"Incwadi engekho": impendulo evela kubafundi

Kuze kube manje, kunezincwadi eziningi nezinhlelo zokuqeqesha zokukhula komuntu siqu nokuzikhulisa. Zonke zilungile ngoba zikuvumela ukuba uthole ukulinganisela ngokomzwelo, ukubuyisela ubuqotho obungaphakathi nokuvumelana.

Umbhali owaziwayo, ongowesigaba sezengqondo, u-Alex Novak. "Incwadi engekho," okushiwo yizimanga ezimangalisayo, kwenza umuntu acabange, ahlaziye isimo sakhe, futhi alwele umphumela wekhonkrithi. Cabangela izimpendulo zabantu abangasebenzisa inkolelo elula kodwa enomqondo, okushiwo umbhali.

"Incwadi engekho": ukubuyekezwa ngeke kukushiye

U-Alex Nowak usinikeza amahora ambalwa ukuma nokuqonda ukuthi siya kuphi. Ingabe sisondela ephusheni lethu noma sithuthela kuyo ngokuzikhandla? Kuyamangalisa, kodwa abantu abaningi besaba ukuphila ngemithetho yabo futhi bangasoli ngisho nezifiso zabo ezingabasiza ukuba baphendule ngokufanele izimpilo zabo.

Ukuthandwa okukhulu kwalencwadi kubangelwa ukuthi abantu abaningi namuhla bafuna ukuphumelela, balwela ukuchuma. Banesifiso sokuveza ngokugcwele lokho okushiwo, ukukhulisa okungenzeka ukuthi kuvela emvelweni.

Kuyaziwa ukuthi lokhu akulula njengoba kubonakala. Kudingeka ukwazi ukuhlukanisa okubalulekile kusuka kwesibili, ukuba uhleleke kakhulu, ukuhlakulela ukuzwanela ngokwakho. Futhi abanye abantu iminyaka behluleka ukuhamba. Futhi abafundi bale ncwadi ephawulekayo bathi uyabasiza ezikhathini ezinzima kakhulu zokuphila, lapho kubonakala sengathi akukho lutho olungenziwa ukulungisa noma yini.

Ukuqaphela izingane

Umbhali ugcizelela umqondo wokuthi kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ungabhubhisi isiphi isipho esingcwele esinikezwa nguNkulunkulu. Abafundi balo mbhalo, kusukela ekuhlangenwe nakho kwabo, bakwazi ukuqinisekisa ukuthi ebuntwaneni konke kuphuma ngokukhululekile futhi kalula, futhi lapho umuntu esemdala kuba nzima ukufunda okuthile.

Isizathu sisemqondweni: ingane ivulekile kakhulu ekuqondeni kwezwe langaphandle, konke kuyamthakazelisa kuye. Umuntu omdala uvame ukuhlala, ukulalela imibono eyamukelekile emphakathini futhi ahlale ezwa izwi lakhe langaphakathi. Njengoba sikhula, thina, ngeshwa, sikhohlwe ngalokho esikuphuphile ngaphambili, futhi kusukela manje sesaba ukwakha izinhlelo ezinkulu.

Qaphela ukuthi ingane encane ihlale ikwazi lokho akufunayo. Ngeke adideke ekucabangeni kwakhe futhi ngeke aguqule imibono yabanye. Ebusheni, noma ubani uphupha kalula, ngoba kukhona inkolelo yokugeleza okungenakwenzeka. Kuyadingeka ukuthi ubukele izingane ezizungezile, njengoba kucacile ukuthi zihlala izifiso zabo futhi zingokoqobo kunokoqobo ngokoqobo. Njengoba sesifinyelele ekuvuthweni, bambalwa kakhulu kithi abakwazi ukuziqhenya ngokungafani nokucabanga okungacabangi.

Itholakala ngenani elikhulu ngencwadi ethi "Incwadi engekho," izibuyekezo ziqinisekisa ukuthi umfundi ocabanga, ngenxa yalokho, uzokwazi ukwakha imibono yakhe futhi abhekane nemibono yakhe.

Ukuthatha umthwalo wemfanelo

Labo abasebejwayelene kakade nale mibhalo yemilingo, phawula ukuthi lesi senzo senzeke kancane kancane, cishe engacabangi. Kungokuthi lapho uqala ukubona ukuthi usabela ngokungafani nalokho okujwayelekile, hhayi nakancane ngaphambili. Futhi ithuba lokuzibuka ngokuhlukile futhi ushintshe ukucabanga kwakho siqu linikezwe emhlabeni nguNovak Alex.

Incwadi engekho, ukubuyekezwa Mayelana nalokho esikushiwo kulesi sihloko, ngendlela entsha yokuthonya isiphetho kwazisa isithakazelo esikhulu kuzilaleli zokucabanga. Empeleni, abantu abaningi bangathanda ukuthola indlela eqinisekisiwe yokushintsha impilo ibe ngcono. Ukwaziswa okushiwo kulo mbhalo kunomthelela kulokhu.

Isandulela sitshela ukuthi kubaluleke kangakanani ukuba wena. "Incwadi engekho" (ukubuyekezwa mayelana nalokho okwakunjengokuqukethwe kwalesi sihloko) iqinisekisa ukuthi akukho okubiza kakhulu emhlabeni kunokukwazi ukuvikela isikhundla somuntu siqu. Futhi abafundi bayavuma ukuthi iningi lethu, ngeshwa, siphila kalula nge-inertia, singacabangi nganoma yini ephakeme, singafuni ukuthatha imithwalo yemfanelo yabo siqu.

