Izidakamizwa phakathi intsha esikhulakhulile: izimbangela, izimpawu, ukusiza

izidakamizwa phakathi kwentsha .... Uma emhlabeni bi? Izidakamizwa aziyona eyingozi ngokwedlulele kunoma ubani futhi nganoma isiphi yobudala - basuke angagcina nje umzimba (nakuba umthelela wabo kuyethusa ngempela), kodwa futhi umphefumulo, ephoqa ukwenza izenzo aphansi futhi ezimbi. Kodwa intokazi, ezikhulayo nokuthuthukisa, izidakamizwa ziyingozi izikhathi eziningi mkhulu kulokuthi umuntu.

Kunengqondo ukuphetha ngokuthi ezweni lethu bahileleke, ubonisa futhi izinkulumo ngezingozi zokusebenzisa izidakamizwa, njalo ukunyusele nokuvinjelwa kabi izidakamizwa phakathi entsheni, kodwa njalo ngonyaka isibalo sabantu abasha abazithola bedle lo mkhuba esabekayo, zonke okwandisa nokukhuphula. Siyini isizathu salokhu eziyimbangela yalokhu, futhi kungani amalungu ezingavikelekile kakhulu zalo obschastva zethu ngokuya baba yizisulu yizidakamizwa? Kunezizathu eziningana, phakathi okuyinto esemqoka okuthiwa "imfashini izidakamizwa" sikanye intsha kanye nabantu abasha, kanye ilukuluku ukuthi odlulela Ngokuzayo yezidakamizwa phezu oshelelayo. Ochwepheshe bathi izingozi ezithile izimbangela zokuba umlutha wento intsha ukuthi umuntu othile owayephunyukile wazama izidakamizwa eziyingozi okokuqala, uzizwa emnandi kakhulu - ivame ukuba singaziphindi, ukuzizwa futhi, okubangela ukuba umlutha, hhayi kuphela izidakamizwa (ukungakwazi bayayeka ukuphuza imikhiqizo ngenxa ithuthuka ngokushesha ukuhoxiswa syndrome), kodwa futhi ngengqondo noma luncike injabulo olunikezwa izidakamizwa.

Isikhathi esining impela isizathu ekuqaleni ekuphathweni izidakamizwa kwezidakamizwa sekuba ubungani eyeve eshumini nambili manje Peer kakade ulwazi oluthile ku ukuziphatha "Freaky" yokuphila. Okubizwa ngokuthi intsha kunzima ukucabanga ukuthi yezidakamizwa nabangane uzokwazi esikhundleni esikoleni kanye nomndeni, ikakhulukazi uma izinto zingasahambi kahle ayakhula kakhulu. Isimo okuphambene - inkampani ngempela elichumayo lapho ingane esifisa ukuze ube umholi, okuyinto isiqala ukubonakala uqobo kanye okuvela ezinhlangothini ezihlukahlukene, kuhlanganise izama kubhekwe omdala ngokusetshenziswa kabi utshwala, ugwayi noma izidakamizwa kwezidakamizwa.

Ukuhlukunyezwa kwezidakamizwa phakathi kwentsha mkhuba, ngeshwa, ngokuvamile kakhulu, ngakho-ke Kuhle ukukhumbula hhayi kuphela mayelana nezizathu ukuthuthukiswa yayo - udaba ebaluleke kakhulu kangakanani nendlela yokuzigwema ukuze zingasivimbi lesi simanga. Njengoba isikhathi ukuqaphela ukuthi ingane yakho, baqala ukusebenzisa izidakamizwa kwelashwa? Nakani ushintsho kancane ekuziphatheni kwakhe - ukucasuka ngokweqile, ukozela kanye ukucobeka, noma, Ngakolunye uhlangothi, hyperactivity futhi ukungakwazi ukugxilisa, nokucija, ekusithekeni, kanye isimo esibi wezempilo kanye ushintsho ukunambitheka izintandokazi (kufika ku umbuso ushintsho nokudla nokusungulwa). Yiqiniso, kule nkathi uqale izinkinga ekufundeni, ukuphikisana njalo nabangani nabazali, kanye nokuthuthukiswa sokuncika ukuluthwa phakathi kwentsha kubonakala ekulahlekelweni endlini zezimpahla zenani elikhulu kanye nemali.

Catching ngesikhathi ingane wakhe baqaphela oyiphunga eyinqaba noma ngeziphambeko okuncane ukuziphatha evamile, kumelwe sithathe isinyathelo ngokushesha, kodwa ningatatazeli futhi ungakhathazeki. Kubalulekile ukuqonda isimo - akusho ukuthi ingane yakho ibe umlutha real, phela, mhlawumbe, ibhungu nje umuthi "ngoba inkampani," noma ukuthi bayabakhathalela, kodwa akukho isifiso ukuphinda isipiliyoni engazizwa. Kumele kukhunjulwe ukuthi abazali kufanele babe abangane nabasizi, hhayi okwakushiwo ababemmangalela bese izitha yengane yabo. Kuyadingeka ukucacisa izimo indodana noma indodakazi okokuqala ngidla izidakamizwa ngaphansi kwazo, futhi kuphela ke unqume ukuthi ungakwazi ukubhekana nesimo bebodwa, noma ngaphandle kosizo onguchwepheshe lubaluleke. Kubaluleke ngokukhethekile ukuba ukusekela ingane kwenzeka ukuthi yena ngokwakhe wavuma isipiliyoni sakhe - Ungayeka ukuba umlutha phakathi kwentsha enqotshwa iqhaza friendly, ukunakekela kanye nekhambi esifike ngesikhathi kuzo zonke izinkinga ingane.