Ubudlelwane, Lomshado
Umhlangano lomshado abasha (webhayisikobho)
Lesi simo - umqondo wokobana inomboro umhlangano okufanele kwenzeke emshadweni abasha. Luhle uma umbhangqwana kuziwa emshadweni (noma ngemva umbhalisi) yokudlela (cafe indlu). Ungakwazi oyifisayo ukuze esilindele wakho.
Yini edingekayo? Setha elula: zomculo (i ukugcizelela umsindo), eziningana amathawula eside yezivakashi, ngebhokisi ukhiye, kuze kudabuke umhlane, izibuko, amakhadi ezintathu (linamathele izimvilophu), nenye confetti, Uphinde agibele, candy zemali ezichitha flapper abasha rattles. Zama ukwenza izinto ezinhle, fun, ngomdlandla. Ukuze i-pair of isenzakalo esibaluleke kunazo zonke empilweni umshado kuyoba. Umhlangano abazali abasha izivakashi ufanekisela kakhulu, ngoba, eqinisweni, yilokho yokungena sokuphila okusha ndawonye kakade.
Indlela Toastmasters kahle yethulwa izivakashi?
Uma umhlangano abasha lomshado trust ehola, khona-ke kumelwe ukusho amazwi ambalwa mayelana nawe, okusho ukuhlangana nezivakashi. Lokhu kubalulekile. Ukuze ukunakwa kwakho - kokulandelayo: "Manene namanenekazi! Sanibonani nina bathandekayo! Namuhla uyamenywa ukuba isenzakalo esibalulekile. Kuyinto usuku lwakho lomshado (igama likamakoti) no- (igama yomkhwenyana). Ngingumfana ngihloniphekile ukusiza uzulazule ukugubha lanamuhla. Ngithanda ukwethula izivakashi othandekayo (toastmaster ubiza igama). Ngiyabuza nonke ngeke akukhohlwe mayelana ukubaluleka kosuku. Ake amadoda bayakhohlwa football, ukudoba kanye nomsebenzi. Ake abesifazane pomolchat obumbi, tinkinga temndeni, kanye namanani e-boutiques. Namuhla sisinake kuphela abasha, ngoba usuku lwawo kuphela! Bavumele uzwa solemnity nokubaluleka usuku! "
Futhi manje - yena lomshado simo (umhlangano intsha).
okwandulela
Nakuba umbhangqwana ungaphakathi ehhovisi lokubhalisa noma kubekwa, umninikhaya silungiselela izivakashi. Ngu isikhathi sokufika kwabasebasha kakade kufanele wazi izenzo zabo futhi ukuthatha ezindaweni ezifanele. Njengoba nje imoto ima, izivakashi ukwakha ngamaphasiji amathawula buhle kusukela imoto emnyango yokudlela. Uma umakoti unyawo phansi, vula umculo - Chime izinsimbi. Kungasetshenziswa futhi ezinye umculo wangemuva. Ngokwesibonelo, uma umkhwenyana - itilosi ivumelane umsindo amagagasi nge seagull (amagagasi lothando, inhlanhla, injabulo ngobuqotho). Izinsimbi yakhelwe okwesabisa ukuxosha imimoya emibi. Nakuba intsha ngaphansi amathawula, izivakashi zazimemeza zithi: "Tilly-abilisiwe, abilisiwe-inhlama, nanka - umakoti nomkhwenyana!".
Umhlangano lomshado abasha. Indima yabazali
Ubaba nomama (futhi ingxenye umkhwenyana nomakoti) kufanele kube ekupheleni ehholo, elakhiwa ngosizo Emshadweni amathawula. Svekrov kufanele ugcine isinkwa ( "isinkwa-usawoti"), umama-in-law - izibuko ezimbili ziboshelwe ngezintambo iribhoni elikhanyayo.
