Self-kulinywe, Psychology
Kanjani ukuba nesibindi ukulwa? Izindlela ukunqobile ukwesaba kwakho
Ngokushesha Kufanele kwaziwe kodwa ukuthi ukwesaba into anecala. Lena ngokuphelele umuzwa evamile, okuyinto engavamile kunoma yimuphi umuntu. Ngakho-ke, akufanele babe namahloni. Okubaluleke kakhulu, musa nje uthole siyalwa. Kuwufanele ukuqala ukuzama ukugwema ke nakanjani. Futhi ungacabangi ukuthi kuleli cala ngeke uphase ngoba igwala. Esokuqala unakekele impilo yabo, futhi umbono hhayi zomunye umuntu. Kodwa uma kungenakwenzeka ukuba ubaleke, kubalulekile ukufuna isixazululo umbuzo kanjani ukuba nesibindi ukulwa.
Cishe, akunakwenzeka ukuba umuntu kuvela ungesabi ukulwa. Kodwa iphuzu elisemqoka ukwesaba kuphela ekuqaleni. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ukuzethemba zanda kakhulu. Futhi akusiwona nje impi. Ngokuyinhloko, abantu besaba kwaba lokho akwenza kakhulu akuvamile noma akakaze abathande.
Uma kungenzeka ukubhalisa ezemidlalo kwesigaba lapho, ungakwazi ukuthenga pair of isibhakela amagilavu futhi ukufuna usizo lomngane, ngubani uyokwenza njengoba umlingani sparring. Futhi uma lokhu kungasebenzi, ungathola njalo umuntu ufuna ukulwa, futhi ukwandisa ithemba lazo uyisebenzisa. Kungenzeka ukuthi uvumelane kusengaphambili ukuthi impi zizokwenzeka amagilavu. Ngemva kwalokho, lapho umbuzo kanjani ukuba nesibindi ukulwa, kuyoba cishe ixazululwe, isidingo amagilavu uzonyamalala.
Uma kunjalo isivele eze amagalelo, akufanele basheshe futhi ashaye kuqala. Ake kuzokwenza isitha sakho. Phakathi nempi Kufanele sisebenzise wonke amandla abo futhi ukukhumbula izikhathi ezingemnandi neze ukuthi wake iphutha.
Uma njalo utshele yena, "Ngiyesaba ukulwa," ukuthi lokhu kwakuyoba nomphumela omuhle abanakulindela. udinga ukushiya ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka nale nkulumo, njengoba kunganciphisa ukuzethemba amakhono abo futhi amakhono. Ingxabano kudinga ukulawula okuphelele futhi ukuthembela okuphezulu. Ngakho-ke, le mpi nge izakhiwo zabo, bese lutho kungaba ukwethuse!
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