Umkhuleko wocela ukubuya kothandekayo Nikolayu Chudotvortsu

Emotionality - hhayi okuphambene, kodwa ngokuvamile kuba ngenxa imizwa kanye nokungakwazi ukulawula ukukhathazeka kwabo jikelele amaphutha amaningi zenzeka ekuphileni kwethu. Ulaka, ubudlova, ukukhathala, isithukuthezi, umhawu - uma izizathu umlilo futhi kancane edelela? Uma udinga ukubuyela othandekayo, uma kwadingeka ubuthakathaka besikhashana ezikhonjwe akuyona indlela Ngithanda udlule, izimali zosizo kulezo zimo lapho.

Kungani akamshiyelanga

abantu abahlukahlukene, ukuhlangana ukwakha ambalwa noma ngisho umndeni, uhlangabezana ithemba lokuthi bayoba njalo ndawonye kanye ezinsukwini zakuqala buhlobo. Kodwa nemizwa imizwa, ngoba amandla imikhuba kanye izimo ekuphileni, futhi ukuhlolwa ngezinye izikhathi kunzima kakhulu ukuhlola amandla Ubuhlobo. Umuntu ephula, njalo kwakuba nothile wayebuthakathaka, nesikhathi wakhumula imaskhi, kuye kwabangela ukuphoxeka, umuntu inkanuko sengididekile nje uthando, futhi "amakhemikhali nokusebenzelana kwawo" emzimbeni uye ukhathele zonke izinsiza, uthi, kwacaca ukuthi, ababili babo komunye nomunye futhi lutho. Futhi abantu ushiye.

Kodwa kuyinto ehlukile lapho libizwa eqhuma nezinye kakhulu, ulaka ngamunye futhi yaphahlazeka umnyango kakade, futhi inhliziyo yami libuhlungu njalo. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi abantu musa ngempela ukwazi indlela yokuveza imizwa yabo, futhi bayayazisa kanjani nomunye, baqonde kuphela ngemva kokudabula ukulahlekelwa.

Kanjani ukuba sinqobe imizwa

Imizwelo - ibutho endalo, lawo kufanele njalo kube ngaphansi kolawulo. imizwelo Positive uyakwazi nasekhulwini ubani khona noluncú olusihlanganisa nayo, kodwa ezimbi ngokuvamile kungaletha eningi izinkinga. Psyche engabantu wahlela ukuba bezibona imizwa kwenzeka njalo, kodwa abaningi bayakwazi ukulawula ukugeleza amandla akho angokomzwelo, ukuze abantu abasabela ngayo, ungakwazi ngaso sonke isikhathi ukwazi. Yize akashongo lutho, akusho engezwa lutho, abazange baqonde. Kodwa impendulo ebonakalayo, okuyinto kuphakamisa imizwelo edikibalisayo asilandeli. Ngezinye izikhathi, sabanjwa obishini lokuphelelwa imizwa yabo, futhi lowo omshayile Ngeke siyeke ukumfuna size inikeza phandle.

Uma umnyango usevele wavala, uma rezanula ubuhlungu nge force nokuswela ohlaba kakhudlwana ngimemeza, efuna, nokufunga ukuyeka. Kwesokudla lokhu ngomzuzu. Ukushintsha focus, futhi ngazo zonke izindlela, okuyinto ngeke ukulimaza noma isimo noma ababambiqhaza, ukuze uyeke ukucindezeleka. Ukhale - futhi kungani kungenjalo, uma ezinqwabelene? Bheka comedy. Thenga okuthile okumnandi (ushokoledi, futhi konke kwaba iqiniso eyaziwa, kuthuthukisa kwemizwelo), ukwenza noma yini efunwa kancane. Kafushane, ukuze uzenzele into enhle futhi ewusizo ngenjongo eyodwa - ukuzola. Kungcono hhayi ukwenza lutho baze ushawa eside kakhulu futhi okuphumuzayo (amanzi futhi ine anti-ukucindezeleka izakhiwo) futhi musa ukulala ngokwanele ngokusuka enhliziyweni. Ngokuvamile iloli sezinzwa kwenzeka kubantu nje kusuka ukukhathala.

Manje singakwazi ngalokho okwenzekile ekhanda futhi selehlile utihshimi (ngisho nje kancane) imizwa.

