Ukuxhaphaza Luseduze!

iseluleko wezengqondo:

1. Lalela ingane yakho nsuku zonke futhi ngixoxe naye. Abazali ngokuvamile wokugcina bethola ukuthi ingane yabo iye yaba nesandla ukuhlukunyezwa. Chitha imizuzu embalwa nsuku zonke zemibuzo elula mayelana nendlela kanye naye uchitha isikhathi esikoleni futhi endaweni yakini, ukuthi lenzani ukushintsha noma okwenzekayo endleleni eya esikoleni. Lapho ukhuluma nengane yakho ukuqapha isimo sakhe futhi nizondelele ukuqhubeka nengxoxo.

2. Ngokuvamile wavakashela ingane esikoleni. ukuxhashazwa Iningi Kwenzekani lapho abadala bengekho. Izikole awunawo imithombo futhi siyaludinga usizo lwabazali.

3. Yiba isibonelo esihle somusa kanye nobuholi. Izingane zakho bayofunda okuningi mayelana nobudlelwano ngokubheka wena. Nawutfukutsele ngesikhathi isikhonzi, umdayisi, abashayeli emgwaqeni, noma ngisho ingane yakho, wena kahle belingisa nokuthile ababengambeka ufuna ukulwa. Ngaso sonke isikhathi uma sikhulume nomunye umuntu lapha ithoni ayinhlamba ufundisa ingane inhlekisa.

4. Izingane eziningi ungatsheli muntu (ikakhulukazi abantu abadala) ukuthi uxhashazwa noma ukwesabisa kwabo. Ngakho-ke kubalulekile kakhulu abazali nothisha sifunde ukuqaphela izimpawu okungenzeka izisulu, ezifana nokulahlekelwa njalo izimpahla, izikhalazo bekhanda noma ubuhlungu besisu, ukugwema imisebenzi yesikole. Uma usola ukuthi ingane echayeke inhlekisa, lokuxoxa nothisha noma ukuthola indlela ukuhlola ukuxhumana yayo nontanga ukuze uqinisekise izinsolo zakho. Xoxa nesimo ingane yakho ngokushesha.

5. Zenzele umkhuba enempilo ukuze silwe hooliganism. Siza ingane yakho ukuba ihlale kanjani ngezenzo zayo kungakuzwisa ubuhlungu abanye (isibonelo, "Ungazizwa kanjani kulesi simo?"). isu okunjalo kungase kuthuthukise nozwela ngabanye. Kubalulekile ukufundisa izingane zakho ukwenza okuhle, ukuzwelana, ukuba play ngokwethembeka. Lena sokuthi lobudlelwano obuhle ontanga yabo.

6. Dala ukubekezelelana umndeni ukuze ukuxhashazwa. Izingane zakho zidinga ikhaya ukuzwa kuwe, akusiyo evamile futhi akuyona kuvunyelwe ngabo - ukwesabisa noma kumele amele khashane khona nje watch. Qinisekisa ukuthi izingane zakho ziyazi ukuthi uma bayahlukunyezwa uyashaya noma uyahlambalaza (esikoleni, emgwaqweni, endaweni yakini, noma kuyi-Internet), kubalulekile ukukutshela, nokuthi ngeke ubasize. Siza izingane zakho zikuthola ezinye izindlela ukuze usethe isimo sakho, kanye nobuholi esikoleni.

7. Fundisa ingane yakho ukuthi baziphathe kanjani njengofakazi. Izingane abashumayela ukuxhashazwa azizwe engenamandla futhi thukela angenele. Nokho, izingane zingaba nethonya elinamandla elihle isimo. Bangaphinde basizane ngokunikeza nokunakekela abathintwe, indiva isiqhwaga.

8. Fundisa ingane yakho ukuba simelane kiberzalyakuvannyu. Izingane ngokuvamile abaqondi ukuthi kiberzalyakuvannya kuhlanganisa ukuthumela liluhlaza, inhlamba noma okusongela imiyalezo noma izithombe; ukuthumela, ebucayi ulwazi oluyimfihlo mayelana nomunye umuntu ukuthi lokhu umuntu abonakale eyisilima; ukukhishwa ngamabomu umuntu kusukela iqembu online. Lezi zenzo nje kuyingozi njengokubhema ngobudlova, futhi akufanele nakancane sihambisane nakho. It is kusukela ucwaningo kwaziwe ukuthi isikhathi esiningi intsha ukuchitha inthanethi, cishe ziyoba izisulu - nquma ukuthi uzoyisebenzisa isikhathi kunethiwekhi.

9. Ukuxhaphaza akufanele kube yingxenye ebuntwaneni. Abanye abantu abadala ningenzi lapho begubha noma ukuzwa ukuxhashazwa ngoba becabanga ukuthi ukuxhashazwa - lawa izikhathi ejwayelekile ebuntwaneni ukuthi kufanele ukwazi futhi 'amqinise' rebenka.Vazhno bonke abadala ukuqonda ukuthi ukuxhashazwa akufanele kube yingxenye evamile ebuntwaneni. Zonke izindlela zokuhlukumeza ziyingozi ngomoni, isisulu nofakazi, kanye lo sizothinta ukuphila omdala (ingaqala ukucindezeleka kwengqondo, ukukhathazeka, ukudla izidakamizwa, udlame lomndeni kanye sobugebengu).

Ngomuso, ukuze kulungiswe kahle isihluku imizamo edingekayo nokubambisana lesikole, umndeni nomphakathi. Ubuqhwaga buyinkinga enkulu futhi ngeke sikwazi ukuzixazulula, uma sisebenta ngekubambisana.