20 izincwadi ezingcono kakhulu kwi-self-ukuthuthukiswa zobuntu

Esikhathini izincwadi ungathola eningi ulwazi ewusizo. Uthola isipiliyoni zabantu abaye baqonda kakade - baye bafunda ukuxazulula izinkinga, ukwakha ubudlelwano, baye washayelwa ulwazi lwabo ifomu kufinyeleleke bonke abahilelekile. Yingakho izincwadi zokuzisiza ungashintsha ikusasa lakho. Ezindabeni self-ukuthuthukiswa, bamane nje Irreplaceable. Kukhona izingcezu eziningi ezimangalisayo ezisiza ukuba babe ngcono, namandla futhi kujabulise ngokwengeziwe. Nasi uhlu lwezincwadi amabili ukuthi bayakufanelekela kokufunda edingekayo. Abakwazi kakhulu ukuphila kwakho, njengoba siye kakade yathonya ukuphila kwezinkulungwane zabantu.

Dale Carnegie "Indlela Wina Abangane Lithonya Abantu"

Le ncwadi kusiza ngempela ukuqinisekisa ukuthi izethembiso. Lo msebenzi zakudala yanyatheliswa ngo-1936 futhi Kusukela ngaleso sikhathi liye zibhaliwe izikhathi eziningi in takhiwo ehlukahlukene. Le ncwadi iqukethe izinyathelo ezilula ezothuthukisa amakhono akho okukhulumisana kanye nokuqinisa ubudlelwano, ngalinye elikwazi kuboniswa izibonelo zokuphila kwangempela, kusukela Carnegie abantu ajwayelekile kuye. Ngisho eyodwa yisiyalo - sebenzisa igama lomuntu siqu ngokuvamile kungxoxo - kungase kudingeke agucule imphilo yakho.

Manuel Smith, "Lapho ngithi cha, bese ngizizwa nginecala"

Abantu abaningi unezinkinga asungula imingcele - kunzima ukumelela ngokwabo, funda ukunqabela ukuvikela izinkolelo zakhe. Abanye baba wadinga usizo lwabanye, ucabangela izinkinga zabo nemizwelo umthwalo wabo wemfanelo. Encwadini, Smith ungathola ulwazi zendlela ufunde ukuvikela imingcele yabo ngekusebentisa emasu lalula lafana evulekile kulabo abafanelwe kubo wachitha amandla, futhi kanjani ukungafakwa izimpilo zabantu okonakalisa isimo semizwa yakho.

Bren Brown, "Amandla Vulnerability"

Le ncwadi - isisusa ephelele, umthombo ushintsho okuhle ngendlela engakholeki. akekho ukhuluma ubuthakathaka babo, akekho ofuna ukuvuma amaphutha abo emphakathini wanamuhla. Kulokhu, ikhono ukuzibona - usenhlanhleni. Incwadi kuzosiza labo abazimisele ukucabanga ngokunabile, ukushintsha ngokwabo futhi indlela abaphila ubuthakathaka. Ukuze aphumelele, kufanele ube sengozini futhi bazimisele ukuzifaka ezingozini.

Gary Chapman "Izilimi Five Onothando"

Abantu abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi uthando - kungcono ukushintshana elula yamagama, futhi ukhona singenzi lutho. Futhi akulungile. Empeleni, ukuze silondoloze ubuhlobo akulula. Emva "kukankosikazi" Ubuhlobo kube kubi kakhulu. Le ncwadi izokusiza ukuba abaqinise. Uzokwazi ukwazi kahle ukuthi kubonakaliswa kothando kudingeka umlingani wakho kanye uqala ukuzisebenzisa futhi uqaphela imiphumela esheshayo. Kuchazwe izimiso ncwadi akusebenzi kubantu kuphela ukuphila kwakhe siqu, kodwa futhi ukuba zokuxhumana kwansuku zonke.

Ekhart Tolle "Amandla Manje"

Le ncwadi isifundisa ukuphila esikhathini samanje. Mhlawumbe indawo yakhe eziphindaphindiwe, kodwa kuyasiza ukuba baqonde okushiwo. It has izibonelo zendlela abantu baziphathe emini kuqhathaniswa nabanye. Le ncwadi izokusiza ukuba ubhekane imfuhlumfuhlu engqondweni yakho futhi ube nokuthula kwengqondo manje.

Uilyam Irvin, "Stoicism"

Irwin iyona ifilosofi zasendulo Stoicism, okuyinto uguqulwe izinsuku yesimanje, kuqhakambisa ukucabanga yayo amathuluzi nezeluleko ezisebenzayo ingathuthukisa izinga lempilo yakho. Imininingwane esisekelwe kokuhlangenwe nakho kwawo siqu futhi kuyasiza ngempela baba bajabula futhi udlule ezikhathini ezinzima.

