Kokuziphatha okubi, sisonqenqemeni nangale

kwezinkambiso Zokuziphatha yanoma yimuphi isiko yakhiwa izinhlelo zokuziphatha futhi ukubekezelelana wabo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ahole indlela yokuphila enokuziphatha okubi angeke baze ngisho baphika ukuthi imithetho ezivamile engabhaliwe, kodwa umane ayimfanele kwabo kanye nemicabango yabo izimiso zokuphila. Ngakho, bonke abaxoshiweyo empilweni yami abaningi abasiqondi laba babhali basezingeni abantu abakhaliphile futhi abaculi kanye umbono ayo lokusungula. Nokho, okubi ingaba enonya, inkanuko futhi iyingozi kwabanye.

Izimiso yokuziphatha okubi esephule indlela yokuziphatha

Umqondo zokuziphatha akukwazi ngoba bonke abantu ngokufanayo, ngakho ukuthola kusuka kwelinye izwe, ukweqa amazwekazi, awukwazi ukungisiza hhayi kuphela isikhundla kwendawo, kodwa futhi moya kwenkululeko nokuziphatha okwamukelekayo. Kodwa-ke umqondo womhlaba wonke. Amagama obanqabelayo yamazinga zokuziphatha ebiyelwe microsociety lapho abantu njalo liphenduka. Ngamunye kithi ngoba 'ayenohlaka "enjalo perimeters okungenani ezimbili - ekhaya nasemsebenzini (cwaningo).

Umbono Siqu zokuziphatha kudala imvelo isikhathi samanje isikhathi umuntu. Ngeke kubhekwe isimiso sokuziphatha kwesokudla eRussia yesimanje owenza indoda cultured kakhulu ekhulwini XVII eFrance. Kunjengoba okungalungile njengoba ukudlulisa umqondo wethu wokuba nesizotha besifazane emphakathini Muslim zamanje, lapho ngisho owesifazane ukufunda ezinye izincwadi beqonda kokuziphatha okubi.

Ithi ngokuyinhloko mayelana nenqwaba umqondo zokuziphatha. Kuyinto ukuchitha isikhathi simelane, njengoba umphakathi ngokushesha sinquma zezikhulu zayo eliphikisa futhi lehlukanisa ke. Kala ukwahlukanisa kulokhu ukhonza njengelungu ejele, esibhedlela psycho-izinzwa, ukwengamela zomphakathi iziphathimandla okugada, nabanye. Endabeni elihle kunawo, umuntu nje ukuwela aphume uchungechunge yi kuhlukaniswa yezenhlalakahle zokuziphatha.

Okubi njengoba nomqondo ngokungemthetho

Akungatshazwa ukuthi indlela amoral yokuphila yayiyoba nesenzakalo kancane ezingavamile, uma izinyathelo ezithathwe ngokumelene izimo ejwayelekile lokungaziphathi kahle, some okungenani kuya sola yomphakathi, engesiyo njalo. Ngokuvamile hooliganism kancane ngendlela ebonakala ingenangozi, ikhula amafomu omkhulu impango nokuhuheka, ubudlova, ukweba (ukuphanga) kuphela ngenxa connivance phezu ingxenye "ochumile" umphakathi.

Ukungabikho Kulicala esenzweni kokuziphatha okubi kunazo kwenza izakhamuzi shí Maze zokuziphatha okubi, uzizwa kuqhathaniswa evikelekile. Ukusebenzela umphakathi, izinhlawulo kanye nezinye izijeziso zokuphatha akuvamile ukuphumelela umphumela kulindeleke, futhi kuphela kwaphoqa ubuntu ezijulile dukane ekubeni ubutha ngokumelene nenkambiso yamasiko yokuziphatha.

