Izilinganiso ngobuhlungu, kungani kwenzeka futhi kanjani ayibulale

Ngenxa silulumagama yayo encane, indoda ubiza igama elithi "ubuhlungu" konke lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho lokho kwamlethela ukungakhululeki yesikhashana. Eqinisweni, ubuhlungu - lokhu okusenhliziyweni yami kuze kube phakade. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, umuzwa ukubelesela sidilize isigqi umoya, kancane kusulwe, kodwa ungalokothi ukhohlwe. Lokhu kwehluke kakhulu kuya ubuhlungu samanje ngokomzwelo ukudideka yesikhashana, futhi kuphela izingcaphuno ezimbalwa mayelana ubuhlungu, ongabonisa kwalasha zokuphila kwabantu nokuthi kusukela lapho kuphakama

Uthando nobungane

umuntu isebuhlungwini uqobo kuphela, bakwazi ukuqonda yokuhlushwa ngokwengqondo kwabanye. Le ndoda ze dazula, sayiqonda lokho okungaphakathi, ngaphansi izimbambo, phakathi kwenhliziyo namaphaphu, ngesinye isikhathi kukhona ukuqhuma libonwe ngaphambili. Phambi kwamehlo ami kukhona emhlophe kuthi bani ukukhanya, bese umuntu asisekho. Akekho ayazi ngaphambi.

Uthando ubungani - umuzwa enhle, kodwa akekho usephephile nobuqili ukuthi Ungamlandela futhi izingcaphuno ngobuhlungu enhliziyweni yami - ubufakazi:

• "Ungavuli phambi yonke imiphefumulo, efana incwadi, kungenjalo kuyoba kungenzeka ukwazi ubuhlungu okuphakade sokukhaphela."
• "Inkulumo Human kuyaqabukela ubuhlungu. Abantu benza zikhulunywa, abantu okwakuphume abangayilindele. "
• "Ozithandayo kuphela likhiphe inhliziyo waba yizicucu."
• "Diving deliriously mathupha, khumbula: ulahlekelwa ngokwakho, ubuhlungu umphefumulo oke."
• "Angifuni ukuba engozini kakhudlwana, kusuka ngesikhathi sokugcina kwakubuhlungu kakhulu."

Dooming ngokwabo ukuba ubuhlungu

Quotes ngobuhlungu - ke kuwubufakazi elincane uma ngaphambi ubuhlungu kwakungekuhle ke abantu kuzofuneka neze wavumelana akubekezelele. Ngokusobala, kuyinto ebalulekile udumo nokuphila kwabantu. Ukuze indawo ukukhumbula wacaphuna "The Little Prince": "Angifuni ukukulimaza, kodwa ufuna ukuba ngifike yokulawula wena." Njengoba umlingisi losemcoka wathi Lysenko. Mhlawumbe umuntu ubuye impungushe kancane ofuna zingezokuthanjiswa, ngithandwa futhi ngivikelekile?

Ake ke ngeke zihlale phakade, kodwa umuntu ethanda ukukhokhela izikhathi ubuhlungu injabulo. Frederic Beigbeder wake wathi: "Inhliziyo is kuyelelwe bonyana akukafaneli kuphulwe yangaphambili, hhayi ngokusuka enhliziyweni." Izilinganiso ngobuhlungu basho izinto ezimbili: okokuqala, umuntu efuna injabulo, dooming ngokwabo ukuba ukuhlupheka. Okwesibili, ngoba esezwa ukuhlaba yangempela ngokomzwelo, uzama ayibulale.

Ngingalutholaphi ukuthola induduzo?

Othile uthi isikhathi aphulukise, kodwa ngaphawula Erich uMariya baye bathi: "Isikhathi akusho amanxeba, nje anaesthetises nabo nakho ezintsha, imizwa, imicabango." Izilinganiso ngobuhlungu Kuvame ukuthiwa bantu bazama ukukhohlwa lwaluvelaphi, sithembele isikhathi, umuzwa omusha noma uthando:

• "Ngalobo busuku ngabona ukuthi kungani ubaba eqala ukuphuza lapho unina eshona. Ngalobo busuku, vodka kwakunjani-mpilo ngokungaphandle-umlilo. "
• "Isikhathi kusiza ukuze uthumele hit kuphela, kodwa njalo ekuseni, ukuvula amehlo akhe, uyozizwa ukulahlekelwa."
• "Ngezinye izikhathi kungcono ukuba yedwa - ke muntu ngeke ubuhlungu."
• "Nosikilidi, ukuze kubulawe izinzwa - intuthu exhale ukudabuka."
• "Ukuze ukhohlwe ubuhlungu, kubalulekile ukuba ugxile ezintweni kancane."

Into olukhohlisayo - usizi. Izilinganiso ongamtshela eziningi: indlela aphile nalo, indlela ayibulale futhi uvelaphi. Kodwa izitatimende ezimbalwa kakhulu amandla itholakala ubuhlungu. Kuphela kwabawazi ubuhlungu bangempela akwazi ukuxoxa engakaze ibonwe eziphakeme. Yebo, ungenza umuntu kancane luhlaza, ongenandaba nabanye kodwa uyohlale eqotho, ngoba uyazi ukuthi umphefumulo lomunye ethambile. Futhi kukhunjulwe kuwufanele: umuntu ophathwe kabi angase alale, futhi isizathu saso - neze.