Timoti Ferris, "kanjani ukuba asebenze amahora amane»

Le ncwadi lokukwazi uye kwaphoqa abantu abaningi bayakhohlwa ejwayelekile umsebenzi schedule. Ezimweni eziningi, lokhu ikhona yini sengathi noma kucasule, kodwa ngokuqinisekile ngeke pass engabonwa. Ferris uzama ukuthola abantu babona ukuthi ukuphishekela isikhathi lawo lilinganiselwe, futhi ahlale kulezi amahora ehhovisi - hhayi ukhetho best.

Em-Dzhey Demarko, "Incwadi kulabo nesibindi ukwenza"

eziningi ezinikezwa encwadini umqondo ofanayo, kodwa kushukunyiswa ngokwanele ukuqala ukwenza umsebenzi wabo, futhi unikeza omningi imininingwane ewusizo ukuthi ulusizo wonke umuntu.

Chip nelakwaDani Heath, "Eqinile"

Abantu abaningi kanzima ukuxazulula. Kubonakala sengathi udinga ukwenza uhlu ngobuhle nangobubi bawo, kodwa ngezinye izikhathi aliholeli imphumela ongcono. Bazalwane Hit usizo ukwabelana ekuthathweni inqubo ngezigatshana ezine. It siguqule ukuziphatha kwakho.

Gary Vaynerchuk, "Passion - lena ibhizinisi"

Vaynerchuk ungumnikazi umbuso omkhulu Inthanethi. Incwadi yakhe kuzokusiza ufunde ukuthi ungadala elichumayo inthanethi ngosizo imiyalelo eyenzelwe izigaba eziningana.

Robert Glover, "Yekani guy enhle!"

Lena incwadi emfushane nje impela, kodwa eziphumelelayo. Lichaza syndrome umfana omuhle - yilokho ushayela amadoda ukuba aqambe amanga, lokuxhaphaza, shintsha, futhi sengathi esikhundleni kudingeka ubhekane namaqiniso.

Devid Deyda, "The Way of the amadoda"

Le ncwadi - umhlahlandlela ezingokomoya indoda efuna ukuba yindoda - ngomqondo yendabuko zezwi. Indlela yokubhekana abesifazane? Uyini amandla wesilisa? Kanjani ukuze sithole injabulo? Incwadi equkethe izimpendulo zayo yonke le mibuzo.

Mark Manson, "amamodeli"

Kukhona izincwadi eziningi enikelwe ukuba uthandane nothile abesifazane kanjani, kodwa esikhathini esiningi aqukethe kuphela imishwana ngomumo eyenziwe noma ukuchaza eyeza nezazi zezinkanyezi ezikhuluma eziyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu. Okunye ebhekiwe kakhulu ku ocansini. Manson siguqule indlela ukuze ihlangabezane nabobulili obuhlukile futhi ufunde ukuze uthole imizwelo eyakhayo kakhulu ukuxhumana, liziphathe ngokwemvelo futhi unethezeke.

Viktor Frankl, "Ukucinga Elomuntu for Meaning"

Le ncwadi ugcwele ugqozi. Frankl ukhuluma ngokuphila kwakhe ekuthunjweni, ekamu lokuhlushwa, lapho befika emakhaya. Abeciniseka - inqobo nje umuntu has injongo ekuphileni, kungaba sisinde kunoma iyiphi imvelo. Vele uthole injongo yakho.

Maksvell Maltts, "cybernetics kwenqondo"

Encwadini, udokotela ohlinzayo plastic kuchaza ukuthi abantu abaningi bafuna ukushintsha ukubukeka, kodwa empeleni kudingeka izinguquko zangaphakathi. Maltz ukhuluma amasu ukuphumula ezingasiza.

Dzheyms-Allen, "Njengoba indoda ecabanga"

A indaba emfushane equkethe iphuzu elibalulekile - imicabango yakho ukuchaza ngokoqobo ohlala kulo.

Dan Ariely, "Predictably engenangqondo"

Ariely sihlaziye ukuthi kungani abantu benza abakwenzayo. Abantu abacabangi ukuthi okunengqondo, kodwa namanje ukulawula imizwelo. Le ncwadi izokusiza ukuba ubhekane enganakile futhi ube ngcono.

Robert Cialdini, "Psychology kwethonya '

Le ncwadi kuzokusiza ufunde indlela yokuphatha abantu, hhayi nje kuphela ubudlelwane siqu kuphela kodwa nasemsebenzini, in the interview.

Mett Ridli, "The Red Queen"

Kungani amadoda bathambekele ekufuneni abalingani abaningi? Kungani abesifazane abakhethayo kanjalo? Yini kufihliwe zethu zofuzo? Incwadi ye-Ridley kuzokusiza uqonde okuningi mayelana nobuhlobo.

Rolf Plotts, "Vagrancy"

Leli bhuku ngeke usinga ukuhamba. Plotts uqinisekile kuwufanele ukuvakashelwa okudliwa, abelana uhlu izinto ezidingekayo futhi eziningi amacebiso awusizo.