Umuntu uyisimo senhlalakahle. Ujwayele ukuhlala emphakathini futhi azizwa enganeliseki yedwa. Ezimayini kukhona amayunithi athambekele, nakuba wonke umuntu adinga isikhala sakhe siqu futhi engekho autopsy kwabangaphandle. Kodwa ukuhlala emphakathini futhi ukukhululeka kukho akunakwenzeka. Yingakho sonke sixhunyiwe ngezintambo ezibonakalayo nezingabonakali nabanye abantu abaningi: izihlobo, abangane, abajwayele, osebenza nabo ngisho nalabo esihlangana nabo ngengozi emgwaqweni noma ezokuthutha.
Izisekelo zendawo yokuhlala yabantu
Indlela yokwakha ubuhlobo nabantu, ebhaliwe eziningi zemihlahlandlela yesenzo. Futhi sonke siyazi imiyalo engu-10, nokuthi iqiniso lokuthi sidinga ukuphatha abanye njengoba sifuna ukuba basiphathe. Kodwa-ke, ukukhuluma ngothando nokubekezelelana njengemigomo ebaluleke kunazo zonke yezibopho ezingokomoya ezivumelanako, siyikhohlwa ngekhwalithi eyodwa, engabonakali nakancane. Kuwumthwalo wemfanelo - ngaphambi kokuthile nokuthile. Futhi emva kwakho konke konke kusekelwe kulo: umndeni, umsebenzi, impilo, umsebenzi. Futhi hhayi kuphela kumuntu siqu, kodwa nakwezinga jikelele. Kusho ukuthini ukuba umuntu onokwethenjelwa? Ake sizame ukugqamisa le nkinga kusuka ezinhlangothini ezahlukene.
Kusukela elula kuya eziyinkimbinkimbi
Okokuqala, mhlawumbe, kufanele kube yinto evumelekile. Khumbula, njengokusho kwezwi elithi: "Nika igama!" Ngakho-ke, ukugcina izithembiso, ukuphendula ngamagama akho, ukuhambisana nabo, ukuphonsa emoyeni - yilokho okusho ukuthi ube umuntu ophetheyo. Futhi kungamakhulu nezincane! Umqondo wokuphoqelelwa kufanele ukhuliswe kusukela ebuntwaneni. Isibonelo sokuqala sokuthi kusho ukuthini ukuba umuntu onomthwalo wemfanelo: umama wamyala ukuba ahlanze indodakazi yakhe, wathembisa ukukwenza, kodwa wadlala, ukhohlwa. Kusihlwa, izivakashi zifika ngokungalindelekile, futhi indlu iyisimila. Ubani ozosilahla? Kulungile, Mama. Futhi ngenxa yesifo, kanye nendodakazi, engakafundile ukuphikisana nezithembiso. Futhi uma, ngemva kwalokho okwenzekayo, abantu abadala baqhuba ingxoxo yezemfundo nengane, bazosiza ukubona ukuthi nguye obeka wonke umuntu esimweni esingakhululekile - isifundo sendodakazi ngokuthi kusho ukuthini ukuba umuntu onomthwalo wemfanelo kuzokwenziwa njalo.
Unembeza nomthwalo wemfanelo
Isibopho simane nje sidingekile ukufundisa izingane kulezo zindlu lapho izingane eziningana zikhula khona noma zikhona iziguli ezigulayo, ezingenakuzisiza. Ukufudumala nokukhonza itiye likagogo omdala, uthole amaphuzu alahlekile, uthathe umfowenu ngaphandle kwensimu noma umnike ukudla isidlo sakusihlwa, hlola izifundo zodadewethu - abazali bangazinakekela izingane zabo ezineminyaka engu-10-11.
Ingane izoqonda maduzane ukuthi kusho ukuthini ukuba umuntu onokwethenjelwa uma kukhona okubaluleke kakhulu kuye kuxhomeke kuye. Kulokhu, isigaba esinjalo sokuziphatha njengonembeza sizoqondakala futhi sisondelane naye. Futhi uma osemusha ezama ukuphuma esikoleni ngesikhathi kodwa hhayi ngenxa yokuthi abazali bakhe bahlambalaza, kodwa ngenxa yokuthi ugogo wakhe umlindele ekhaya, ngubani ongakwazi ukuthola ukudla esiqandisini, noma inja edingeka ukuhamba, akudingeki achaze ukuthi kusho ukuthini Indoda enomthwalo wemfanelo ophezulu. Futhi esikhathini esizayo, ekubeni umuntu omdala, ngeke asabe ukunakekelwa izihlobo zakhe noma abantu abangaziwa emahlombe akhe. Futhi ukuhlala eduze kwakhe kuyoba nethemba.
Ingabe inganekwane ingamanga?
"Emncintiswaneni Omncane" ka-Antoine Exupery kukhona inkulumo, ehlala isikhathi eside futhi eqinile ibe yimaphiko: "Sinesibopho kulabo abaye baqeda." Ihlobene ngokuqondile nalokho okusho ukuthi kube nesibopho ekuqondeni kwethu. Iqhawe lika-Exupery lashiya iplanethi yakhe futhi yahamba ngoba yacasuka uRosa - imbali enhle, kodwa ingenangqondo kakhulu futhi ingenasiphelo. Isikhulu sasicabanga ukuthi uRosa wayengumuntu othanda ukuziphendulela, engazange abheke ukunakekelwa kwakhe nokukhathalela kwakhe, wayekhathalela yena kuphela. Akazange aqonde iqiniso elilula: uma uswele, lokhu kuyinjabulo enkulu. UFox ohlakaniphile wavulela amehlo akhe iqhawe. Wachaza ukuthi eMhlabeni nakuba ayebona ama-roses amaningi, lowo okhula eplanethi yakhe usabalulekile kakhulu. Ngoba abathandekayo kuphela ababa abangashadile. Futhi ngenxa yabo bazibeka engozini, bazidela ngokwabo, bahlupheke izinkinga. Futhi njalo babuyela kubathandekayo babo. Emva kwakho konke, wazincenga, futhi-wena. Ngakho isikhulu siphenduka ekhaya, ngoba silinde, Rose, sadabukile, futhi akekho omele amnakekele! Yingakho udinga ukuba ngumuntu onomthwalo wemfanelo: uyathembeka, futhi awukwazi ukukhohlisa ukwethemba kwakho, awunalo ilungelo. Kodwa lo mfilosofi omncane wenza isipho sobukhosi ngempela kumshayeli. Uyeluleka ngezikhathi zokuzizwa unesizungu futhi uncibilike ukuze ubheke kaningi esibhakabhakeni futhi ukhumbule: lapho, phakathi kwenani elingapheli lamanye izinkanyezi ezikhanyayo, kukhona - iplanethi yeNkosana encane. Futhi kuyo isikhulu siphinde sibheke esibhakabhakeni, sifuna uMhlaba phakathi kothuli lwegolide, sicabange ngomshayeli wakubo. Futhi mayelana neFox. Futhi uma wazi ukuthi endaweni ethile kude kunenhliziyo ekuthandayo - uyeka ukuba nesizungu!
Yileyo ndlela imithwalo yemfanelo, ukuhlonipha, ukunakekelwa nothando kuhlangene ngayo, ukwakha ikhodi yokuziphatha yomuntu ngamunye.