Lena akuyona usakhula lula

Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi zonke abazali abhekene nezinkinga yemfundo yengane yakhe, ikakhulukazi acute esiyitholayo lapho senza khona layo wazizwa ingane usakhula.

Uthoma akuyona isikhathi okulula ecishe ibe yishumi ubudala. Izingane ngalesi yobudala babe "alufakwa" kanye nalabo abasengcupheni, ngakho-ke kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba uyakwazi ukubona izinkinga wengane futhi simthole indlela.

Kufanele kuqashelwe ukuthi ochwepheshe ukuhlukanisa usakhula ekuseni, okuyinto has izici zayo siqu futhi isignali ngowokuqala abazali ukuthi ingane yabo ku kufika ithuba lika-nokuvuthwa kwawo. Phakathi nale nkathi, ubunzima main okuqhubekisela umfundi ukuba afunde futhi ontanga.

Konke lokhu wawuhlanganisa lapho kuqala inkathi yokuthomba phakathi amaningi, futhi sekuyiminyaka 12-13. Nakuba zikubeka ngokucacile uma kwenzeka ngalesi sikhathi ngeke bakwazi, ngoba akuxhomekile engu ikhalenda, kanye izici ngamunye umzimba futhi kuhlobene ngokuqondile okwamanje zokuthomba ingane.

Umzimba wengane kwenzeka izinguquko Amazing kuholele izinguquko bokuphila emzimbeni. Ngalesi sikhathi kukhona buyinkimbinkimbi kwezinso umuntu. Ubusha, njengoba umthetho, libhekene excitability anda bomoya. Intsha kule nkathi bavame sengqondo ukubelesela maqondana ngokwabo futhi ukubukeka kwazo, okuholela kwehlisa ukuzethemba.

izingane bafune zikhule futhi nemindeni yabo, ngakho noma yikuphi ukuziphatha ngokuvamile kubangela eduze ukucasuka yabo ngisho nolaka, ngenxa yalesi kwaphinde kwaba nokungezwani kwezigodi likhula futhi izingxabano njalo.

Ngo intsha, kukhona ukuphikisana yangaphakathi, okuyinto ezihlobene ukungafani ngokoqobo nezwe lakhe elingaphakathi. It kuvela ukuthi Kwakukhathaza emzimbeni avuthwa futhi zikhula, nesimo zakhe emkhayeni futhi esikoleni ayikashintshi, ngakho intsha ziqala ukulwa zabo futhi bafuna ukuchitha izwiwe, ukuze baveze imibono yabo futhi babe obubaluleke kakhulu. Nokho, bazama ukufeza ngendlela yabo, njengoba kubonakala, okuwukuphela kwendlela kweqiniso.

Ubusha abafana kubonakala ngaphezulu kwezenzo ezihlukumezayo ingane. Abantu abaningi abasha uqale ukubhema, ngoba lokhu kuyinto umkhuba omdala, ngokuvumelana, abenze akancikile kwabanye ngezinye izinto futhi abadala. Ngesikhathi esifanayo ahambisana nokuthomba kufika isifiso ukuzama ucansi, ikakhulukazi uma ngaso enhliziyweni kwentombazane ixazululwe uthando kuqala, okuyinto evame kakhulu ukuhlolwa nzima, uma kuyintando bangajabuli.

Intsha beze ndawonye bese ukudala inkampani ne izithakazelo ezifanayo, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, la maqembu angase iba yingxenye yomhlabathi, futhi mhlawumbe kuyoba isisekelo esiqinile ubungani okwengeziwe, Kunzima ngempela ukuthi uthi kusengaphambili. Passion ngomntwana futhi kukhethwa inkampani kungaba esinye isizathu izingxabano nokungaqondi phakathi kwakhe nabazali bakhe.

Ngesikhathi lapho zineminyaka eyeve eshumini nambili wengane sihamba Selilonke, ngesikhathi nentombazana esencane bavele ezokuzilibazisa, lapho ethola khona esidayisa yangempela. Evamile, kungenziwa lezi izinto zokuzilibazisa ihlukaniswe ezintathu izinhlobo:

- lwaya nabanengqondo futhi tebuciko (radiotiehnika, umculo, umlando, imidwebo, njll);

- ukwenza izinto zokuchitha isizungu ezuziwe (lokuqoqa CD, izitembu, Autographs zezinkanyezi , njll)

- ome njengeqanda (uma ingane ifuna ukunakwa yena futhi lukhetha ingubo ewubuciko, lokhu kusebenza yemfashini usulungile, emo, njll).

Ngalesi sikhathi kungenzeka yokuthuthukisa ubuhlobo naleli bhungu futhi ukufeza nokuqonda mutual. Ukuhlonipha izithakazelo nokuzilibazisa wengane ngalesi yobudala emvumela ukuba nomuzwa ukubaluleka negunya layo ekhaya.

Ubusha - lokhu akulona isivivinyo esilula, hhayi nje ngobe kutawutfutfukisa ingane kodwa abazali, ngoba ku ukuqonda nokuhlonipha ingane omdala engaphansi ukuthi uyozifeza aphathe ngawo ngokwawo, ngabanye kanye izinhlelo esizayo ukuphila nokutadisha.