Self-kulinywe, Psychology
Ukwesaba Ukuba Phakathi Kwabantu - ukwesaba kuyinto okungenasisekelo
Umuntu ngamunye okuthile noma othile uyesaba. Ngomqondo onabile, kungokwemvelo - ningesatshiswa nokukodwa okwesabisayo, yilabo kuphela abenza abawazi ngezingozi zezifo ezithwalwa yizinambuzane. Kodwa kukhona ukwesaba evamile futhi zokwesaba abanalo, futhi bayakumema zihluke nomunye. Futhi uma ukuqeda ukwesaba ngokomthetho kungenzeka, kodwa akudingekile, ukwelapha zokwesaba kuwufanele.
Wonke umuntu uyazi ukuthi azikho imiphumela ngaphandle izimbangela. Konke kwenzeka ngokwalo, kodwa kungenxa by preconditions ezithile. Kukhona noma yimuphi umuntu imizwelo, injabulo, injabulo, futhi ngisho nokwesaba okuthile kanjalo wabangela. Yingakho akunakwenzeka ukuqeda into, ngaphandle kokwazi izizathu ngaphambili. Le ndlela iyasebenza ngokumelene yokwesaba: ngaphambi elwa nabo, kudingeka ngokwethembeka bayavuma yini ebangela. Nokho, ukuze kube lula kuphela efika kuqala.
Ngikuphi okuhlukileko kuneGreyidini nokwesaba zokwesaba? Ukwesaba kuyinto evamile, impendulo evamile ngokweqile noma nesimo esisongela ukuphila. Kwabangela self-ukulondolozwa isazela, okuyinto ngaphandle nje akusebenzi.
Impilo ephelele nobuhle evamile kucatshangwa owesaba ukuthi ngalo kanye nohlobo owambeka, ngoba ngenxa, ngaphezu kwakho konke, isazela sokusinda ukuzivikela nekutilondvolota mine. Lokhu, isibonelo, ukwesaba izindawo eziphakeme, ajulileyo, imililo, izinyoka kanye nezinye ezihuquzelayo yingozi. Ngakho-ke, nge kwesaba akufanele alwe, ngaphandle-ke, iphupho eliyingqayizivele akuzona ephakeme umsebenzi, womlilo noma submariner.
Nokho, ngezinye izikhathi, ukwesaba ezikhula zibe kwabokufika, futhi lokhu ngesizathu esizwakalayo ukubona udokotela. Ukwesaba Ukuba Phakathi Kwabantu - ukwesaba ukuthi akunakwenzeka ukuchaza. Akagcinanga kwamehlisa futhi kalungisiswa, kungadingeki sokusinda, kuya engenamsebenzi efanayo. Ukwesaba Ukuba Phakathi Kwabantu - Ingebhe okuthile, ngokuvamile ngempela okungenangozi, noma ukuphindaphinda okuphindiwe ingozi.
Ngokwesibonelo, ukwesaba - kulapho ngokwesabeka kuyachwaza izinambuzane, abantu never ukuya kwezidleke zezinyosi, musa nokugibela esidlekeni, futhi izinyosi ngeke adlule okweshumi emathileyi abizayo nge izithelo, phezu okuyinto Swirl ehlobo umuvi. Kodwa yokwesaba - kungenxa yokwesaba ukuhlangana izinambuzane eziyingozi bezvylazno ahlale ekhaya ngisho amafasitela musa ukuvula. Bese ngokuzumayo into fly.
Ukwesaba Ukuba Phakathi Kwabantu - umuzwa kubuhlungu ngempela, ukwazi ngokuphelele esimnandi ukungayeki umuntu ngokwanele ukubheka izinto ngendlela ehluzekile futhi ukucabanga ngokunengqondo. Experience master engqondweni, futhi umuntu angenza into stupid futhi kungaba ngisho nayingozi.
Ngokwesibonelo, kwabokufika kunalokho silly - Ingebhe Bald, okuthiwa peladofobiya. Kuzwakala ezihlekisayo, kodwa kukhona abantu abenza ngempela kuyamthinta. Noma, Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uhlushwa pogonofobii - Ukwesaba izindevu. Yebo, umbhedo futhi akukho okunye, kodwa umbhedo yangempela. Abantu abaningi bayazi imbangela zokwesaba yabo. Abanye, Nokho akwaziwa, bese kufanele ubone wezengqondo.
Ukwesaba Ukuba Phakathi Kwabantu - ukwesaba yayikhona intuthuko engatheni, njalo engenangqondo ephelezelwa ukukhathazeka, palpitations, ukujuluka, nomlomo owomile, noma umoya, ukuthuthumela ngisho ubuhlungu besifuba. Satellites zokwesaba kungaba isicanucanu, umuzwa omubi esiswini, isiyezi, ngisho niphele amandla futhi umuzwa okungokoqobo lezinto futhi ubuntu babo siqu. Zokwesaba kungabangela ekulahlekelweni ukuzibamba, kuze ubuhlanya okuphelele, Ukugodola, noma, kunalokho, imfiva, ukuba ndikindiki noma ukushoshozela emzimbeni.
I zokwesaba ezivamile abhekwa kwabokufika yezenhlalakahle (yokwesaba emphakathini, ukunakwa amaphutha abanye, iziphambeko ekumesabeni abantu, ukuhlazeka namahloni) kanye agoraphobia (Ukwesaba engene isimo lapho abantu abaningi ngeke bakwazi ukusiza uma eziphuthumayo). Ezinye izindaba zika-kwabokufika ngokuthi aqhelelene futhi secrete izinhlobo eziningi. Lokhu, isibonelo, ukwesaba amakati, izicabucabu, izibungu, alinge, izinja, ukwesaba izindawo eziphakeme, amanzi ukujula noma ukuduma ngombani, ukwesaba ebumnyameni, umlilo, ulwandle, imvula, ivaliwe isikhala, into alien, isixuku, ukugxeka nokuningi nabanye abaningi.
Njengoba ubona ngisho kulolu hlu esifushane, okushiwo kwesaba nakwazi. Ulwe nabo udinga uma zokwesaba nomthelela ikhono lomuntu ukwenza, angenele ekuphileni futhi kubangele ukucindezeleka. Indlela ukwelapha yokwesaba? Okokuqala, yokudlulisela kuchwepheshe. Futhi indlela elula, okuyinto uzokweluleka udokotela - kuba kancane kancane futhi ziphoqelelwe accustoming yokuzihlanganisa into ebangela ukwesaba engenangqondo kanjalo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukusetshenziswa kokuluthwa kwengqondo, self-hypnosis. Lapho uzokwazi ukuqeda yokwesaba, ukuphila kuyoba ngcono kakhulu.
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