kungenzeka ukuthi isiteleka "sekhaya lasekhaya" singabuye sibhekwe njengenye yezitini lapho kubaluleka khona abantu bethu. Futhi ake namhlanje lesi senzo singesona isenzo esingaphezu kwesinye sokubonisa umshado, umzamo wokwenza umkhosi wokugubha umnandi kakhulu, ngaphambi kokuba ube nokubaluleka okungcwele ngempela. Bathi uma abazali bezingane bejabule emishadweni yabo, ke izingane zabo, uma zithole amakhandlela, zizothola injabulo efanayo. Futhi uma kukhona okungahambi kahle emndenini osemusha, kwanele nje ukukhanyisa ikhandlela le-hearth - futhi lizoletha induduzo esihlahleni somhlaba.