Ubani zidinga ukwelashwa of ejaculation ngaphambi kwesikhathi?

Kanye engazinzile noma ngingekho ukwakhiwa ejaculation nisebancane e ncamashi amathathu ezivamile namadoda ezimbi kunazo nenkinga ocansini. Ngempela, injabulo encane, uma namanje ubukele othandweni ukuzijabulisa, uzwe injabulo amnandi, silindele izikhathi kujabulise futhi "umngane" yakho isivele hhayi friendly benza into yakhe futhi ushiye umdlalo. Ukudumazeka bobabili abangane bomshado, baphanga kwemizwelo, ukukhungatheka ... Futhi kuphela isenzakalo esisodwa, kanye futhi ejaculation ngokushesha iba kuyinsakavukela (kuyini, nge ncazelo, akukwazi) - igcwele ukubukeka izakhiwo, ukudabuka of ubudlelwano, ukuwohloka ophelele wokuphila obuseduze. Ngakho ukuthi ekwelapheni ejaculation nisebancane - hhayi into yesikhashana, kodwa ngempela.

Nokho, kubalulekile ukwenza ukubhuka ngesikhathi esisodwa: akuzona zonke amadoda abazibheka "skorostrelami" ukulungiswa empeleni kuyadingeka. Ubude besikhathi sokuya - into kumuntu nomuntu, kanti ukuhlolwa uyonakala luhlangotsi okukhulu. Uma senza uthando eside emva kwamaminithi ambalwa okuqala ukuba ukhulume ejaculation ngaphambi kwesikhathi futhi noma aphendukele ekuthengiseni kokungenela. Sexual hlangana nazo zonke Preludes, ozobakhona imizuzu engaba yishumi - ezingaphezu kuka evamile, ngoba isikhathi isilinganiso ubudlelwane 'emsulwa "ingeqi ngisho imizuzu emithathu ngokwesilinganiso. Kungaba kubhekwe ejaculation nisebancane kuphela okwenzeka cishe ngokushesha nje ngemva umthondo is afakwa esithweni sowesifazane, noma ngisho "emaphethelweni". Kuphela kuleli cala, inkinga kwenzeka futhi kungenziwa kubhekwe isifo, kodwa kulokhu kubalulekile ucabange indlela ukuqeda ejaculation ngaphambi kwesikhathi. Uma umuntu "waqhubeka" iminithi noma ngaphezulu, kungaba ngcono amasu akho ngokobulili, kodwa noma kunjalo hhayi 'ukhathele', ngaphandle kwalokho nje kungase kube isinyathelo sokuqala nokukhungatheka.

Ngakho, asikho isidingo ukuzifinyelela Nami futhi esibucayi, awudingi ukuba cabanga kwabo phansi. Ake kancane yakho nesibindi yokuthi cishe amaphesenti angu-35 nabesilisa eseluphele esithize waphawula ejaculation ngaphambi kwesikhathi. ingase ibe khona ehlukile Izizathu zalokhu. Mhlawumbe ezivamile - ukwesatshwa kokuba okungenasisekelo ucansi, besaba ukuthi ubulili bangase bahluleke. Uma ilungu ezisheshayo "sokwehlisa" umnikazi futhi ngokushesha bufinyelela siletha imiphumela efiselekayo, okuyinto kuvela ukuthi ngaphambi kwesikhathi. Kukhona nokwesaba elikhulayo ukuhluleka - futhi kwandisa amathuba ejaculation ngaphambi kwesikhathi. isifiso kakhulu njalo "nijabula" ingase futhi ukuthuthukisa ejaculation nisebancane - isibonelo, ukushaya indlwabu ngokweqile, injongo sole iyona zakuqala ukuthola ukwaneliseka. Ilungu uhlobo "ukujwayela" ngokushesha anikeze umnikazi oyifunayo futhi kamuva kakade yimuphi umsebenzi wocansi ngokushesha ejaculates. Yiqiniso, kukhona isifo - imithelela kuhlasimulise ukulimala ebuchosheni, iziyaluyalu hormone, izifo we ephansi umgogodla, kodwa iphesenti incane.

ngaphambi kwesikhathi yokwelashwa ejaculation wenziwa tinkhombandlela eziningana - omunye banganikeza uchwepheshe (futhi lena ukhetho best), lona omunye umuntu angakhetha owakho.

Umthelela omuhle is atholakala ngokusebenzisa izindlela ezahlukene zendawo ukuchayeka - greases nama-gel equkethe imithi ebulala izinzwa. Ukusebenzisa kwabo ngqo umthondo incipha ukuzwela yayo, okuvumela ukuba zidonse ocansini. Kukhona amakhondomu nalezi zokugcoba. Indlela muhle ngoba awunawo Izimo. Kodwa uma zisetshenziswa esikhundleni okugcoba ngenhloso efanayo ukunciphisa nozwela amaphilisi, kufanele uxhumane nodokotela.

yokwelapha yokuziphatha - ekwelapheni ejaculation ngaphambi kwesikhathi lapho indoda ebhekana nezinkinga, ngenkuthalo nangesineke kusiza umlingani. Ngu imizamo ngokuhlanganyela, ngokwenza amaphutha, besebenzisa amasu ahlukahlukene, njengokuthi "stop-isiqalo", kungenzeka ukuze zithole imiphumela emihle futhi ukubuyela esimweni esivamile "imizwelo engokwemvelo kokuziphatha" ilunga.

Ukuqeda indoda kusukela nomnyombo sifo ezicathama ukwesaba ezihlukahlukene, kahle kwengqondo, ufisa iphendukele ibheka amahloni kakhulu futhi amahloni. Empeleni, iziyaluyalu ngokobulili, njenganoma yiluphi isifo, akukho okuyihlazo nezimbi; Kule umbono ekwelapheni ejaculation nisebancane akulona ezahlukene, kwenta sibonelo, ngekuletsa ukwelapha izifo emathunjini noma nezinye izinkinga.