Ngokushesha nje lapho abasha Site abazali, umninikhaya uthi: "Bathandekayo! Bheka manje iwashi! Ake kube yilo mzuzu zikhunjulwe phakade! Sicela ukwamukela abathandi Kuhlokoma ihlombe, ngoba bayishaya ihora - saya ekuphileni countdown ndawonye! Tshela abazali abusise izingane zabo ... ".
ikhefu Young off ucezu isinkwa bacwilisa ibe usawoti, nika nomunye (iphathwa). Ngemva kokukhonza izibuko ezihlobene egcwele nge-champagne. Khona-ke ungakwazi ukulandela yimiphi izimpawu. Abanye abantu bakhetha smash izibuko ngokushesha nje lapho ziba elingenalutho (ngoba inhlanhla), kanti abanye bakholelwa ukuthi kuyinto njengentelezi ofuna ukugcina (uma ngokungazelelwe zephuke ke ngeshwa noma ukuhlala ngokwahlukana). Kungcono uthintane kusengaphambili ne abasha.
Ngaleso sikhathi amaphuphu eduze emnyango (bangakwazi ukufeza, ngokuthatha ithawula). Nalapha Tamada uthi: "Sawubona abasanda kushada! Kuze kube yilolo suku, ngamunye beyiba, umgwaqo ehlukene. Namuhla une ekugcineni wajoyina izinhliziyo zabo ngothando. endleleni yakho kusukela manje kufanele yabiwe. Ake ezinyathelweni sizohlala izinyathelo unethemba - zokuvumelanisa, futhi kukhanyisa indlela Inkanyezi egqamile lothando. Namuhla kumele kube isithiyo kuphela indlela yakho! ".
Umhlangano abasha emshadweni kwenzekani. Ngaphambi abashadayo lokuqala silingo iribhoni (ukwenza noma ofakazi, noma izimenywa). "Zelena tape - umngcele esasihlukanisa ukuphila abangashadile nabashadile. Yebo, ushiya abangane kanye nezintombi, khulula nokuphila uhlala engenazinkathazo. Ngaphambi sokuwelela lokhu umngcele, cabanga - uma ufuna ukusho goodbye ne ukuphila izinkathazo futhi abanganaki futhi ilethe izwe elisha, icala ngokugcwele? Ngakho, isixazululo sakho kuphela ... ". Young ucosha umakoti izinyathelo phezu tape (noma bamane sokuwelela ndawonye). Phakathi nalesi sikhathi, izivakashi qhumisa okhilikhethi, rattles nokuduma, dudyat e amapayipi (toastmaster kufanele ukuzisabalalisa kusengaphambili).
"Awu, wena ukuthi le umugqa zihlangene. Ngakho-ke. Musa ubacasule umsindo - sase distilled kuwe imimoya emimbi ngumoya lomubi, mabangabuyeli kukuvimbele. Manje sekuyisikhathi sokuba uthole luhlobo luni lwekusasa ulinde nomndeni wakho. Lokhu ibhande nezibikezelo, khetha imvilophi yakho! ". Iziprofetho nazo ayilungiselele kusengaphambili futhi zitshalwa ezimvilophini ezihlotshiswe kahle.
Inkinga yesithathu kuboniswa enye iteyipu. Wakhe ubambe ofakazi. Abazali ngaleso sikhathi kuthiwa owaqhutshwa kuleli hholo.
Moderator: "Futhi lokhu akuyona isithiyo, kuba isinyathelo sokuqala isitebhisi zokuphila kwakho. Ungowesilisa wakhe nivukele ndawonye, bebambene ngezandla. Ake isinyathelo ngasinye, nge ngamunye odlulayo ngonyaka ngothando lwakho baqine, nenhlalakahle iyakhula. Inhlanhla !!! ".
Umakoti nomkhwenyana isinyathelo phezu tape zokugcina futhi owaqhutshwa kuleli hholo lapho abazali bazo balinde. Ngenkathi abasebasha uholela ukuqhubeka: "Uzokwethula silondoloze abantu bomdabu kakhulu - nabazali. Manje amehlo abo - izinyembezi. Kodwa lokhu ngokujabula, injabulo, yokuziqhenya ngawe! Mkhonzeni zichichime ukwazisa ngomusa injabulo manje evutha emehlweni akho, ngokuba abakwazi ukuletha futhi likufundise, futhi namuhla wabusisa umndeni ukuphila okujabulisayo! ". abazali Young ekhothamisa kathathu. Toastmasters iyakwamukela izivakashi ekudleni: "izivakashi Sawubona! Young iyakwamukela kuleli gumbi futhi bameme kuthebula lomshado! ".
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