Isongo Purple, noma kanjani ukushintsha ukuphila kwakho ezinsukwini 21. Izibuyekezo

Eminyakeni embalwa edlule yena uvele ukudayiswa isongo onsomi, elikwaziyo ngcono izimpilo zabantu bonke ezingu-21 nje kuphela. Ingabe kuyiqiniso lokhu?

Indlela Bonke baqala?

Eminyakeni ecishe ibe ngu-10 edlule, ngo-ezikude 2006, Will Bowen ezichazwe lapho ebhala incwadi "Izwe Elingenabo izikhalazo" indlela ukushintsha ukuphila kwakho iwenze ube ngcono. indlela elandelayo: ukubeka ezandleni isongo onsomi futhi uzigqoka kwenye ingalo izinsuku ezingu-21 zilandelana. Nokho, catch wukuthi ngalesi sikhathi ngeke ingathukutheli, okhalazayo, inhlebo kanye ukugxeka. Uma lokhu kwenzeka, i-isongo ngokushesha iyiswe nezinye ingalo, futhi counter izinsuku kuyinto kabusha 0. Khona-ke besuka lonke futhi.

ezifana kanjani umbono kungenzeka eze kumpristi? Ngokuvamile, akekho anaka, ukuthi abaholi abaningi esontweni ukuxhumana ababesonta nokuzwa nokuvuma, ngakho Will Bowen ukubuka izivakashi ithempeli likaNkulunkulu kungekho izinkinga. Futhi lezi kokuma neze yize. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, waqaphela ukuthi abantu ikakhulukazi kuthiwa fixated ezintweni ezingekho, okuyinto yona le imizwelo yabantu kanye nemizwelo liwohloka, yingakho kukhona izinkinga kanye ukuphila eba. Futhi indoda, engaboni ukuthi imicabango yayo kuphela ukwenza kube okubi nakakhulu, aqhubeka esekhala ngokuthi "eziyinkimbinkimbi" futhi "ezingenamsebenzi" ukuphila, ukuba unganelisekile ngokwabo, ukukhononda nokuhleba.

umbono omuhle kakhulu

Umpristi wacabanga: kanjani ukushintsha izimpilo zalaba "izingozi" abantu, uma uzosusa zonke ezimbi aphume ikhanda lakho, ayeke ukuhleba, okhalazayo futhi bacindezele ngokwakho? Ngakho umqondo, wazalwa cishe isongo onsomi. Izibuyekezo mayelana le ndlela, ezihlukahlukene, kodwa isibalo oda omuhle ezidlula ephakeme.

Kungani onsomi? Ngaso nje leso sikhathi ngangineminyaka vogue onsomi, ngaphezu, lokhu umbala elifanekisela ubuhle nokuthanda umakhelwane.

yi imibono

Lo mbono lafika engqondweni abantu abaningi, kanye nezimpilo zalabo abaye bazama, isishintshe kakhulu futhi nakanjani kube ngcono. Abangane nezihlobo zalezo izimpilo zazo kwashintshwa lapho ebona yalokho, kakhulu, bajoyine ukunyakaza. Ngakho, abantu abangaba yizigidi ezingu-7 baye bashintsha ukuphila kwabo, besebenzisa isongo onsomi izinsuku ezingu-21. Izibuyekezo balaba bantu - ubufakazi engcono.

Manje, lezi namasongo zidayiswa yonke indawo. Futhi akubona nje onsomi. Obomvu, oluhlaza, ophuzi, omnyama - yimuphi umbala ne Ikhona yini imibhalo: "Izwe ngaphandle izikhalazo," "Ngifuna uthando," "I do it!", "Ngingumfana sasinamandla ukwedlula ukwesaba!". La mazwi enqubweni self-ngcono.

Kodwa awuzithengi lezi namasongo. Ungathenga ikhona, okuzokwenza ukuheha, wenze ngawo manipulations efanayo. Isimo kuphela ukuthi akumele lisuswe lize sagged ezingu-21 ku-ngesandla esisodwa. Ngakho kuyoba esandleni ngesikhathi ilele, ukudla, uma ushawa ageze ku ichibi. Kuyinto efiselekayo ukuthi kwaba zenjoloba noma okungenani asesabi amanzi, waqina futhi wamelana eminingi kokuthatha off nokubeka ngakolunye uhlangothi.

Izinzuzo le ndlela

Njengoba wazi, ukuze umshado uphumelele futhi ujabulise - kungcono lahlukene imisebenzi. Futhi uma uya ngohlelo "Purple Isongo - ezingu-21", ungafunda engaka:

• Ukulawula imicabango yakho siqu. Njengoba kuyinto eyaziwayo, futhi ezindaweni eziningi achazwe, konke iqala nge umcabango. Uba ujabula ngokungaphezulu uma ukucabanga okwakhayo zonke ngifisa injabulo nokuchuma. Lapho bonke imicabango imayelana ezimbi, cabanga ngazo zonke izinto abantu ababi futhi ubone izwe ngemibala grey, isongo onsomi kuzosiza ekuthuthukiseni ukulawula imicabango yabo ngosizo okuyinto sizokwazi ukuqaphela nokucabanga okungekuhle kabusha kube omuhle.
• Uyoba ithuba lokuya ezijulile ngokwakho futhi baqonde yonke essence yayo, ngenxa ukufeza ngokuvumelana ukuthuthukisa indlela esibukeka ngayo.
• Ithuba elihle kakhulu ukuhlola ngokwabo ekuqineni futhi uthole umkhawulo bezikhwepha zabo, futhi sihlakulele omunye izimfanelo ewusizo ezifana isiyalo, ukucindezeleka, umuzwa injongo. Awudingi amazwi owengeziwe wokuqonda ukuthi lezi zici ayazise kumuntu emhlabeni wanamuhla.

izingibe

Ngemva kokufunda konke okungenhla, ungase ucabange: 'Kuhle lokho. Ekugcineni, nje wathenga isongo onsomi, ezingu-21 ababa nesifo sohudo yakhe, ngizakusindiswa aphumelele, lokushintsha ukucabanga kwabo, mina uyozizwa Mina nomkhaya wami izinyathelo zokuqondisa izigwegwe. Kulula kanjalo, udinga kuphela izinsuku ezithile 21! ".

