Insiza yokusiza izingane: inamba eyodwa, izincwajana kanye nezithombe. Usuku Lwezinsiza Zengane Zomhlaba Wonke

Bonke abantu badinga usizo ngezikhathi ezithile. Abazali, bangani, izihlobo zingaba abacebisi abahle kakhulu. Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi lokhu akwanele. Ngakho-ke, kunamasevisi akhethekile asezingeni elihlukile elungele ukusiza umuntu. Uyazi ukuthi kukhona usizo lwezingane? Ukuze uthole ukuthi kungani udinga futhi uthole usizo, funda isihloko.

Kuyini?

Zonke izingane esikoleni kufanele zitshelwe ukuthi kukhona usizo oluthile lwengqondo abangayithola. Umkhuba wokuxhumana nama-psychologists uthuthukiswe kahle emazweni aseYurophu nase-USA futhi uvumelekile ngokugcwele ukwethemba. Ngakho ingane ingasithola nini iseluleko? Uhlu lwezinkinga ukuthi ochwepheshe ngakolunye uhlangothi lwenethiwekhi angasiza ngokumane nje kunzima kakhulu. Lezi yizinkinga ezihlukahlukene zansuku zonke, nezinkinga ekukhulumisaneni nabazali noma ontanga, izinkinga emndenini noma impilo esanda kuzalwa, ukuhlukaniswa esikoleni, njll. Ochwepheshe bazosiza nasezimo ezinjengalezi ezincane lapho umntwana etholakele u-deuce futhi Uyesaba ukuya ekhaya noma ungafuni ukuya esikoleni, ngoba namuhla kunesidingo esikhulu. Yonke imibuzo nezinkinga izingane ezibhekana nabathengi zibalulekile futhi zidingekile.

Injongo

Ngakho-ke, yimiphi imigomo eyinhloko elandelwa ingane yokusiza?

1. Ukuhlinzekwa ngokuphelele mahhala futhi iseluleko esingaziwa ngokucacile esixazululweni sezinkinga ezithile.
2. Nikeza usizo olufika ngesikhathi ezinganeni ezisesimweni esinzima.
3. Ukutholakala kokuqala kwemindeni engasebenziyo lapho izingane zikhuliswe khona.
4. Ukuvimbela imizwa yokucindezeleka nokuzibulala yezingane, ukuqinisa ubudlelwane bomndeni.
5. Izinyathelo zokuzivikela ngokumelene nokuphathwa kabi, kanye nezinkinga zezingane kanye nomndeni.
6. Ukubonisana komzali ngokubeletha.

Amaphuzu abalulekile

Namuhla, ngeshwa, akuzona zonke izingane ezaziyo ukuthi kukhona usizo lwezingane. Kodwa-ke, ulwazi mayelana nalokhu luyasakazeka, futhi sekukhona impumelelo yokuqala ekungabazeki ekuxazululeni izinkinga eziningana zezingane. Kungaba isifiso ukusho ukuthi usizo lokubonisana kwengqondo lunikezwa ochwepheshe abahle kakhulu abaye bathola ukuqeqeshwa okukhethekile futhi bakwazi ukusiza ngisho nasezinkingeni ezinzima kakhulu nezibonakala zingenasimo. Ngokuqondene nezingcingo ngokwazo, zinikezwa mahhala kusuka ekhaya nasemaselula, okwenza usizo lwengqondo lufinyeleleke nakancane kubantwana abancane kunazo zonke (abangenayo imali). Ukushayela inombolo eyodwa yocingo lokusiza lomntwana: 8-800-2000-122, hhayi izingane kuphela (kungakhathaliseki ubudala) zingathola usizo, kodwa futhi nabazali babo noma abantu ababafaka esikhundleni sabo. Lokhu kungukuthi, hhayi izingane kuphela, kodwa futhi nabantu abadala, abangazi ukuthi bangenza kanjani kulokhu noma leso simo, okuphathelene nokukhuliswa kwengane noma isisombululo senkinga yakhe, bangacela iseluleko.

Umkhuba wamazwe omhlaba

Njalo ngonyaka eRussia ngoMeyi 17 sigubha i-International Day of Children's Telephone Trust. Umgomo oyinhloko walo mkhosi ukukhombisa abantu abaningi ngangokunokwenzeka isidingo sokuxazulula izinkinga zezingane. Ngemuva kwalokho, ngokuvamile abantu abadala abakuthinti ukubaluleka kokuthi ingane ingaba nezimo ezinzima, iphikisana ngokuthi izingane zikhona ukuthi azikho izinkinga ezinkulu. Noma kunjalo, lokhu akulungile ngokuphelele, futhi ukuziphatha kubonisa okuphambene nalokho. Kumele kuqashelwe ukuthi isinyathelo sokudala iholidi elikhethekile liyi-Child Helpline International, elaqashelwa ngokusemthethweni yiKomiti Yamalungelo Ezingane e-UN. Kuyathakazelisa nokuthi umphakathi uhlanganisa amazwe angu-150, kuhlanganise neRussia.

