Isipho kumyeni wakhe ngoba lwakhe lokuzalwa: izinkinga unsolvable azenzeki

Ukunika izipho - lokhu kufana, futhi ukuzithola, noma ngisho kangcono, emva sonke isikhathi esichithwa ekufuneni isipho labetibambile ingasi ezingenalutho zokudla yezitolo, futhi ngichitha isikhathi kunqubo ngempela, futhi imizwa sabhekana nalo kulezi umnikelo, lapho ngiye ncamashi zibone ukuthi isipho senkululeko wafika ukunambitha, futhi tostuemy ngobuqotho ukubona kuye, asifani yini enye. Ngeshwa, i-choice isipho - akusiyo njalo into elula futhi kumnandi: kwezinye izimo uba inkinga yangempela, futhi omunye olunzima amacala zokwelapha - isipho kumyeni wami ngoba usuku lwakhe lokuzalwa, kanye iliphi elinye iholide.

Njalo owesifazane oshadile ubhekene nalesi simo njalo ngonyaka: eqinisweni ukuthenga isipho lokuzalwa komyeni wami - akusiwona into efanayo ukuhalalisela induna noma umzala yesibili. Esimeni sesibili, kwanele ukubonisa isithakazelo sazo ngempela eqolo, kodwa isipho ndawo esibophezelayo, ongathwali lutho siqu. Ngenxa yale njongo, efanelekayo ezithakazelisayo, kodwa okunzima futhi singathathi hlangothi eziyisikhumbuzo izipho: amabhola Newton, itafula amawashi, paperweights, amapeni Diaries nokunye. Endabeni othandekayo kuyoba ezifiselekayo ukujabulisa, awutholi ngisho noma hhayi ezishibhile, kodwa isipho esisemthethweni, isipho ukuthi kuyasiza ngempela futhi iyoba umthombo yokuziqhenya, hhayi kuphela ngoba into ngokwayo, kodwa futhi umkakhe, ngubani wakwazi ukuqonda othandekayo futhi izithakazelo zakhe. Yiqiniso, kulula kakhulu anganipha isipho nomyeni wami lwakhe lokuzalwa, uma wazi kahle ukuthi ufuna, kodwa, kungenzeka ukuthi iminyaka ukuthi bahlala ndawonye, ukwazile ukwenza zonke amaphupho akhe, bese uqala entsha kathathu ngonyaka, ngaphambi lokuzalwa kwakhe, February 23, futhi isikhathi kufike uNyaka omusha akusebenzi njalo. Okufanele ukwenze kuleli cala?

Ngakho, bayakhohlwa eshaweni si, neziqholo, izibopho nezinye izincwadi ezivamile: le akuyona izipho, izinto ezidingekayo, futhi ukuthenga kubo lokuzalwa akayena ngempela lesifanele: sithola bekhungathekile lapho esiyikho amaholide ukunikeza okusansimbi noma vacuum cleaner. Lo muntu - izipho kweqiniso, ngisho uma isondo amageyimu - ungakhathazeki: namuhla kungenzeka konke. Yiqiniso, uma indoda inezinwele wokuzilibazisa, isipho kumyeni wakhe ngoba lwakhe lokuzalwa ukwenza lula kakhulu, ngoba yempendulo phezu. Futhi akagcini yokuthi lena umdlalo wena sikhulu ecasulayo: ke annoys ngempela, akusiyo, kodwa iqiniso ukuthi unakho isikhashana wathatha zonke ukunakekela kwakhe. Kuyinto isipho esinjalo uyakwazi ukuze alungise leso simo: Okokuqala, umyeni bayoqaphela ukuthi uyenzele bahloniphe futhi bacabangele izithakazelo zabo, futhi okwesibili, kuzodingeka isihloko esisha okuxhumana. Ngokwesibonelo, uma ngobuhlanya into ecasulayo ukuthi kusihlwa wakho othandekayo babehlezi ekamelweni poker, mnike iqoqo poker, futhi ngeke nje wena nijabula ndawonye kusihlwa, kodwa futhi uthole ithuba lokuwina okuthile okuthakazelisayo. Futhi ungesabi ukuthi ngeke ngalo mqondo: ngokuqinisekile wena uyazi ukuthi bathanda ukuba asifundise.

Futhi uma kungekho intshiseko, noma ziyashintsha ngesivinini eduze isikhala kuqala? Khona-ke nathi angakunika yinto engabonakali. Namuhla, kunamabandla izinhlangano eziningi ukuthi ngokukhethekile kulezi ngezipho ukukunikeza izitifiketi ahlukahlukene isipho. Kungaba ezihlukahlukene imisebenzi kakhulu ezifana paragliding noma Awamapharashuthi, futhi kungaba kanye nokuvakashela izindawo ezijabulisayo, master emakilasini noma izifundo ezihlukahlukene. Kuningi yokuvela nemizwelo yibhange. Uma isipho esinjalo ukuhlanganisa ekupheleni romantic kosuku, le lokuzalwa ngeke ngikukhohlwe isikhathi eside.

Ungase futhi wenze isipho ezithakazelisayo ngezandla zabo, okubonisa esiphezulu emcabangweni izinto. Lokhu kungaba zakudala ijezi wathungela kanye ikhava fun for a phone noma ikhompyutha ephathekayo isikhwama mobile - okubaluleke kakhulu, ukuthi isipho esinjalo ukufanisa ukunambitheka kanye nesitayela abakhethiwe yakho eyodwa.

Manje, ngalokho ukuba ningayeki: ngaphezu amazwana ngenhla futhi izimpahla nsuku zonke, unganikeli yini ongayiqondi, ngoba ingozi ithandeke noma ukuthola ukuthi yini kakade lapho, impela high. Uma ungabaza - kangcono ukwenza trinket kuhle ukuthenga kuka neze.