Amasela wesikhathi

Uma abantu beqaphela lokho ababekusebenzisa iminyaka yabo engcono kakhulu, babezomangala ngokuzibophezela kwabo nobuwula. Abafundi bayaqaphela ukuthi bavula amehlo abo kulokhu ngemuva kokufunda umbhalo. Ingabe akuyona into engenangqondo, ukuba nayo yonke imithombo yezimpumelelo, ukuchitha izinyanga ezinde neminyaka ekuphishekeleni okungazelelwe, okuqinile kakhulu kangangokuthi akusikho isikhathi esanele sokwenza ukuziqhenya.

Phakathi kwezimbangi eziyinhloko zesikhathi: I-TV, i-intanethi, ukulala okungapheli, ukuphishekela imali, ukugxila ngokweqile ezintweni ezibonakalayo. Ngalendlela, isifiso sangaphakathi sokufeza impumelelo ngayinye siphume kancane kancane, sishintshe ukungabi nomusa kanye nenhlanhla, okuqinisekiswa yiNcwadi "engekho."

Ukubuyekeza kwakhe, ngendlela, kuya encwadini eqinisile kakhulu, ehlose ukucinga kwangaphakathi iqiniso lomuntu siqu.

Ukulondolozwa kwamandla okudala

Lapha sikhuluma ngokufunda indlela yokusebenzisa kahle imithombo yakho yamandla nokusekela ngendlela ephelele. Ukulondolozwa kwamandla okudala kuthatha ukuthi umuntu kufanele akwazi ukusabalalisa amandla akhe ukuze kube nesikhathi sokuphumula nokuthuthukiswa komuntu siqu. Uma kungenjalo, ngesinye isikhathi, kungase kungabi nje isifiso sokwenza.

Ngokungangabazeki, omunye wemisebenzi enamandla kunazo zonke zesikhathi samanje ezincwadini ezithandwayo yiyona "Incwadi engekho." Ukubuyekeza Abafundi baqinisekisa ukuhambisana kwayo. Kakade abantu abaningi baye bakwazi ukushintsha izimpilo zabo zibe ngcono. Into esemqoka, mhlawumbe, isifiso sokushintsha.

Indlela "Ngakho-ke?"

Uma into engasebenzi empilweni, ukuqala kokuqala ukubhekana nokubuthakathaka bese uphonsa izandla zakho. Sivame ukukhungatheka ngenxa yezihluthulelo ukuthi asinaso isikhathi sokuphila, ukwakha izinhlelo ezintsha futhi silwela izimpumelelo zazo. Uma empilweni yakho kukhona okungajabulisi okwenzekile ngempela, kufanele ubambe umoya wakho, tshela ngokuzwakalayo inkulumo ethi "Ngakho-ke" futhi uqhubeke nokubhekana nezindaba zansuku zonke.

Ngakho-ke, kubonakala sengathi uzidela lokho okwenzekile, ukunciphisa inani lalo emehlweni akho. Ungesabi ukunciphisa ukubaluleka kokuhluleka, ngakho-ke uhudulela empilweni yakho into ewusizo kakhulu futhi eyigugu.

Abafundi bayaqaphela ukuthi bakhipha ukutholakala okuyinhloko kulo mbhalo - bangafunda ukuthi bangabe besabela ngezinyembezi ukuhluleka, kodwa ukuqhubeka nokwenza ngokufutheka nangesibindi. Ngisho ne "Incwadi engekho" kulo magazini ngokwayo ingabangela isithakazelo kumuntu ocabangelayo.

I-Energy Vampires

Akuyona imfihlo kunoma ubani ukuthi asizungezwe nje ngabantu abalungile nabahloniphekile. Kukhona nalabo abakwazi ukugcwalisa amandla abo okugcina amandla abo ngokubambisana nabanye. Abantu abanjalo bazincishisa futhi bachitha abanye. Zisusa emanzini wamandla. Ungakuvumeli ukuthi usetshenziswe njengebhethri yebhethri.

Ungalokothi uxhumane nabantu abathandekayo, emva kokuxhumana nomuntu ozwa ukuthi uyakhathazekile nobuthakathaka. Lokhu kuzokusiza ukugcina ukuthula kwangaphakathi nokuzethemba. Uzozwa ukuthi amabutho angaphakathi akhula kanjani futhi akhule. Lokhu kuzokwaziswa futhi ngokuthi "Incwadi engekho." Ukubuyekezwa kwabafundi bakhe abathokozelayo abaye bakwazi ukuguqula izimpilo zabo, banda ngezinsuku ezidlulayo.

Isimo sengqondo esihle

Noma yini oyenzayo, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ukwazi ukugcina ukuthula kwengqondo kukho konke. Uma kungenjalo, uzokhipha ngokushesha futhi ngeke ukwazi ukuqhubeka nohambo lwakho. Bangaki abantu abaphonsa izandla zabo ekuqaleni kohambo, ngaphandle kokuzama izinketho ezahlukene, ngaphandle kokwenza ngisho nesinyathelo sokuqala.

Kwangathi ungaba nomuzwa omuhle kukho konke! Lokhu kuzosiza ukubhekana nezinkinga zesikhashana futhi kunqobe izithiyo ezinkulu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngesimo sengqondo esihle ukuthi kulula ukuhamba ngokuphila, ungagwema ukudumazeka okuningi.

Abafundi bayiqaphela ukubaluleka kolwazi olunikeziwe, bhala izibuyekezo mayelana nencwadi. "Incwadi engekho" - okwamanje isalokhu idinga futhi idumile.

Ngakho-ke, kungcono ukuqala ukujwayelana nalo, ukwazi ukuthi ulindeleni kulo. Kuphela kulokhu, ukufunda kuzokuletha injabulo futhi kuzuze kakhulu.