Ukuganiselana: Ingabe kungenzeka ukuba ujabule?

"Marry ngowesinye isizwe" - zikhanga kithi isikhangiso. Cishe wonke umuntu wesifazane okungenani kanye, kodwa waya isixhumanisi bese yehlela ezansi lwemibhalo suitors Overseas. Izinketho kuvame, futhi wonke umuntu ubonakala ufuna ukwakha umkhaya omuhle. Abangane bathini mayelana izibonelo ezinhle, iphephandaba negative uvalo. Ingabe singasho ukuthi ukuganiselana - iresiphi for injabulo siqu?

izakhamuzi eziningi kakhulu abashadile nezinye uthi futhi ziyajabula ngempela. Nokho, imishado inter-yobuhlanga eRussia wayevame ukuzilahla. Ikakhulukazi amadoda. Isimo abakuso kuyaqondakala - ngemva kokushiya owesifazane ongakwazi zifakwe isigodlo sakhe olungekho emthethweni. emininingwaneni yabantu Notorious ukuvumela amadoda eziningi kangaka wambule parallel ezingaphezu kweyodwa wesifazane. Ngaphezu kwalokho, akuyona imfihlo ukuthi ezithandwa kakhulu abesifazane abasebasha futhi enhle, abangase babe abazobhapathizwa, ngisho ukuba ibe ngumkayo, hhayi kuphela e-lover.

Empeleni, ubuhle awukona ngempela ukuba. Abezinye Izizwe ngokuvamile amantombazane bhá ungalilahli labo iziphakamiso ukuthi intokazi yokubukisa ngingathanda ukumuzwa. Abezinye abanikela isandla futhi inhliziyo kakhulu? Ladies, okuyizinto eziyizici ubufazi nokhathalelayo. Futhi akulona iqiniso ukuthi ukufuna inceku kuphela - imphilo sikhathi emazweni athuthukile njengoba kulula ngangokunokwenzeka, ukuze ungacimi iyahola. amadoda Njengabakufanelekele kudingeka umngane namadlelandawonye, owayehlale ulalele nokusekelwa. Abaningi babo bamane ukhathele ukuziphatha zobugovu Bakwethu abazimisele ngiwunqamule elala ngokuphazamisa kancane.

Ingabe kukhona "Izimo" ocacile ukungena imishado exubile? Lilodwa - conservatism futhi zokungazimiseli ukuguqula ukuziphatha umkhuba. Ngaphezu kwalokho, it is hhayi njalo ehambisana ne-yobudala, kunezimo lapho abesifazane angaphezu kuka-60 washada yobudala efanayo futhi babe Licwathile bajabule.

Izingane isithiyo? Ngoba abantu abaningi - yebo, kodwa kusekuningi eziningi ukhetho okuhle ngubani izingane zakho emshadweni odlule ngeke isithiyo. Ngokuvamile kuba amadoda okuqondene abasesigabeni esiphakathi, enabantwana noma yokuba engenanzalo babo abadala. Ngisho nabesifazane nezingane ezimbili noma bathole izincwadi. Kodwa kuyacaca ukuthi amadoda abe nezidingo eziphansi. Ungase udinge ukuba sibekezelele enkulu ngobudala.

Ngokuvamile imishado exubile aphakathi abantu umehluko yobudala engu 12-15, iminyaka engu-10 noma ngaphansi - a rarity. Ngakho, uma uthola insizwa, uzibheka lucky kakhulu. Nakuba namanje phesheya bazoba ngabelusi abangaphansi kweminyaka engu-30 ubudala angathembekile kakhulu. Futhi, ningawenzi ithemba amadoda amadala kunawe ngeminyaka engaphezu kuka-15-17. Imishado enjalo ngokuvamile esasizobhujiswa, futhi uyozizwa a ukukopela futhi ahlupheke wecala, uma ufuna ukuba sihambe. Phela iminyaka ihamba, futhi intsha bakhangwa ontanga.

Engqondweni sokulungiselela yokuthi professional kuyodingeka uqale lonke futhi. imisebenzi eminingi ezidinga ithalente ngaphezu amakhono, ezifana izinwele, etholakalayo phesheya kuphela emva ukuqeqeshwa okukhethekile kanye nezitifiketi. Kulula owesifazane ibhizinisi, ngokwazi izilimi zakwamanye amazwe: namakhono okuphatha ibhizinisi ehambisana yonke indawo. Abameli futhi kufanele relearn ngokuphelele. Uma ungeyena uzimisele ukudela career zamanje ukuze asindise ukuphila kwakhe siqu, kungcono umuhle ezweni lakubo.

ingxoxo Hlukanisa - Interracial umshado nomuntu wezizwe ovela ezweni elithuthukile. Akufanele yini ngenze uyifake? Uma uthanda kunabantu bolunye uhlanga - ukushada ngokuphepha. Kodwa zama ukungabi nabantwana kuze idokhumenti unomphela. Ngenxa eRussia nengane yohlanga oluhlukile ngeke impilo elokuthula. Ngakho imishado yezizwe - kuyinto kubalandeli of imidlalo eyingozi, nakuba kungaba ukuthuthukisa ngokujabula.

Othile uye wazakhela ziphenduka ukuba nobuhlobo obungathi sina, kufanele uthathe ekutholeni ayikho enye indlela yokubhekana nayo. Funda ezinye izilimi futhi musa ubuvila ukuphendula zonke izincwadi engenayo. Ubudlelwano ngokuvamile kunezelwa ngazimbili, lapho lo muntu wathatha isinyathelo, kodwa zikhona ezehlukile. Ngakho, uma ubhala kancane - ukubhala uqobo. Ungadikibali, zama - futhi konke kuyoba ngcono kunokuba ucabanga.