Kungani ingane asaba? Indlela ukwesaba ukwesaba zezingane

Ukuze ukwazi ukuthi uzodlala kanjani ukwesaba ukuthi singase kokwesaba, ngingathanda ukukhuluma kancane ngezimbangela zokuziphendukela ukuvela nokuthuthukiswa yokwesabela zezingane. Ukuba khona le nkinga emkhayeni kusikisela ukuthi akusikho nje whims kanye iconsi wengane, kodwa imbangela sina sokukhathazeka. Ngokuvamile, ingane eba bayabesaba abantu iziphakamiso lokho okubizwa ngomlobokazi into umama esibi noma ubaba, isibonelo, besaba ukuthi kuzothatha le "bogeyman", uSathane, noma iphoyisa uma kukubi ukuziphatha kahle, noma esongelwa njalo ukuthi cut off the ulimi noma iminwe ngemuva angemahle noma engenangqondo wendiza, noma unina ogulayo futhi bayokhala uma ingane ngeke ukulalela. Izibonelo ezinjalo kungenziwa eliqhutshwa futhi engachazeki eside. Yiqiniso, bonke abazali ngenhla kusho bebagcona, kuphela ukungethusa kid. Lokho Abazali kuphela akazange baziqambela, ukuthi ingane yabo wawumnandi, ayamlalela futhi angazigcwalisa zonke izifiso zabo, nje bayakhohlwa eyodwa ukuthi ingane ubona konke njengoba iqiniso olukhulunywa ngabantu abadala.

Ukwesaba Fear singenzeka kudala njengoba ezinyangeni eziyisithupha ubudala, lapho ingane iphendula ukunakekelwa kamama, ngoba eceleni kwakhe azizwa Ukuvikelwa ngokugcwele, kuba ukhululekile, ethokomele, futhi amehlo akhe nezandla zakhe ukuba mnene ukukhuluma full inhlalakahle. Kodwa lapho umama akuyona emhlabeni, ukungabi umuntu oseduze nawe futhi obakhonzile kuba isici kwengane esibuhlungu. Lokhu kubonakaliswa kuyoboniswa nguMbusi ungakheka ingane yokwesaba yesizungu. Yiqiniso, lokhu muzwa uba abathuntubezwe nge sikhathi, uma abazali banake amazwi ingane, isibonelo, ukuthi abazange umshiya endaweni ethile eneminyaka emibili ubudala, iningi efulethini noma egumbini ngaphambi kokulala. Futhi, ukwesaba Ukwesaba kungasiqeda kuvele ngaphambi abangabazi, nabantu, njengoba isikhathi kusuka ezinyangeni eziyisishiyagalombili kuya phambili, umntwana uvalwe yayicindezele unina, uzama ukuthini ukufulathela abantu, ukukhala, ezingezwakali. On ezingeni ngaquleka, wesaba ukuthi laba bantu ukumzwisa ubuhlungu futhi into embi futhi kuphela ngemva kokuba, lapho abantu ukuza okokuqala ambonise uthando nemizwa efudumele, lokhu kwesaba uzoqala ukugqoka off. Endabeni okuphambene, ukwesaba ingaqala futhi kuholele ukuvela yokwesaba, kodwa uma lena akuyona isikhathi ukuze abone abuye asebenze nengane.

Kufanele kuqashelwe ukuthi lapho eneminyaka engu-eminyakeni emithathu ubudala, ngesikhathi usana ngenkuthalo wethulwa elalibazungezile, ufunde izindaba, bonisa opopayi nezithombe ezahlukene kungaba enye yokwesaba ngokwesaba ngendlela ingane ngokungazi ukufela noma ugula, lilapha amandla ingena the isazela. Angase wesabe lwasemaphusheni izinhlamvu, izinja ezinkulu noma ezinye izilwane, ukugibela coaster roller, kwenyukela amanzi, njengoba kukhona ebusuku ezethusayo nezingane, balala kabi, besaba isijeziso nokuningi. Kodwa kaningi kakhulu abaseminyakeni yobudala ephakathi kwengu kweminyaka emihlanu kanye no eziyisithupha izingane ubudala ukuzwa ukwesaba ukufa, okuyinto kubangelwe izici of ekukhuleni kwengane.

Ngokuqinisekile, ukwesaba obumnandi cishe zonke izingane futhi ukuqinisekisa ukuthi abazange zibe yokwesaba, kumelwe ngokushesha ukubhekana nazo, ukuze bahlale ukuxhumana nengane yakho, kungaba umngane weqiniso, kuzo zonke ngokuqonda nangokuphendula kwakhe ungahlala ithemba. Big iphutha abazali, okuyinto enomthelela kuleliya lizwe elibhekene nezinxushunxushu umntwana, ukuthi ngokuvamile bathola izinkinga zabo siqu futhi izingxabano phambi kwengane. Ngakho-ke, uma izingxabano emndenini ngenakugwemeka, thola ngaphandle phambi kwezingane zabo. Nokho, ukwesaba uhlala, Uma, abazali Kuyaphuthuma ukubona onguchwepheshe. Ukulungiswa ukwesaba e bazala izingane isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo yezingane ngosizo imidwebo, Ekwenza Umlingiswa imidlalo, ukwelulekwa ngabanye ezingakusiza ukuthola imbangela yokwesaba eziyiqiniso, ukuze iwukudambisa imithombo futhi akwazi ukuhlula enethemba lokuthi lokho kwesaba ngeke iyobalimaza ekuphileni kwakhe.