ukuziphatha okubi emkhayeni

Ifomu olunzima kunalo lonke ake kokuziphatha okubi, Ngokuqinisekile lokhu kubhekisela thuthuva ka naphakathi-uhlamvu. Ngaphansi isitembu "enkingeni" ngeke ngokuzenzakalelayo uthole bobabili abazali kanye nokungakwazi ukuba simelane nokucindezela kungamboza ububi kokuziphatha omunye abashadayo futhi ukuntuleka nokuziphatha. Uma iziphuzo uyise futhi ivumela yena ukwesabisa ukuphila impilo yamalungu omkhaya nabanye abantu abadala iyahlupheka ke izimiso zabo zokuziphatha futhi are ngabazeka.

okubuhlungu nakakhulu isimo lapho i-kokuziphatha okubi kwabazali ahlupheke ezincane. Emacaleni angakajayeleki nangaphansi elibukhali lomlindi angaphandle (othisha, othisha enkulisa, omakhelwane), isimo uyazinaka imikhaya futhi umisa kokuqondisa kuka-maqembu ingozi. Ngisho ngezikhathi ezithile ukuhoxisa kwebantfwana labavela emindenini, kodwa lokhu kwenzeka kuphela ngemva kobufakazi bokuthi yokuhlala wengane ngaphansi kweso umkhaya kusongela ukuphila kwakhe nokuziphatha.

Ukuphazamiseka okuzivumelanisa evamile nezenhlalakahle ingane kunosongo ngqo nempilo yakhe engokomzimba hhayi kuphela - amaqembu engaqondile ehlaselwe umqondo wakhe siqu kuyinsakavukela, hhayi kangako. Lokhu okubizwa ngokuthi "ingcindezi" abazali okuhloswe ngazo omunye nomunye - amahlazo njalo, Yimpi, ngezinye izikhathi - ovulekile futhi esidlangalaleni wabonisa uyise nonina ohlangothini uxhumano.

ukuwohloka kokuziphatha zokuziphatha izingane emikhayeni engenabo ubunye

Iphuzu lokuqala ngokomzwelo ezivezwa ingane uma kwenzeka njalo, iqhaza ngisho unwitting ezimpini umndeni noma ukubheka indlela yokuphila enokuziphatha okubi phezu ingxenye abazali - kungcono kokwesaba, ukungaqondi, bangabethembi abanye abazi lutho okwenzekayo. Lokhu kanye izigaba ezayo eqiwe, uma leso simo ezungezwe ingane ngesikhathi sokuzalwa. Khona-ke, kanye yithemba kufika isifiso ukubuyisela ukuqonda phakathi kwabazali.

Esigabeni esilandelayo - ke Akusizi, okuyiwona (ngenxa ubunjalo ingane) ungaya: ubudlova, inzondo noma aloofness kukora. Kulesi sigaba, izingane ezincane ukuthuthukisa Autism, kukhona ukubambezeleka ukuthuthukiswa, izinguquko ukuziphatha ube mubi kakhulu. Izingane ezindadlana ukushiya umndeni, ezama ukuzibulala. Cishe njalo kukhona "ukwenza-ukholwa" - njengoba Ithuba abazali elinye ithuba ukuba basanguluke, kodwa ngokuvamile izinqumo ezifana yenza ngokuphelelwa yithemba iphele izinyembezi.

Ulimi izibalo ezomile

Ocwaningweni T. N. Kurbatovoy (Petersburg), VK Andrienko (eMoscow), A. S. Belkina (Ekaterinburg) nezinye abalobi, iziyaluyalu ukufunda inqubo yemfundo emikhayeni, singaphetha ngokuthi kukhona ezijayelekileko ngokuhlanganisa inkinga emndenini.

Ingozi bezibona osontekile ingane zokuziphatha futhi zokuziphatha, umkhaya uthole:

• kuhlanganise omunye umzali nengane;
• Izinga eliphansi kwezemfundo kokubili abazali;
• lapho ukuphila kokuziphatha okubi we unina noma uyise kuyisici unomphela;
• ngenxa yokuntula ephelele izwe, ngokwedelela ngoba izindinganiso zomphakathi wangaleso ukuziphatha;
• lapho okungenani oyedwa kubazali engumlutha wotshwala, NgangikuMoya MLS nabanye.

Lesi sibalo has a uhlamvu ejwayelekile futhi noma kunjalo akuyona into engavamile.