Lisho ukuthini isenzo we isithupha futhi umunwe kancane? ukutolika ezahlukene

Kwezinye izimo, 'wamchazela phezu iminwe "kuyinto kusheshe futhi kube lula kunalokho ngamazwi. Jamal ukuthinta isandla - lokhu kuyindlela evamile yokuxhumana kwawo wonke umuntu. ukuxhumana ubonisa kanjani ukuthi uyangeneka - uhlobo lomyalezo asihlambulule isizwe esingesakhe lwasendulo.

ukuxhumana ubonisa kanjani ukuthi uyangeneka

Kuyinto indlela ukuxhumana kwabantu ngokusebenzisa ilimi umzimba, kunyakata kwemtimba kanye isimo sobuso. Le ndlela yokuxhumana yamazwe omhlaba, okusho akuxhomekile ulimi ngamazwi. Kodwa kunokuningi okungakhulunywanga ngakho. Hlukanisa ophawini ngamazwi zokuxhumana akunakwenzeka, wonke amazwi ethu futhi umusho ephelezelwa izimpawu ezihlukahlukene: isimo sobuso, ukuma, lapho ukhona, ukunyakaza equlekile we imikhono, imilente noma ikhanda. Konke lokhu kwenza ukuthi sithini ngemilomo yethu ngaphezulu abaphikisi acacile futhi ecacile. Ngokwesibonelo, lapho umuntu uthukuthele, angase wakhwinyisa, ukuthinta ngenkuthalo futhi bethukuthele. Lapho efuna ukujabulisa omunye umuntu ibuyisele ihamba eduze, nibheke amehlo, amantombazane ngokuvamile uqale ukusonta zingu izinwele noma izingubo ezifanele. Ngokungafani amagama zingu uyaqaphela ngamabomu izimpawu non-ngamazwi ukuba qotho ngokuthi imizwa yethu yangempela nezinhloso zethu. Kulesi sisekelo, ngisho bethole indlela ekhethekile kokubonwa kwamanga.

Bambalwa abantu bayakwazi ukulawula yabo komzimba. Ososayensi nezazi zokusebenza kwengqondo kanye zezilimi olwenziwa ucwaningo ehlukahlukene izimiso okusekelwe wabeka ekuxhumaneni buthule. Ngokwesibonelo, isihloko, wabuzwa ukuthi isikhathi kwaba, ngesikhathi esifanayo ekuboniseni izandla isenzo zokubhema. Abantu ezimweni ezinjalo, udidekile, engazi ukuthi ubonise iwashi, noma ufune ukufana ephaketheni lakho.

Ngezinye izikhathi, njengoba nazi ukuthi iyi-isenzo se-isithupha kanye umunwe kancane, lo muntu akazange avume uqonde ukuthi kungani, ukulibonisa Watshelwa ukushiya. Eziningi zalezi isandla ukunyakaza okungalindelekile. Kabi amandla akhe, okungukuthi, ukuthinta ngenhloso ziyingxenye ebalulekile ye sezokuxhumana. Ziyakwazi izimpawu zaziwa kubo bonke:

• ngemvume "KULUNGILE" (uxhumano emkhatsini isithupha ne forefinger);
• "Misa" (efakwe isandla side) nabanye.

Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, inani lezinhlamvu anda izandla, ingenza ithonya namasiko. Ngokwesibonelo, isenzo "eside siphile futhi siphatheke kahle" (Inkomba neminwe phakathi ndawonye, umunwe kancane futhi azwakale ndawonye, ibanga elibahlukanisile) zivela ifilimu.

Lisho ukuthini isenzo we isithupha futhi umunwe kancane?

iminwe zethu ngezinye izikhathi kakhulu kunakuqala kakhulu kunamazwi. Cabanga ngalokho iyi-isenzo - 2 iminwe, umunwe omkhulu futhi kancane. Okwakushiwo ezivame kakhulu lolu phawu - ukubingelela futhi Surfers eHawaii. Le ndlela bayibiza ngokuthi kuye "The Jackal" futhi ukuboniswa Ubuyisé isandla sakhe kuze kube komunye party. Umlando waleli isenzo kakhulu, futhi konke kuhlobene yokuthi abantu, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ibangelwa yini, walahlekelwa iminwe yabo, ngaphandle isithupha futhi umunwe kancane. Lezi zindaba zasendulo zihlanganisa akuzona ngaphandle umqondo, sengathi thina bazothumela sicindezelwe iminwe yakhe "Shake", kusho ukuthi isithupha wazibuza yona futhi umunwe kancane kuyoba evamile ukubingelela uphawu. Lobu ubufakazi obubodwa nje ukuhumusha lesi senzo. Ngokuvamile siwubonisa, lapho sifuna, othile wasishayela ucingo esitshela, sengathi esibonisa kwihendisethi endlebeni yakho. Abanye lesi senzo sibonisa isifiso noma anikele isiphuzo.

ukuthinta esisongela

Kanye isenzo ngenhla echazwe "uShaka", nabanye abaningi anezincazelo ezimbili, ikakhulukazi ukuhlukanisa emazweni ahlukahlukene. Ngokwesibonelo, ayinangozi futhi omuhle ephakanyiswe isithupha sakhe, okusho ukuthi wonke epholile, super, Iran kuwukwedelela kithi. Akubalulekile sokuyenga womuntu index ngomunwe ePhilippines, ngakho lapho iphathwa kuphela izinja. Kodwa "guys" yethu akunjalo friendly eBrazil - ufisa impumelelo futhi sikufisela inhlanhla. Lisho ukuthini isenzo we isithupha futhi umunwe kancane eRussia futhi emhlabeni, sithole, kodwa kukhona izinkulungwane zabanye. Amanani abo bonke ukuthinta, izimpawu khumbula kunzima, ngakho uthintane ngaphambi beya ezweni elithile, hhayi ukuthola enkingeni.

Ezinye izindlela ukusho ngaphandle amazwi

Njengoba sesixoxile, izindlela ukuveza imicabango yakhe ngaphandle amazwi kakhulu. Ngalesi eyakhelwe yonke imidlalo eyaziwa, charades, lapho kufanele ukuqagela igama ezichaza ngaphandle amazwi. Man intuitively uyaqonda ukuthi kuboniswa. Ngokuvamile ukuthinta enjalo ukhulula abantu abakhuluma izilimi ezahlukene. Eminye imithetho yokuxhumana ubonisa kanjani ukuthi uyangeneka ukukhumbula uzisebenzise ekuphileni kwansuku zonke. Ngokwesibonelo, uma ingxoxo Akubalulekile ukumboza umlomo wakhe, likhuluma amanga noma innuendo. Ngisho nokwazi ukuthi lwenhlonipho isithupha kanye umunwe kancane, ungayisebenzisi esimweni esisemthethweni. izingalo sawela noma imilenze ukukhuluma yokuba umtshingo ubethwa ngubani zokungazimiseli ukuxhumana. Awubalulekile ukubukeka eside emehlweni interlocutor noma, kunalokho, njalo ngibheka kwenye indawo. Eyokuqala kungaba kuthathwe njengendlela Ukudlala ngothando, ukubuka yesibili - njengoba noma kubaphoxe.