Ukungqubuzana enhlanganweni. Indlela ukuzixazulula?

Njengoba besingase ungathandi ukubuyela, kodwa izingxabano enhlanganweni, maye, akuyona into engajwayelekile. Kunalokho, isivele "le temibhalo yephrozi netindzaba ukuphila," kunokuba ngaphandle. Kulesi simo babhebhethekisa zonke izinhlobo zezinhlekelele, okwenza kanye abaphathi nabasebenzi abajwayelekile ukukhathazeka futhi abale zonke izinketho. Ezimweni ezinjengalezi kunzima zanamuhla ukuphila izingxabano enhlanganweni kwenzeke kaningi, ngoba imvelo ngokwayo sishubile kwaze kwaba sekugcineni.

Kodwa ngempela manje abangenayo nhlobo indlela yokuphuma, futhi ihlala yodwa ukuba sibekezelele? Futhi mhlawumbe kukhona ongakhetha ngangokunokwenzeka ukuze bazivikele eside izingxabano futhi uxazulule konke ngokuthula?

Ake sibheke iseluleko ochwepheshe nezazi zokusebenza kwengqondo ku izimo ingxabano. Ngakho, uma okukhulile noma izingxabano zenzeka ngezikhathi enhlanganweni, khumbula imithetho embalwa.

Okokuqala, uzibeka, bathi, endaweni yenduna (isibonelo, sithatha ke ezingqubuzana ikhanda hhayi nosebenza nabo noma abangaphansi ngoba indlela esimweni ngasinye kufanele kube ezahlukene ngokuphelele). Cabanga ukuthi, mhlawumbe, induna hhayi nje ngomashiqela, njengoba ucabanga. Uyazi ukuthi usuku lwakhe? Kuyinto akukho ngaphansi umthwalo wemfanelo kunawe. Futhi cishe ngisho ephakeme. Ngenhla kwenhloko yembuzi, futhi sibe abaphathi babo futhi umcele, cishe abangaphezu kuka-akufunayo. Zibeke esimweni sakhe, ngiyacabanga, lokhu ocace kakhudlwana.

Okwesibili. Cabanga ukuthi kungani waze wasebenza enza lo msebenzi? Zikhona noma iziphi izinto ezinhle ezikwenza ubambe kule ndawo? Mhlawumbe iholo akuyona ukuthi encane, noma nje abanalo nje nezinye iziphakamiso kanye nomholo owengeziwe. Mhlawumbe indawo yomsebenzi itholakala eduze nendlu noma imisebenzi akuzona eziyinkimbinkimbi kangaka futhi enze. Uma ugxile ezintweni ezakhayo, professional izingxabano ngeke kubonakale kuwe ngenakugwemeka ngakho okubi. Yonke indawo ngifuna ezicini ezinhle.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma izingxabano enhlanganweni wena isuswa ibhalansi, futhi ngeke benze lutho ngakho, zinike isifungo. Ngokwesibonelo, kufanele mina (kufanele) kobana kuqedwe ngaphambi kokuphela kwalo nyaka. Khona-ke Ngizothatha iholidi / ilivu yokugula kanye uqale kunzima ukuthola umsebenzi omusha. Musa ukuhlala ucabanga ukuthi wena ejokeni eziyizihibe manje ukusebenza lapha kukho konke ukuphila kwami omdala. Lutho neze. Wena cha kweleta lutho kunoma ubani, sengathi akekho kufanele. Enye into ukuthi kokushiya ngakho izingxabano, ungatholi isiqinisekiso sokuthi kulo msebenzi wakho omusha, nenhloko kuyoba "soft futhi Fluffy", futhi iqembu kahle esihlelwe. Ngingakujabulela abafuni akudumaza, kodwa-ke ngeshwa, kungase kwenzeke ukuthi umsebenzi omusha ongayilindela nezinkinga ezifanayo. Ngakho-ke, kusukela izingxabano akukuhle ukuba abaleke. Kumele sisebenze ngokwakho, ukuze bakwazi ukuthi cha futhi ukwazi amacebo yokuziphatha ezimweni ingxabano.

Iphuzu olandelayo, okuyinto kubalulekile ukukhumbula, ehola "ukulwa" - watch out for yokuthi bakhuluma. Uma singanqotshwa imizwelo, Umemezelani ukuthi ungasafuni ukusebenza endaweni enjalo, cabanga ngalokho okwenzekayo lapho ingxabano izobanjelwa? Futhi kuyodingeka. Kungenzeka ukuthi engabe kufanele ugcine isithembiso sami, noma ... ukuvuma babekhuluma iphutha.

Futhi okokugcina. Cabanga ngokuthi wena okwazi ukuzenza bahle? Ingabe ovumelana? Umuntu onalo ukunambitheka yayo, sakuleli inkhulumomphendvulwano, abagqoke kahle, elimnandi flavour fresh, ukuthi yini imikhuba emihle, inkulumo efanele uye, ungakwazi ukuziqhayisa ukuntula imikhuba emibi, ifika ngesikhathi, iqukethe umsebenzi wakho endaweni ehlanzekile, njll - ayikwazi ukukhiqiza okuvelayo kwabanye, kuhlanganise ababaphethe. Yiqiniso, lokhu akusona isiqinisekiso sokuthi ingxabano ngeke, kodwa ematfuba "kuhlasela engenabulungisa" kwabanye is ngqo ziyancipha. Abantu abanjalo ayahlonishwa.

Ukungqubuzana emsebenzini - akulona isizathu sicindezeleke.