Izindlela kwenqondo ukuzivikela yomuntu ekubhujisweni

Ngokuvamile umuntu esebunzimeni isimo, kuphambene umqondo wakhe lendawo emphakathini ukuthi lokhu umuntu amkhethile uqobo. Ngezinye izikhathi izifiso komuntu musa uqondane amakhono ayo. Noma isimo sengqondo sabanye angahambisani isithombe somuntu nge indlela acabanga ngayo ngaye ngokwakhe. Ngenxa yalokho, kukhona kudideka okungaphakathi, impikiswano phakathi ezimbili "Mina": omunye wabo sengathi ubukele kusukela ngaphandle ugxeka yesibili "Mina" kanti eyesibili "Mina" ngifuna izaba ukungapheleli kwakhe.

Le umuzwa ukungakhululeki yangaphakathi on izindlela ukuzivikela ngokwengqondo yomuntu. Bavumela umuntu ayiphule nasezimweni ezinzima, ngokuvamile ngisho ukuze siphile, futhi ngezinye izikhathi uzizwe ujabule. Isibonelo isivikelo esinjalo ongakhonza phakathi neMpi Yezwe II, lapho nokuvinjezelwa kweLeningrad abantu wakwazi ukunikeza inkulumo yaseshashalazini, lokugubha izinsuku zokuzalwa, ziphatha nedlanzana uphizi omisiwe, kanye njengesipho abaletha sikaphalafini log.

Mhlawumbe, uma kwakukhona izindlela njalo iningi ukuzivikela kwengqondo - lokhu ukuphika, ukucindezelwa noma ezingabekwa zokucindezelwa kwalabo bantu. Nge zonke usizi aba nalo lapho imvelo abantu umbeki imicabango wokungabi nathemba futhi amathuba okufa kuseduze futhi waphila, sakhe kabusha ngeminye imininingwana yokuphila esidlule ujabule (ukunciphisa). Bona ngeke usinde kuphela ngokwabo, kodwa wabuye waphakamisa umoya buthaka, ukudala emhlabeni ngokwayo sengqondo kunesidingo.

Ukuzama ukugwema ukukhuluma mayelana nokuhluleka, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kwakunzima kangakanani kanzima, abantu nginenhliziyo baqhubeka ukwenza icala evamile, ukugeza phansi futhi curled izinwele, wafunda tinkondlo ukufunda izingane izindaba (kuphika). Labo akabanga namandla engqondo ivikelwe - ukuphika, like isiponji, ugxile izindaba ezimbi iyona black zaveza Ngokuzayo - ukuphula, ekugcineni, wehluleka ukubhekana ubuhlungu nokwesaba ngenakugwemeka.

Ngokuvamile, ngesikhathi ezimpini zanoma isiphi umuntu kubaluleke kakhulu ukuze ufake phakathi izindlela ukuzivikela ngokwengqondo. Kungenxa yokuthi akayena nje kudingeke baphile esimweni esinzima - lapha sivamile isekela isilwane isazela elula - kodwa bakwazi ukubulala abanye abantu. lo mqondo "ukubulala" into engokwemvelo abantu evamile. Kodwa ngokuba okuhle kwezwe lokhokho okwakudingeka yenziwe is. Bese kuthi-ke amasosha ebuchosheni zihlanganisa ezifana izindlela ukuzivikela zengqondo ukuhleleka depersonalization.

Endabeni amasosha depersonalization wazama ukukhohlwa ukuthi phambi kwabo abaphiwe umndeni kakhulu, nabo ukuzwisa ubuhlungu nokwesaba. Ukuze ingqondo yakhe siqu emihle dehumanizes isitha, emchaza igama onohlonze - ". Isitha"

Ukuncishiswa usevumile nobuchopho kuphela ingxenye ulwazi evumela ukuba umuntu aphile ku ne ukwazi ubumsulwa bakhe siqu. Le ndlela yokuvikela bubonakala kule justifications ka bangamasela nabaphangi ngokucacile. Ziyakwazi ngokuphelele 'akhohlwe "ukuthi umhlaba okukhulunywa ngawo ababeyizuze ngokungemthetho, kubalulekile ukuba okuyinhloko. Esikhathini engela ikhanda abantu abanjalo ukubeka kuphela yokuthi lezi zinto noma imali njengoba kwakunesidingo esikhulu kakhulu ngaye.

Ngo Izibonelo losers noma sinqatshiwe kungabonakala nasemkhakheni ezifana izindlela ukuvikelwa ngokwengqondo ezifana ezokuthutha kanye lelivakalako. Ngokuvamile, ababuthakathaka sengingene kuhluke izinga ezifana okufanele asolwe izinkinga zabo ezingaba nayo kwabanye, ukusola yokuthi Isiphelo sakhe kwamiswa ezingasehlela akuyona indlela engcono, hhayi kuye ngokwakhe, kodwa abaholi ababi, umfazi omubi, ngisho sezulu ezinjengendle (projector). Indlela efanayo Ukuvikelwa ngokuvamile obonakaliswe kokubalula kwabanye abantu izimfanelo zabo ezimbi.

Ukudluliselwa kwenzeka kaningi kakhulu ezimweni lapho izifiso zifeziwe ezizindeni substitutable. Ngokwesibonelo, esikhundleni ethandekayo insizwa ichithela isidoda sayo ukudayiswa "ubusuku izimvemvane" noma, okubi kakhulu, uyelapheka uma edlwengula ingane abasha. Naphezu kwakho konke lokho, lo muntu akazange ahlupheke kusukela lokuthi ukuziphatha kwakhe, uma sikubeka kahle, uphansi nokunyanyisayo.

By the way, kwengqondo izindlela ezifanayo ukuzivikela ingaba njengesihluthulelo ngezindlela ezakhayo lokho, lesichubekako, ngisho anqobe ukungakhululeki kwangaphakathi. Isibonelo salokhu - ukudluliswa abazali ababonisa ngayo uthando ku ingane yomunye, ngokuvamile okuthatha indawo imikhaya ekungeyona eyakhe, lapho abazali abakwazi uzozala ingane yabo.

Namuhla, kukhona isayensi ukuthi okufundiswa zokufuna ngokuzenzakalela ukuqeqeshwa, ngawo umuntu kungaba ngumnikazi ukuze asule umphefumulo iziphi izinxushunxushu zangaphakathi. It is baze bathi ngokusebenzisa izivivinyo ezifana abantu abakwazi ngokuyinhloko uguquko hhayi nje ngokwakhe, kodwa futhi wonke ikusasa lakhe bebonke.