Intsha namuhla ngemehlo Muscovites

Intsha namuhla ... kuyini lokho? Nsuku zonke senza zingabuka etimeni letehlukene lapho ngandlela-thile efakiwe esizukulwaneni esisha futhi naphezu kwakho konke, singasebenzisa iziphetho ezifanele.

Ngokuphathelene nempikiswano intsha yanamuhla, mina baphendukela Muscovites, ukuthola indlela kubahlali bedolobha lethu kholwa intsha yanamuhla ngokuqondene namandla ayo ukushintsha izwe libe yindawo engcono. Abantu okwaxoxwa nabo babuzwa imibuzo efana: "Ucabangani mayelana intsha yanamuhla? "Futhi" Ungacabanga, intsha yanamuhla ukushintsha isimo sethu? '. Ubudala yabaphenduli zazisuka iminyaka engu-16 kuya ku-60, okungukuthi ukunikeza izimpendulo zemibuzo abantu izizukulwane ezahlukene. Kuyindida, ngombono wami, kwaba ukuthi abantu abadala wakhuluma intsha yanamuhla, ngokuvamile ngamazwi amahle, futhi-ke isizukulwane esisha ontanga yabo wanika kungiphathe kabi ukungasabeli kahle.

Ngokuvamile, abantu abadala, wathi intsha yanamuhla, ikakhulukazi abantu abasha e Moscow, esebenzayo, liqhubekela phambili, ukuze uphumelele kusho inzuzo ngokusebenzisa ulwazi lwabo. Ngokwesibonelo, Marina Ivanovna, impesheni, ebizwa ngokuthi i-enhle, ukuze ukwazi ukugcizelela side yabo engcono. On the izinguquko zesimo, owesifazane waphawula yini ukuthi abantu abasebasha bayakwazi ukwenza izwe lethu elingcono, kodwa, okokuqala kunakho konke, incike kumuntu. Uma intsha bayizisulu, uyakwazi, ubuqili, yena unamandla okunipha ezinhle ezweni labo.

cala kuyiwa nge esizukulwaneni esisha. Ngokwesibonelo, Lisa (18) ukholelwa ukuthi intsha yanamuhla, lapho naye ungowasendaweni yena, ukuthi uthola wakhe, kodwa ukwenza akusiyo izindlela ngempela ukujabulisa futhi ehloniphekile, okungukuthi, ngolimi olulula, "kuyinto ekhanda." Ukuze uthole ukuthi intsha yanamuhla Ungashintsha isimo sethu, unikeza impendulo eqondile - Cha!. Girls Catherine futhi Nastya (kokubili 16) kubhekwa osemusha yesimanje kakhulu, kangangokuthi ufuna uthole okungcono kakhulu kwe-adrenaline, kodwa njengoba sazi, zonke izindlela lwamukelwa lihlukile. Abanye esakhuluma okukhulunywe intsha yanamuhla inhlamba ngaphezulu, ukuze akazi ukuthi baziphathe kanjani. On the izinguquko umbuzo isimo siphendula okungekuhle. Ngisho nasezikhathini zasendulo sefilosofi USocrates wakhuluma intsha: "Izingane namuhla abathanda ukunethezeka; bona babo abafundisekile kahle, baye ngingalihloniphi negunya, akazihloniphi abadala, kubonelelwa kakhulu ama-hhayi matasa, nezingxoxo ezingenanjongo kuyabalimaza .. Izingane manje omashiqela, hhayi izinceku endlini. Sebayeka avuke lapho abadala faka. Bona perechat abazali, ukuhleba kanye nontanga, amaswidi udla ekudleni, nebahleli imilenze yakhe sawela, zihlekise othisha bazo. " Kwathatha ezingaphezu kweyodwa yeminyaka futhi isimo ayikashintshi. Kungenzeka ukuthi ushintshe hhayi abantu abangongqingili, kanye namagugu abo?

Endaweni yokuqala-ke, lokho kuyoba asemasha, incike imfundo imvelo. Umndeni ozinakekelayo ukuthuthukiswa olunzulu ingane futhi ukunikeza izinzuzo ezifanele, ikhula umuntu unenjongo ekhethekile, kwenhlonipho abanye, kodwa lokhu akunjalo ngaso sonke isikhathi. Singakhumbula lokho okubizwa ngokuthi "majors", "intsha osemqoka". Kuzo, azikho izimiso zokuziphatha, konke kugxile imali kanye neqiniso lokuthi ungathenga ngabo. Abantu abaningi baye wezwa lo mkhuba womjaho wasemgwaqeni, okusho Ukugibela ngejubane breakneck. Ngokuvamile, kuba isici "intsha osemqoka", okuyinto has abazali "kusukela phezulu", ehlanganisa ukuzidela izingane abawuthandayo.

Lokhu kusho ukuthi yonke intsha ifuna kudingeka kunephutha? Ngokubona kwami, cha, ngoba kukhona intsha abakhuthele ekuphileni komphakathi, okwenza izimpilo zabanye ezithakazelisayo.

Konke okungenhla kusikisela ukuthi intsha ozama ukushintsha ikusasa, kodwa awusebenzi ngaso sonke isikhathi ukunikeza ngokugcwele ukwenza yokuntula kwabo siqu, kanye nabantu abafuna ukuphatha abantu abangekho ukwazi ngokwanele ukuhlola oda isimo, okuyinto lula ukuphatha. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile, okokuqala kunakho konke, ukuhlakulela abantu ngohlamvu capital ke konke kuyoba kuhle empilweni yethu.