Lapho beya emathuneni ukuze bahloniphe abafileyo?

Amathuna kubantu abaningi ahlotshaniswa nento esabekayo, engathandeki futhi engafuneki. Kodwa kunezinsuku lapho zonke izihlobo kufanele zibuthe eduze nelithuna ilungu lomndeni oshonile ukuze likhumbule indawo yokungcwaba, khumbula lomuntu futhi uhloniphe inkumbulo yakhe.

Kungani lokhu kuyadingeka?

Isizukulwane sesimanje silahlekelwa ukuthintana namasiko futhi asazi ngisho nalapho abantu baya emathuneni ukuze bahloniphe oshonile. Abantu abasha abangenaso isifiso esikhulu sokubheka abazali babo noma ugogo nomkhulu, ngoba nje kufanele nikwenze. Futhi kaningi umuntu angazwa izimpikiswano mayelana nokuthi kuyafaneleka yini ukuya emangcwabeni nhlobo, ngoba umuntu ofile ngeke asize, futhi ngokuphila lo msebenzi kuwumthwalo kuphela. Into eyodwa ingashiwo: konke kufanele kuvele enhliziyweni.

Izinsuku ezingakhohlwa

Amasiko ama-Orthodox ane uhlu lwezinsuku lapho kufanelekile ukuya emathuneni ukuze adumisa abafileyo. Ngakho-ke, uhlu lweyamaMgqibelo luvuliwe - lokugcina ngaphambi kweLente Elikhulu. Phakathi naso, ungakhumbula futhi umshonile, kodwa ngoMgqibelo kuphela - owesibili, wesithathu, wesine. Okubalulekile ukuvakashela amathuna i-Radunica - usuku oluwela ngoLwesibili wesibili emva kwePhasika. Kukholelwa ukuthi ngalesi sikhathi abaphilayo kanye nabafileyo bayajabula ngokuvuka kukaKristu. Lapho uya emathuneni kumasosha? Ngomhlaka-9 Meyi, bayathokozela kakhulu ngomdlalo wabo omkhulu wokunqoba. Futhi uhloniphe amasosha afile kanye noSepthemba 11, usuku lokusika kwenhloko kaJohane uMbhapathizi. Izinsuku ezingaphezulu lapho abantu beya emathuneni ezihlotsheni zabo: uZiqu-zintathu ngoMgqibelo usuku olulandelayo ngaphambi komkhosi woZiqu-zintathu Ongcwele, futhi noDmitrovskaya ngoMgqibelo, ngo-Novemba 8, nalapho kuyisiko ukukhumbula bonke abantu abafile.

Izimpawu

Sasiqaphele lapho siya emathuneni. Manje kufanelekile ukuthola ukuthi yini okufanele wesabe ukuza endaweni enjalo. Ngokuvamile ungazwa umbuzo wokuthi ungaya emathuneni ebusuku. Abantu bakholelwa ukuthi awukwazi ukufika ngisho nangemva kwemini, ngoba emva kwalokhu le ndoda izoklolodela amademoni, ihlale ichitha impilo yakhe. Ungakhulumi ngesikhathi sebusuku. Futhi, ungafiki emathuneni adakwe noma adakwe endaweni yokungcwaba kwabafileyo. Lokhu kungabonisa ukudelela abantu abafile, ngenkathi bethukuthele imiphefumulo yabo. Futhi lokhu akupheli kahle. Kodwa lokhu akusho ukuthi awukwazi ukuphuza nhlobo emathuneni. Ngokuphambene nalokho, ukukhumbula umuntu wendabuko ophuza iwayini elihle kuyadingeka. Futhi, ungafungi futhi ufunge emangcwabeni, ngoba wonke amazwi amabi akhulunywa ngumuntu ngokushesha "anamathela" kuwo futhi anithinta impilo. Abafileyo abaxoleli ukungahloniphi. Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, musa ukuletha lutho emathuneni endlini yakho. Kukholelwa ukuthi lokhu kungaletha enkingeni, kungene endlini "ingxenye yokuphila" okufile.

Kungcono ungahambi!

Kubalulekile futhi ukuqonda ukuthi kungani umuntu engazange ahambe emathuneni omama abakhulelwe, abahlengikazi nezingane ezincane. Konke kulula kancane. Abantu abaningi bayazi ukuthi kukhona abantu abangenza izinto ezimbi - amantombazane abamnyama, ama-grandmothers-whisks, njll. Ngokuvamile indawo oyintandokazi kubantu ababi ingcwaba, ngoba Kulapha kuphela ekudleni ongadla amandla amabi afile. Futhi isigaba esishiwo ngenhla sabantu abangavinjelwe kakhulu, ngokuvamile "banamathela" kuzo zonke izinto ezimbi ezingenzeka khona. Futhi uma ufuna ngempela ukuya ethuneni lomuntu ozalwayo, kuzomele uzame ukuzivikela ngokuthatha isiphambano futhi uhlanganise iphinikhodi ngemuva kwezingubo zakho.