Self-kulinywe, Psychology
Udokotela wengqondo Galina Belozub: izimbangela zesizungu zesifazane
Galina Belozub njengoba wezengqondo ngokuvamile ithola izicelo ezivela amaklayenti: "Nginalo kweminyaka eminingi kangaka, futhi angikwazi ukushada, abanalo umndeni." Kubonakala konke enendawo - nobuhle, nasengqondweni, futhi umsebenzi. Futhi umama uyabubula, nabangane / nengangibajwayele pestered kokubuza, "Awu, umshado hhayi efika?" Izimo letitsintsa yokuthi le ntokazi yesimanje engamashumi amathathu ungashadile, ingase ibe khona ehlukile, ngokuvumelana Galina Belozub. Nokho, uma senza afingqa zonke lezi zizathu, singakwazi ukuhlukanisa ezintathu eziyinhloko. Okokuqala - lokhu Umbono ophambene amadoda. Kukhona ilungiselelo elinjalo esemncane, futhi ukuxazulula lezi zinkinga kangcono nge-sokusebenza kwengqondo. Eyesibili isizathu - ukuzenyeza futhi yokuntula ukuzithiba uthando. Owesifazane nge ukuzethemba akakholelwa ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthandana, ukuthi azinake. Futhi, ukuze ugweme ubuhlungu kwenqatshwa, enqaba ukuxhumana amadoda. Isizathu sesithathu - lokhu kwandisa izinga izicelo. Ukubalekela amaqiniso ku inkohliso. Njengoba zonke owelapha isebenza nge lezi zimpikiswano umkhuba wabo Galina Belozub.
Izincwadi ezabhalwa wakhe, okubangela intshisekelo ububanzi phakathi umphakathi. Isenzakalo esidume kunazo zonke sazo "Inkinga amane. Amathiphu wesimanje." Futhi ngo-2007 yena wanyathelisa incwadi, "Umshado kusukela ekuseni kuze kuhlwe", anikezelwe kwenzeka kukhulunywa ngomshado nomshado, indlela yokufinyelela enye ingxenye yakho. Encwadini yakhe ethi, "Sikhetha, khetha senze" kabanzi mayelana isihloko inkinga Ukukhetha umlingani.
Ukulimala ezithinta ubumfihlo
Kunoma isiphi isenzakalo ngokomzwelo engalunganga, njalo kwaba nomuntu ngiseyingane, kokuba nethonya elikhulu ekuphileni kwakhe esikhathini esizayo. Ngenxa yalokho, zikhona nemiphumela ukubheduka ngokwengqondo: ukuzenyeza, ukwesaba ezahlukene, ukungaqiniseki atihambi todvwa. Futhi inqobo nje uma umuntu ingaluqedi esengumntwana ohlukumezekile kuye futhi uyokhanga kubantu nasezimweni ukuthi babhebhethekise ke. Isihloko amanxeba ngokomzwelo ibuhlungu kakhulu futhi esiphuthumayo. Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo saseCanada Liz Burbo wanikeza ngezigaba eqondile kakhulu ukulimala kanye izimbangela zazo:
- ukulimala sokulahlwa;
- bashiya ukulimala;
- ukulimala ululazekile;
- ukulimala Devotional;
- nabulungisa ukulimala.
Reception amakhasimende noma kunjalo emuva ngiseyingane futhi izenzakalo eqhubeka ithinta kubo. Ngalezi ukulimala kudingeka ukusebenza specialist, uthi Galina Belozub. Biography of wezifo lithi eziningi mikhondo komagazini ethandwa, ezifana "Umndeni wami" magazini.
Indlela ukunciphisa umthelela ukulimala ubumfihlo?
Sikhumbula nemizwa nemizwelo ukuthi nakho, uzithatha kokusho amazwi athile: "Ngiyavuma, Ngiyavuma ...." Galina Belozubov ukholelwa ukuthi ngakho akuvamile bazibiza, izingqondo zazo ukuthi lezi zikhathi ezingavamile ilungu elithile lomzimba wethu, yethu Ngingumfana nje lubonisa ukubonga kudedela simo esikhungathekisayo. Kuyadingeka ukuba belashwa ukulimala, ukholelwa sokusebenza kwengqondo Galina Belozub. Umndeni, yebo, lapho zonke izinkinga bazalwa.
Association of
Inhlangano - ubuhlobo, inqubo kwengqondo lapho 2 noma isimo esingokomzwelo imiqondo bahlobene, basesimweni spike. Ngokwesibonelo, uthando nokuhlupheka. Kwabanye, imiqondo le ayafana ejiyile. Kungani? Ngoba azungeze (noma amafilimu), ubona nje abahlupheka uthando. Noma othile "umndeni" ezihambisana ngegama elithi "injabulo", futhi othile - ngamazwi athi "nokudabuka nobuhlungu". Lezi izinhlangano futhi ukuvimbela ukwakheka nobudlelwano obunempilo nabobulili obuhlukile futhi ukwakha umndeni agcwele kamuva ekuphileni.
ukwethembeka
Enamandla kunazo tribal ukwethembeka lapho izimpande zabo, ubuqotho bethu uya obaba. Lapho ukwethembeka, isibonelo, okhokho bethu umholi wabo noma isizwe kwakusindise ukuphila kwawo. Wena qotho umama wakho. Umama wedwa, wahlala konke ukuphila kwakhe ngaphandle komyeni wakhe, wayenomuzwa uthukutheliswe. Awunayo uvumele bajabule ababambisene kamama! Kanjani?! Mina?! Ngiyakuphemba umndeni!? Umama ngeke basinde! Noma ababambisene indodana yakhe umama akusho ukushada okwesibili. Lokho bazisa wesifazane eshade: indodana yakhe, ingane, ngoba umama, ngoba ubaba! Ingabe ubuqotho ubungcweti, lapho umuntu ezahlukweni yena aye emsebenzini wakhe, njengemoto esiteji. Kulokhu, ukwethembeka imbangela, ngokusobala, nazo zasiza ukusinda amadlozi, yena unganakile abahlezi isizukulwane yesimanje. Ingabe ubuqotho imvelo - konke nezintombi olulodwa, futhi thina sonke ukuphila kwakhe lapho, njengoba ndowanikela? Indlela Ngobuqotho "ehlanzekile '? Kukhona amasu athile, okuwumkhuba esetshenziswa wezengqondo ku kokubonisana siqu. Basuke esekelwe ukwamukelwa kahle. Wabuye uye oqinile Galina Belozub eshadile engaphezu kweminyaka engamashumi amabili, owakhulisa izingane ezimbili. imindeni yabo sizibonele yena uletha ukusebenza nalabo abadinga iseluleko sakhe futhi usizo.
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