Kodwa musa ukwakha izinqaba emoyeni ngokushesha. Akungabazeki ukuthi nale ndlela ungakwazi ngempela uthole konke kuchaziwe ngenhla. Kodwa kukhona isimo nesincane. Lokhu kuzodinga ukwenza Kusaphazwa umzamo.

Omunye uzothi: "NgingumKristu futhi ngingomunye umuntu omuhle kakhulu futhi omuhle, okungadingi obulimaza." Kodwa cishe njalo sithi, hhayi eqaphela umfudlana engemihle ochithekile phezu konke engqondweni yami. Ngakho-ke, abantu abaningi abagcini nje musa sukuma ukugqoka isongo onsomi ngokuqhubekayo amahora 21, ukushintsha izingubo osukwini lwakhe lokuqala noma izikhathi ezimbalwa kweshumi. Ngemva kosuku lokuqala ke ubeka kucace ukuthi self-ngcono kuzothatha izikhathi eziningi isikhathi esingaphezulu kwezinsuku 21. Ukuze uqhathanise, kakhulu Will Bowen walithatha 3 izinyanga, futhi lokhu inceku kaNkulunkulu, kulandela imiyalo. Yini ukukhuluma kwabantu abavamile.

Yebo, akubona bonke zingamelana, uthi, izinyanga eziyisithupha, wamshaya isongo onsomi ngakolunye uhlangothi kuya kolunye. Ikakhulukazi uma kwenzeka entanjeni. Kodwa lokhu akusho ukuthi ngeke kufanele usebenzise le ndlela. Abantu ababeka ukuyeka inqubo kanye uzuza okuhlangenwe nakho olukhulu, ufunde mayelana ngokwabo, imikhawulo nobuthakathaka babo. Ngakho-ke, uma kukhona umbuzo mayelana yini noma cha ukuzama noma cha ukugqoka isongo onsomi ezingu-21 Izibuyekezo ekufanelekelayo ukufundwa bese ubuza labo baye baphendukela kudlule uhlelo, futhi nalabo abangamkhonzi. Kubhekwe le mininingwane, uzicabangele wena. Impendulo efika engqondweni: "Kudingekile."

Indlela kudlule Yiqiniso "isongo Purple?"

Nesitfunti kulolu vivinyo futhi baphume kulo winner, kuzomele uqale ukulungiselela zokuziphatha. Umuntu ngamunye kungathatha amanani angalingani isikhathi - kusuka amahora, ukuthi, ngenyanga. Ngokuvamile, ukuthatha inkambo yokuzibusa ngcono "isongo Purple, noma kanjani ukushintsha ukuphila kwakho ezinsukwini 21", kudingeka uqaphele mayelana izinyathelo ezilandelayo:

• Ukuze uqonde imbangela noma injongo: kungani kunesidingo. Njengoba wazi, ukuya "kukhona abazi lapho" kuyize, kusukela cishe ze buya. Ngakho kudingeka wazi ngokucacile futhi uqonde ukuthi kungani kudingeka bagqoke. Ngesinye isikhathi, lapho izinzwa kuzodlula, kanye izandla sehle, kuba umgomo wakho konke ukukhandleka nakangaka kungaba donsa amandla amasha.
• Ngokushesha anqume ukuya ekupheleni - ukugqoka isongo onsomi. Uma unomuzwa wokuthi lokhu amasu ngenhloso nje ukuzama ke kufanele wathi ngesikhathi esisodwa - lokhu kuyindlela ukunqoba, njengoba isivele kwemizwa ukuhambisa le nkambo uma kungaphumeleli. Ngakho-ke, isimo sengqondo okufanele sibe "Yima Ukufa ungadikibali ngisho esikhathini esinzima kakhulu."
• Kholwa ngokwakho. Ngaphandle kwayo, hhayi ngisho nokuzihlupha kokuqala. Ngingahamba kanjani ukuba ngempela nenkinga enzima, lapho isitha main - wena ngokwakho, ngaphandle kokukholwa lihle ngokwakho. Futhi, ningabalaleli abanye abantu ngakho futhi embuzweni indlela ekhethiwe, njengoba nje ukuhlolwa kwakho okuyinto kuzokuqinisa kunjalo.

Akufanele bayeke

Futhi kanjalo, ungalilahli ithemba, kwakungenakwenzeka ukuba kudlule inqubo. Wonke umuntu uhlukile, futhi abaningi yaleli su, mhlawumbe hhayi kukhiqizwa siletha imiphumela efiselekayo, futhi namanje imbangela kuphela inzondo ukucasuka. Into eyinhloko ukuthi baye bazama ukwenza lokhu ngokuvula intandokazi, futhi eqaphela ukuthi bangenzani, bakuphi "ukuvala abacaphuni."