Ngomunye unyaka, wahlala, unjengobamba inja iminyaka 7 ekuphileni kwebantfu?

Kwelinye izimakethe ezindala umlingisi wathi le nkulumo kanje: "inja yethu Danny engu-14, kuba njengokungathi uma wena noma mina besiyoba yiminyaka engu-98." Lokhu ukukhangisa ethandwa kuzoqinisa inganekwane ukuthi ngonyaka owodwa ikhalenda ilingana iminyaka eyisikhombisa womuntu inja, kodwa yena yakhipha senze Danny, abaneminyaka kuye amashumi eminyaka. Nakuba la manga futhi usiza abathandi inja uqonde kangcono izigaba zokuphila, okuwukholo okwathi ngalo imfuyo yabo, izazi ziyavuma ukuthi uhlelo alulungile, ikakhulukazi esikhathini lapho inja ifinyelela isiqongo sayo. Kodwa kufanele wenzenjani-ke? Kanjani ukubala yobudala inja, ukwethula ngaye njengendoda enokholo? It kuvela ukuthi kukhona isixazululo, futhi umphumela incike isiqongo yentuthuko inja yakho, kanye nobukhulu zohlobo.

ukuphila inja futhi ukuthuthukiswa kwesizini yokunika

Nakuba kungase lihunyushelwe inja iminyaka womuntu, inqubo ayikwazi kuyehla kube ukubuyabuyelela elula. Iqiniso lokuthi dogs ukukhuthazwa zokuphila akuyona yomugqa, futhi ingahluka kakhulu kuye zohlobo futhi ngobukhulu besikhumba saleso silwane. Ngokwesibonelo, izinja ukuthuthukisa ngokushesha kakhulu onyakeni wokuqala wokuphila kwakhe, esakhula kule nkathi, ngokushesha mayelana amabili izikhathi ezingaphezu kwabantu. Khona-ke, ijubane ukuthuthukiswa kancane kancane, ngenxa eza ubuhlobo, kufana ngaphezulu kumuntu unyaka owodwa ukuze eziyisikhombisa inja.

Uhlelo esinembile

Uma udinga uhlelo ngawo ungabala engu-isilwane sakho iminyaka engu womuntu, kubalulekile ukucabanga ukuthi ekupheleni konyaka wokuqala wokuphila, unjengobamba inja iminyaka womuntu 15. Ukuze ngonyaka wokuphila wesibili asigcini amadoda 9, ukuze senja iminyaka womuntu 24, lapho-ke ngeke ukugubha usuku lokuzalwa yayo yesibili. Khona-ke udinga ukwengeza iminyaka womuntu 4 kuya 6 njalo ngonyaka wokuphila yenja, kuye ngokuthi lingakanani inja. Ngoba izinja ezincane kuwufanele konyaka we womuntu ukuthatha iminyaka emine kokuphakathi - emihlanu, kodwa ezinkulu - eminyakeni eyisithupha.

Umehluko in inani izinja

Uma uthi nhlá, umehluko kungenzeka kubonakale kakhulu, kodwa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi kube aqoqana. Kwaphela iminyaka emihlanu kuyimi e izinhlobo ezinkulu abafinyelela eminyakeni yobudala engu iminyaka engu-36 futhi abhekwa amadala. Inja isilinganiso ngonyaka owodwa ngaphezulu, futhi kulonyaka kokuba afinyelele lapho ngineminyaka eyisithupha ubudala. Njengoba izinja ezincane, basuke kubhekwe abadala kuphela ngemva ngomnyaka wesikhombisa ka-ukuphila. Kuthiwani Danny ukukhangisa? Ubukhulu bayo esasiphakathi medium and enkulu, futhi engu - engu-14. Ngakho, eneminyaka engu-78-88 ubudala, okungukuthi, izikhangiso overstated iminyaka engu-10-20.