Angikwazi ukuphila ngaphandle kwakhe

Ngezinye izikhathi sokuvalelisa ubuhlungu ukusinda sezigcwalisekile, hhayi kusukela lokuthi eqinisweni lo muntu kubaluleke kangaka. Wena nje kudingeka uthole amandla alivume. Kodwa kwenzeka (futhi ngeshwa, akukhona okungavamile ukuba likhithike), ngempela ukuthi ubuhlungu abantu eduze komunye nomunye futhi bengazi ukuzobhidliza phezu lutho. Ukuziqhenya noma wokucasuka ukuba banqobe imizwa ukugxambukela Basaba ukondla off nomunye, eduze livela ngokuyisimangaliso isixuku abeluleki nonozwela - support group, okwenza kukhule lonke inqubo kuphela. Kodwa uma zonke ngokuhlukana esifanayo kwaba ngenxa yokungaboni ngaso linye, inhliziyo ukuthi kubanda ngentukuthelo uyaphila imizwa ngobuqotho.

Siza kusuka ngenhla

Labo abahlanzekile enhliziyweni, futhi simsulwa umcabango. Abantu abafisa ngayo yonke inhliziyo yami ukubuyela othandekayo angambika abangcwele ngaphambi kokuzama ubuyisele oshonile. Ukuthandaza kuJehova ngobuqotho ukubuya kothandekayo ekhaya eyodwa, okuvela enhliziyweni, nakanjani ukusiza. Engakholwa ngempela bathole usizo, kodwa okunguye owaqala sihlangana nesicelo yabangcwele usizo, ukududuza, ukuze ngibe nokuthula kwengqondo futhi uyazethemba ukuthi konke kuyoba ngokuvumelana nentando kaNkulunkulu, futhi ngenxa yalokho ithemba lakhe (ithemba) ngeke ngaleyo ndlela isixhumanisi phakathi abashisekeli wasezulwini futhi isimo ekuphileni, okuyinto kwenzakala siyisinqumo esinzima kunazo zonke yokuxazulula.

Umkhuleko wocela ukubuya othandekayo kuzosiza wonke umuntu

Uma umuntu ngempela ngezifiso banxuse lemikhuleko yabangcwele, okuyinto ukholelwa, noma has ubuchwepheshe ukuxhumana yonke (okungukuthi, eqinisweni, sinye siyafanana okuthiwa ehlukile), abangcwele usizo kungafika ngesimo imibono kanye nezixazululo kwezinye ezihlobene inkinga nokuqonda nuanced futhi amagama afanele ngesikhathi esifanele, nokugcwala enhliziyweni yami, ukuze ngesikhathi enomhlangano ethandekayo, wafikelwa amandla imizwa - uthando, intukuthelo, ukuzisola. By the way, lezi zindlela ezingezansi ngokulinganayo kuhle abantu bazo zombili izinhlobo zobulili. Ngo ubuso bukaNkulunkulu futhi yonke ziyalingana zonke, ngakho-ke, ukusebenzisa ithuluzi ezifana umthandazo ukubuya kothandekayo, kungenzeka wonke umuntu. Akhonza ngokungadingekile ubuhlungu abesifazane babo ngokuvamile ziphendukela kubo ngoba ubandlululo ukuvimbela isinyathelo sokuqala ukubuyisana kanye umphefumulo izinkathazo ka okucasula futhi ubuhlungu. Amadoda nzima imizwa kodwa ukuze alungise leso simo - kakhulu. Ngezinye izikhathi umthandazo ukubuya kothandekayo kusebenza kuphela zokugqokisa ngokwengqondo isicelo sami ku amazwi Abantu nje wezwa ngokwami, futhi ekugcineni ngaqaphela ukuthi kudingeka ngempela. Uma kwakuba khona ekuphenduleni ngamazwi omthandazo enhliziyweni yami isicelo wezulu usizo ukuyithola - lena sokuthi umthandazo kuzosiza.

Nikolay Chudotvorets nokuthandazela ukubuya umuntfu lamtsandzako

Ngu Nikolayu Chudotvortsu njalo ngayo. Lokhu saint oke wahlala ensimini ka Lycia (manje ensimini ka Turkey), wayesiza ukuphila kwabaningi ememeza kuye, wenza izimangaliso ezincane abampofu, ukubukelwa phansi abampofu nabahluphekile, ukwenza izipho izingane, ngakho udumo lwakhe kwasakazeka emhlabeni ngemva kokufa. Baningi ubufakazi bokuthi Nikolay Chudotvorets njengoba saint wabasiza kakhulu labo ababekholwe utlhoga isizo begodu wacela ngayo. Ukubhekana kuye umthandazo ukubuya othandekayo uqinisekile izwiwe, uma kuziwa ngokusuka enhliziyweni. Izinketho wakhe kakhulu. Ungafunda futhi kontakion akathist ndzaba nesicelo evamile ngamazwi akho ukuba Nikolayu Chudotvortsu, futhi ungasebenzisa le ndlela:

• "O Jehova Nkulunkulu wami, uMama Blessed Virgin noSt Nikolay Chudotvorets ugodniche Nkulunkulu, mina ngithemba wena! Siza umphefumulo wami sithethelelwe bese ubuyela othandiweyo wami, inceku kaNkulunkulu (igama). Ameni. Ameni. Ameni. "

Noma yimuphi umthandazo ukubuya kothandekayo Nikolayu Chudotvortsu zizosebenza uma ukubeka ikhandlela phambi isithonjana futhi bagxile isicelo salo.