Izenzo Zomndeni

Ngokuqondene nezwe lethu, senze iqhaza ekwakheni i-hotline yezingane ngo-2007, ngenkathi i-Russian Association of Child Helplines ihlelwe ngosizo lwesiKhwama sikaZwelonke sokuVikela kwezingane ngokumelene ne-Cruel Treatment. Amasevisi angaphezu kuka-280 amathenda asetshenziswa kakade. Unyaka nonyaka, ochwepheshe bazo bathatha izingcingo eziyisigidi ezivela ezinganeni, entsheni, nabazali babo. Kusukela ngo-2010, kunesiza sosizo lwezingane esisodwa (inombolo: 8-800-2000-122), lapho cishe zonke izinsizakalo zixhunyiwe (umsebenzi othile ngezinombolo zendawo ezindaweni lapho zisebenza khona). Njengoba kukhonjisiwe ngenhla, ungashayela le nombolo kusuka kokubili kwefoni nomakhalekhukhwini ukuze uthole mahhala.

Ezinye izibalo

Iqiniso lokuthi insizakalo yokusiza yengane inenzuzo enkulu futhi ikhulunywa ngezibalo. Ngakho-ke, iminyaka emibili (kusukela ngo-2010 kuya ku-2012) inombolo eyodwa yamukelwe izingcingo ezingu-1 518 813, ezazisakazwa kulezi zigaba ezilandelayo: cishe amaphesenti angu-57 - kusukela ezinganeni nasebancane, ngaphezulu kwamaphesenti angu-10 - kusuka kubazali nabantu ngabanye Cishe amaphesenti angu-33 - kusuka kwezinye izakhamizi. Kukhona nezinkinga ezihluke ngokuphelele, ngenxa yesisombululo abantu abaphendukela kuzo ekubonisaneni nasekusizeni kwengqondo. Ngakho, okuvame kakhulu kubo yibo abhekane nokuhlukumeza izingane. Ngokuvamile, izingane kanye nabantu abadala babiza u-helpline kula macala alandelayo:

• Ukuxhashazwa kwabantwana emndenini (izingcingo ezingu-12 830) nangaphandle komndeni (izingcingo ezingu-5 254);
• Ukwelashwa okuhlukumeza ingane kumbuthano wabangane (izingcingo ezingaphezu kuka-13 000);
• Ukuhlukunyezwa ngokobulili kubantwana (cishe izingcingo ezingu-2,000).

Mayelana neholidi

Abaningi bangase babe nombuzo: "Kungani Usuku lwezingane lwe-Telephone Trust?" Yonke into elula, injongo yayo enkulu ukusabalalisa ulwazi mayelana nokusebenza kwalesi sevisi. Lena inhloso ebaluleke kakhulu, njengoba, ngeshwa, akuzona zonke izingane kanye nabantu abadala abazi ukuthi kukhona usizo. Kwenzekani ngalolu suku? Zonke izindlela zokusabalalisa kolwazi zihle, ngoba umgomo oyinhloko ukuheha kakhulu abantu abakuzungezile ngangokunokwenzeka. Ungakhuthaza kanjani usizo lwezingane? Izincwajana ziyindlela enhle kakhulu. Amaphepha amancane amininingwane ahlale elungiselelwe kusengaphambili, aphethe ulwazi olugcwele mayelana nokusebenza kwalesi sevisi. Amapheshana anjalo angasatshalaliswa kuphela kulolu suku olulodwa. Zivame ukuthwalwa ezikoleni, zingabuye zithumele amaphosta akhethekile ngolwazi jikelele mayelana nomsebenzi wale nsizakalo.

Ngabe ungayithuthukisa kanjani enye insiza yokusiza ingane? Isithombe - futhi nomsizi omuhle. Ungakwazi nje ukuthatha izithombe zabantu abaphethe izingxoxo ngakolunye uhlangothi lwenethiwekhi (amadoda nabesifazane abanohlobo lwabo olukhuthaza ukuzethemba), ngakho-ke badonse ukunakwa kwabadlula. Umkhuba omuhle ubuye ube nemisebenzi ehlukahlukene emigwaqweni, njengokuthi, ukudweba i-asphalt (ikakhulukazi nabanqobile) noma imincintiswano encane (isibonelo, ngubani ozokhumbula inamba eyodwa yocingo lokusiza ingane).

Olunye ulwazi lokusabalalisa

Ngabe ungasakaza kanjani enye i-Russianline / international international helpline? Ngenxa yalokhu, kuzodingeka izisebenzi zokuzithandela ezingaba nomkhankaso wolwazi ezikoleni nakwezinye izikhungo zemfundo. Kulesi simo, izinto zokuphuma kumele zitholakale - njengabantu ngabanye ngendlela yamabhulogi, amapheshana, kanye nokujwayelekile, njengama-posters. Kuhle futhi ukuqhuba isifundo esikhethekile sonke esikoleni, lapho izingane ziyokwaziswa okugcwele mayelana nomsebenzi wale nsizakalo (kuhle uma umhlangano uphela ngezimpendulo zemibuzo evela kubafundi). Inzuzo enkulu ilethwa yizifundo zokuqeqesha, lapho ifomu lezemidlalo, izingane zikwaziswa ngesimiso somsebenzi wale nsizakalo, futhi kuba lula ukuba bahambe, lapho izimo zingenzeka khona ukubuyela ochwepheshe ukuze basize. Kulezi zimo izimo ezingase zivele empilweni yengane ngayinye elahlekelwa, zinika izingane indlela efanele yokuziphatha ekuxazululeni izinkinga zabo. Kuyinto enhle ukuqhuba imibuzo yemibuzo yabafundi besikole, ngenxa yalokhu kuyokwazi ukubona iqembu elingase livele lezingane ezinenkinga futhi usebenze eduze nabo ngokuqondile.