Self-kulinywe, Psychology
Uba kanjani namandla futhi beqiniseka kakhudlwana kuwe?
Izwe Ungahambisa kuphela labo bantu abakholelwa ngokwabo kanye namandla abo. Ukuphila kuyisipho into funny, ngoba kaningi engagcini lowo sinamandla ngokwenyama, umuntukazana onombono eqinile. Abanye bazama ukuyifihla ekhoneni, fihla, fihla kubantu uma ikhona, ngisho ukwehluleka ezincane kakhulu, kuyilapho ezinye sihlale sizolile futhi liyaqhubeka likholelwa ngokwakho, ngisho nalapho umhlaba wabo awe bhú phansi. Iyini imfihlo? Ingabe nidinga ukuba azalwe, na?
Lutho neze. Noma kungaba ncamashi lokho afuna. Ingabe kunzima ukwenza kanjalo? Yebo, kunzima, kodwa uma ukwazi zethembe, konke lokhu ukuphila kuyoba lula futhi ezingabizi ngawe. Umdlalo kuwufanele ikhandlela, futhi, ngakho-ke, umbuzo othi "Ngiba kanjani namandla?" olufanele zonke. Abawinile Asizalwa kodwa kukhona! Luck futhi ephelezelwa kuphela labo abakholwa ngokwabo.
Uba kanjani namandla futhi beqiniseka kakhudlwana
Umuntu ngamunye okuthile eziqhenya. Lokhu bangavuselwa wokwakha yabo maphakathi edolobheni elikhulu noma umdlalo esiphelele Checkers, kungashiwo ngemvume kwezigidi ezingu isivumelwano noma athethwe umncintiswano encane abangelutho - akunandaba yini into yokuziqhenya yakho, ngoba siqakathekile une-ke khona. Ilokhu uzikhumbuze ukunqoba kwakhe, futhi kusikhumbuza lokhu, kanye nabanye abantu (Ungeqisi it). Lokhu kuzokwenza ukuba uzethembe futhi kuzovumela ukufeza ngokunqoba entsha, okuyinto nakanjani Ungase futhi siziqhenye esikhathini esizayo.
Uba kanjani namandla futhi beqiniseka kakhudlwana? Kuyadingeka nje ukufunda indlela yokuzibekela imigomo. Khumbula ukuthi awukwazi nje sithathe futhi ufunde indlela ukundiza, umuntu wokuqala ifunda ukukhasa, bese - ukuhamba ke - ukusebenzisa, bese wayezokwazi ukuqala ngomfutho ukucabanga ngendiza. Move kusukela elula eyinkimbinkimbi - kuyokusiza ube eqiniseka kakhudlwana. Isikimu silula, kodwa empeleni isebenza.
Ungadumali ngenxa yamaphutha. Iqiniso lokuthi kukhona umuntu owayeyoba ungakaze ulahleke emhlabeni. abantu aqinile sihluke ababuthakathaka hhayi ngoba ngaso sonke isikhathi sinqobe, futhi lapho akazange adikibale abese. Lapho behlulwa. Kanjani ukuze abe namandla? Cabanga ukwehluleka njengesipho ukudalelwa, ozokusiza ngihlaziye kabusha isimo futhi beqala ukuthatha isinyathelo efaneleko.
Uba kanjani eqiniseka kakhudlwana? Ingabe lokho scares nawe. Into ngaphambilini ukuthi lokhu madness. Yini usafuna ukuqeda ukwesaba. Bheka ku amehlo abo ukuze abenze zinyamalale. Ningakholwa yimi? Thatha, kodwa-ke izame!
A ukubukeka kubaluleke kakhulu. Owesifazane mumbe ohlala uyacabanga ukuthi ukuba uhlamvu oqinile, kumelwe kuqala bavele nje ephelele. Kungani? Yebo, bonke ngoba ngokuvamile siyaba kahle ukuthi kubukeka sengathi. Noma ubani egqoke i suit ezibizayo ke yisikwele emahlombe akhe, njengoba lokhu suit kuzonezela ngokuzethemba. Indoda kufanele ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuya e ezemidlalo. Okokuqala, ngimenze emzimbeni, futhi leli phuzu kuzothinta ukholo lwakhe yedwa, kanti okwesibili, ngoba ngisho impumelelo kulencane emkhakheni wezemidlalo ngimenze uyaziqhenya. Umuntu wesifazane kufanele yini ngilihawukele imali ngathi ngokwethu, ngokungathi izinto ezibizayo kuzosiza azizwe ebalulekile kakhulu futhi izingqongqo.
Kanjani ukuze abe namandla? Khetha oyisibonelo futhi senze ngokufana nsé wawuyokwenza ukuthi indoda. Musa Trifle, bese ukhetha salokhu uliqhawe ngempela.
Amandla kanye nokuzethemba anikeze noma iluphi iphupho. Umuntu eba kuphela uma unento efunekayo. Awukwazi ukwenza leliphupho kwaba kalula nokwenzeka, kusukela ukusebenza yayo kungaba kabi ingaba nomthelela onjani kuwena. Makube nesinye futhi ekhuthazayo.
Namandla futhi beqiniseka ukuthi ube kungenzeka ngisho kudingekile. Injabulo empilweni kunzima ukunqoba, kodwa ngisho nzima uyibambe. Izwe akulula kangako sokunikela - udinga ukubhekana naso.
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