Umkhuleko wocela ukubuya kothandekayo Matrona eMoscow

Kwenzeka ukuthi ngenxa yezizathu ezihlukahlukene, umndeni ibhidliza. Futhi isizathu Yiqiniso, eziwubala kakhulu lapho othile akusho nje ushintshe noma ukuba luhlaza. Kwenzeka ukuthi ngaso enhliziyweni inkinga ukungakwazi ukuba nezingane. Kulezi zimo ubheke Matrona eMoscow. Gcina ekuthandazeni njengomndeni kuzosiza ukubuyela ethandekayo umuntu, okunamandla futhi ngempumelelo. Izinketho mthandazo ezimbalwa, nakhu omunye wabo:

• "Ungcwele Umama Matrona, sizani! Buyela emuva endleleni yenceku yami abathandiwe nguNkulunkulu (igama), ngakho sajabula ndawonye, futhi asinike ingane. Nginike uthando abantu bakhe abathembekile futhi eqinile. Ameni. "

Noma yimuphi umthandazo ukubuya kothandekayo Matrone izawulalelwa futhi waqonda, kodwa akudingekile ukuthi icele ukuthi abathandekayo sihlawuliswa, ngoba othile waphenduka yokungezwani emkhayeni (isibonelo, sokuphindisela senkosikazi) - kakade uNkulunkulu uyazi ukuthi bangobani labo ajezise futhi ukuthi.

Dzhozef Merfi futhi Iziqinisekiso yakhe

Somlomo Ohloniphekile kanye umbhali Dzhozef Merfi, njengabanye abafundisi abaningi emkhakheni wezokusebenza kwengqondo parapsychology, Metaphysics futhi ndaba ezicashile, wabhala inombolo izincwadi ezisiza sakithi ukuzihlanganisa nge microcosm wendawo yonke futhi ubone yonke ezimayelana umuntu ngenye. Okubizwa ngokuthi umthandazo Dzhozefa Merfi ukubuya othandekayo, eqinisweni, kulona futhi incazelo kusukela iphuzu zokuziphatha nezingokwengqondo umbono kwazo zonke izehlakalo ezihlobene sokuvalelisa. Usifundisa indlela yokuhlakulela ukucabanga mayelana nokuzivikela nabanye, indlela yokwakha, hhayi lowo muntu adilize, ukuhlaziya indlela futhi uthathe ukuphila a godsend.

Harmony nenjabulo

Ukuze labo abafisa ukuzazi, indlela akunzima kangako izinsiza ezifana incwadi Dzhozefa Merfi, Kozlov, Sinelnikov, Sviyasha nabanye abaningi. Baziqonde bona ngokwabo kanye sihlaziye isimo, okuyinto elinikwe, indoda ahlanze ngamandla akhe (noma karma noma umphefumulo), futhi uma kuhambisana umthandazo ukubuya kothandekayo, umphumela okufanele kuholele hhayi kuphela Eqinisweni, kodwa izinguquko futhi enkulu ohlangothini emihle pair.

Ezinye izindlela ibuyise sithandwa

Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi eziwubala Nakuba kungase kungakholakali, umthandazo ukubuya kothandekayo - akubona bonke okudingeka ukwenze ukuze ubuyele injabulo. Kufanele sinake kakhulu ngokubukeka kwabo bese kude ukucabanga ngalokho okwenzekile, ukuhlaziya emaphutheni abo futhi bamukele ukuhlala ngokwahlukana njengendlela sifundo Destiny.

Njengoba ayezithathele aphume kulo bafinyelele eziphethweni ezinembile, akukho ukumesaba ukuthi isimo phinde uqobo. Kufanele sina ukugxeka wena ezenzeka, ngikhumbule amaphutha abo - kuyoba lula ukuba ngiqonde ukuthi kungani intandokazi kwesokunxele eziyizintandokazi noma. Ngokubeka ngokwakho endaweni yakhe, ikakhulu lokhu rethinking kakade baqonde ukuthi ungakhuluma naye emhlanganweni, kungakhathaliseki kubalulekile ukuvuselela ubuhlobo, futhi uma yebo, ukuthi baziphathe kanjani esikhathini esizayo nokuthi yini ukugwema, nokuthi, kunalokho, wenze umthetho. Imithandazo ukusiza nje tune ukuze kuhlolwe kahle umcimbi kanye oyifunayo hhayi ukudida isifiso eqiniso ukuba kanye okudlulayo evamile, umkhuba, noma, okubi kakhulu, Inkani ecasulayo.