Kanjani ukuyeka olumemeza izingane zabo

Ngithanda umugca kusuka incwadi engake ukufunda. Kwakukhona into efana: "Uma kungenjalo ezisongela ukuphila, uma indlu yakho ayinayo umlilo, noma akwenzekanga yimuphi omunye eziphuthumayo yomphakathi, uma ingane yakho eduze kuka at ibanga isigamu sekhilomitha, kukhona asikho isidingo sokumemeza kulo ".

Umthelela ezinganeni

Ukukhala nomthelela ongemuhle futhi ngokuqondile ngokuthi umntwana bazibone, lokho abakucabangayo ukuphila futhi mayelana nendawo yabo emhlabeni. Kodwa ukukhala kunethonya elibi hhayi nje kuphela izingane kodwa abazali ngokwabo. Bayakwazi ukunciphisa ukuzethemba sabazali sebeqala ukuzizwa namahloni ukuziphatha kwabo futhi uzisole ukuthi benzani.

Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi lapho umzali uyakhala, akabe akhethe ukuthi uzothini, njengoba kwenzeka engxoxweni evamile ethule.

Kungani abazali hamba ukukhala?

Uma ufuna ukuyeka olumemeza izingane zakho, kumelwe siqale siqonde ukuthi kuphakamisa ukuthi ukukhala. Yebo, izingane ngokuvamile naughty, kodwa kudingeka wazi ukuthi kungani uqala ukukhala, esikhundleni ukukhuluma enhliziyweni.

90% sabazali ukuthethisa izingane zabo baye babhekana into efanayo njengoba ingane. Cishe bonke, bamzonda lapho abazali bazo bamemeza kubo, kodwa manje konke lokho abakwaziyo. Basebenzisa esibonelweni esifanayo ukuziphatha nezingane zabo ngezikhathi zokucindezeleka.

Khona-ke, abazali kufanele baqonde ukuthi uzokwazi uthole impendulo kuphela emva stop futhi ayeke ezwa umsindo wokuklabalasa. Iqiniso liwukuthi ngesikhathi ukukhala ingane izizwa okubi kakhulu, uyozama bazivikele, futhi ungase uqale ngisho nomuzwa wokuphendula ngamazwi alimazayo. Ngenxa yokwesaba noma ukucasuka, angakwazi ukuphenduka emkhubeni wakhe ngesikhathi esifushane kakhulu, kodwa intukuthelo futhi ukuhlazeka ngeke anyamalale, futhi ngokushesha ingane bayokwenza okufanayo. Isibonelo esihle kungaba lapho ngengila umzali usebenza nezingane ezincane kakhulu. Kodwa lapho zikhula, abazali nakudzingeka yokungalaleli sina.

Ekhuluma

Ngakho, uma umuntu uyabona ukuthi ekhala kuphela ngoba wayengazi ukuthi okunye ukuthi baziphathe kanjani, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo, awusebenzi ukuxazulula le nkinga, okungaba yinto ehlukile? Ingabe likhona ikhambi?

Udinga ukuqeqesha ngokwakho sengidonsa umoya, bese kuphela ngomoya ophansi ukhombe ingane lokho ukuziphatha kwenu abangayilindela kuye.

Ngokwesibonelo, uma ingane ebukele ithelevishini noma badlala kukhompuyutha esikhundleni sokwenza umsebenzi wesikole wasekhaya, uthi, "Udinga ukumisa asemikhumbini bese uqala ukwenza umsebenzi wakho wesikole." Uma ingane icela wamthenga elinye ithoyizi, okuyinto, ngokombono wakho, akudingekile, ungasho, "Ungayeka encenga njengamanje, noma bathathe ikhefu. Yini ukhethe? "Uma ingane iyiswe ukukhala, cishe, ngeke ngokushesha ixazululwe. Umzali kufanele athathe isandla sakhe phila endaweni predetermined isikhashana. Ingane kumele achithe imizuzu embalwa, kuye ngokuthi yobudala. Ngemva kwalokho, abazali kufanele uthathe ingane emuva aveze kuye ukuthi okulindele kuwo - isibonelo, umsebenzi wesikole.

Leli thuluzi entsha ukuqeqeshwa kuyosiza abazali azethembe kakhudlwana bazokwazi ukuqhathanisa lokho abakufundile esemncane by uyise nonina, umthandazo oyisibonelo entsha yokuziphatha, futhi ukuqonda ukuthi iyiphi siphumelela ngokwengeziwe futhi ukuthi usizo kangcono endabeni isiyalo.