Izinkolelo-ze kanye anamahlazo. Kungani abesifazane abakhulelwe abakwazi ukuya emathuneni?

Ukukhulelwa yonke wesifazane - esinye sezenzakalo eziyinhloko. Ngaphakathi ke wazalwa, futhi ukuphila lithuthuka. Lokhu kuliragelo kanye ukuphila kohlanga lwesintu. Futhi umama, umntwana ongakazalwa, kudingeka uqaphe kakhulu futhi unake konke. Idinga ukuqapha ukudla kwabo, impilo, imizwa kanye nakho. Abakhulelwe ukholwa izimpawu bese uzama ngokuqinile konke ukuhlakanipha ethandwa weluleka. Abanaso ukugunda izinwele zabo, besaba ukuthi lokhu ngandlela-thile sizothinta isilinganiso sobude bokuphila somntwana ongakazalwa. Zama ukuhlala kude abantu ezimbi, ngakho musa jinxed. Futhi indlela yokuphatha abakhulelwe esemathuneni, umngcwabo eliyisikhumbuzo? Siyaqonda futhi sihlaziye.

Izinkolelo-ze kanye anamahlazo

Iqiniso lokuthi ukhulelwe sinqatshiwe ukuya emathuneni futhi umngcwabo, abanye babheka ukukholelwa ezeni nje, futhi musa abambe ukubaluleka. Abanye bakholelwa ukuthi phakathi kwabafileyo akusiyo indawo yowesifazane okhulelwe. Kukhona labo bantu abathi ukuthi konke kungenzeka, uma nje ukuvumela ingqondo ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa. Phela, konke ehlangene ukushonelwa imizwa kakhulu kabi kubekezelelwe futhi kubangela ukuthi owesifazane othile isikhundla contraindicated. Ngakho kungani abantu besifazane abangangeni ungaya amathuna?

Ngokusho eziningi, kodwa impendulo efanele lo mbuzo akazi konke. Abefundisi, abelaphi nochwepheshe wahlanganyela magic, phendula lo mbuzo ngendlela efanayo. Ukukhulelwa akuyona indawo emathuneni kanye nokwenza amalungiselelo omngcwabo.

Imibono neziphakamiso

Ukuze siphendule lo mbuzo kungani abesifazane abakhulelwe abakwazi ukuya emathuneni, asikhulume. Ukuze uqale, siphakamisa ukuxoxa ukuthi uchaze zikhonzi ukuvinjelwa iSonto abelaphi bendabuko, nabathakathi, nabathakathi.

Abantu bathi ngemva kokufa umphefumulo akuyona ngokushesha ushiya umzimba kaJesu yasemhlabeni kanye nendawo yokuhlala. It isikhathi esithile leseceleni umndeni, ukukhuluma cishe, ifuna indlela ukuze uhlale. Labo abayimilutha magic, qiniseka ukhiphe ngemva kokufa umphefumulo Ungahambisa endikimbenni entsha bese uqhubeke kokuhlala kwawo emhlabeni wabaphilayo. Yenza beqeda ukufika umuntu owazalwa, yena bengayi. Kodwa ekuthuthukiseni impilo esibelethweni - oyikho nalokho oyokwenza. Ngakho, nathi singakwethemba lokucabanga kungani abesifazane abakhulelwe abakwazi ukuya emathuneni. Emzimbeni wengane ongakazalwa ingandiza omunye (hhayi yakhe) umphefumulo.

Ngokuqondene ukuvakashelwa emathuneni, kukhona futhi akukhuthazwa ngoba nabathakathi abakhulelwe ukuhamba. Kukhona ukuphumula imiphefumulo abantu abafile. Ngakho, futhi, ezinye zazo ufuna ukuhambisa. Isizathu sesibili buhlobene futhi ubuthakathi esewuphendula mayelana nokuthi kungani abesifazane abakhulelwe abakwazi ukuya emathuneni. Owesifazane sikhundla kakhulu sensitive neso elibi, kulula ukubuyisela umonakalo. Amathuna ngaso sonke isikhathi ayebhekwa indawo esinamandla kunazo zonke sokuhlanganyela magic amasiko. Lapha "uhlangane" izinto ezimbi zodwa. Futhi uma wonke umuntu kulinda ingelosi umqaphi, ukuthi nomntwana esizalweni ayinakho isivikelo nobubi babantu.

Ayesonta nabo ukuphendula ophambene umbuzo ukuthi kungenzeka ngoba omama abakhulelwe ukuba baye emathuneni. agumenti wabo ecace kakhudlwana futhi eqondakalayo. Ngesikhathi emathuneni, isimo ekhethekile. Kube izinyembezi, abantu lila! Ngabathandekayo wahambelani othandekayo. Futhi imizwa extra ezimbi kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho kungase kabi kuthinte vyna.

Ukukhulelwa yokuvuka

Amathuna abakhulelwe kungcono hhayi khona. Kodwa ukukhumbula oshonile - isenzo sokulunga. Akufanele ngisho ukucabanga ngokuthi kungenzeka kwabesifazane abakhulelwe ukuya wake. Konke kuncike owesifazane, egqoke inhliziyo umntwana. Uma yena kungaletha ukuthi umoya, khona-ke ukukhumbula oshonile isidingo. Yiqiniso, ngaphandle ngokuphelele ukuphuza utshwala.

iziphetho okufutshane

Kusukela konke lokhu, umuntu ngamunye enze eziphethweni zayo. Ukholwa noma ungakholwa ku izimpawu ezihambisana ne imingcwabo ukuvakashela amathuna ukhulelwe, isinqumo zomuntu siqu. Enye into icacile: ukuphila nokufa une endaweni yawo. Lapho amanga abafileyo, hhayi isikhala abaphilayo ongakazalwa. Ngisho ngaphandle zokukholelwa ukwenza imilingo nokuthakatha, mhlawumbe hhayi kuwufanele ingozi? Kungazelelwe izinkolelo Folk bonakalisa kuphela yeqiniso? Kungenzeka yini ukuba adalule ingane yakho ngaphambi kokuzalwa ingozi?