Njengoba enqwabelene ingane ukwesekwa?

ukulondeka ngokwezinto ezibonakalayo kwezingane - kungumsebenzi wabo bobabili abazali. Ngokuvamile, laba bazali yemfanelo ukuhambisana ngokuzithandela, ngenxa yokuthi bayazithanda izingane zabo futhi bafuna ukuba kube asikho isidingo. Nokho, kwenzeka ukuthi omunye wabazali iqala ukugwema ukwenza umsebenzi wakho. Kulokhu, omunye umzali unelungelo lokuthathwa njengomsulwa isicelo enkantolo ukuqokwa nesondlo.

Ngaphambi esibhekana ngayo umbuzo njengoba enqwabelene ingane support, ke ubuyisa kuwufanele ukuthi ukugcina izingane zabo nabazali aphoqelelwe, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ushadile noma abakhethe ukungatholi ukubhalisa nobuhlobo babo. Futhi, kungenzeka ukondla obushade naye emuva kwesehlukaniso walulama futhi ngombandela wokuthi abazali basaqhubeka washada.

Kufanele kuqashelwe ukuthi isikhalazo enkantolo akuyona imfuneko ukukhokhwa ukondla obushade naye emuva kwesehlukaniso. Abazali bangase ukungena esivumelwaneni yokuzithandela, okuzokwenza ucacise yokutakula ngendlela abebeziphilisa ngako. Yiqiniso, kungcono ukwenza zibhalwe futhi ukuqinisekisa idokhumenti ummeli olungisa izivumelwano. Kodwa uma umzali evades okuqukethwe yokuzithandela izingane zabo kufanele iphendukele umbango.

Impendulo yombuzo kanjani nesondlo ukhishwa iqukethwe Ikhodi Family. Ezimweni eziningi, ukuphoqelelwa nesondlo libalwa kwemali engenayo, okuyinto uthola umzali. Kukholakala ukuthi le ndlela engcono ikhonza izithakazelo ingane, ngoba nge kwesikhathi kungandisa engenayo lomzali. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kudingeka ucabangele leli phuzu ngokuthi ukwehla kwamandla emali.

inqubo enjalo yokukhokha kanye nokuvulwa yesondlo Kulula ngempela esimweni lapho umzali akusho ukufihla imali yabo nangokwethembeka ingxenye nesondlo. Nokho, namuhla, zikhona amabhizinisi lapho izisebenzi zikhokhelwa "grey" bakhokhe ukuze ugcine on izintela. Kulokhu, uma umzali kungaba yinto engalungile, leyo ngane ngeke ukwazi ukuthola lokho ukweletwa ngumthetho.

By the way, inani ukwesekwa, okuyinto basolwa ngokuthi amaphesenti Amaholo zingandiswa, uma nani lincane ukunikeza iholo elihambelana lomsebenzi wabo nengane. Ngakho singathola ahluleli abazali abonakele abafihla imali yabo.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, kusimo yilezo izingane ezinabazali imali engazinzile noma aphethwe ngokusemthethweni umsebenzi, ukukhokha ukondla obushade naye emuva kwesehlukaniso. Ezimweni ezinjalo, ngoba befuna ingane ngconywana ayinikeze nokukhokhwa nani. Kuphela kubalulekile ukuze ucacise ushintsho olukhulu ngezithunywa kwamandla emali, kungenjalo kunani elikhokhwayo ingaba yincane kakhulu futhi ayikwazanga ukuhlinzeka izidingo ingane eminyakeni embalwa.

Yini anikezwa ukondla obushade naye emuva kwesehlukaniso, uma umzali unesinye umndeni, okuyinto futhi babe nezingane ezincane? Kulokhu, uma ukondla obushade naye emuva kwesehlukaniso, bathweswe icala njengoba amaphesenti nomholo, ubungako bawo ungabuyekezwa, kucatshangelwa isimo sezimali kokubili imikhaya.

Isamba semali yesondlo singashintshwa ukuze wehlise, uma ingane has a yengeniso. Yiqiniso, lapha asikhulumi ngesimo lapho ingane waphoqeleka ukuba ngiye emsebenzini, ngoba lemali ukuthi uyikhokhe njengemali ukondla obushade naye emuva kwesehlukaniso, kwakungenakwenzeka ukuba baphile. Isibonelo iholo, ngenxa okuyinto zingancishiswa ngu inani ukwesekwa, zingakhiqiza khona ingane endlini yakhe, okuyinto yaqashiswa. Noma ezinye impahla engenisa imali.

Noma nini kungase kuphakame Umbuzo njengoba ukondla obushade naye emuva kwesehlukaniso unikelwa uma bazo babengebona oshadile futhi uyise enqaba ukubhalisa umntwana omncani lo ebizweni lakhe. Kulesi simo, unina womntwana ekuqaleni uzodinga ukufaka icala ukusungula ubuyise, futhi uma kuyintando ukuhlangabezana nesondlo izoqoqwa njengenjwayelo.

Kunoma yikuphi, uma kukhona izingxabano ekukhokhweni ukondla obushade naye emuva kwesehlukaniso noma injongo, kumele uxhumane ummeli ukukusiza ukuxazulula le nkinga.