Indlela ehlukahlukene ocansini nomyeni wakhe

Umbhangqwana ngamunye kuyaye kamuva abanezinkinga ubulili. Abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi imbangela yalesi ngokuvamile iba indlela yokuphila nezinkinga ukuthi ziqokonyiswe. Nokho, iqiniso liwukuthi ngisho ucansi kakhulu engqondweni wezimpimpi ekugcineni boring. Phela, ngisho isidlo esihlwabusayo, uma une-ke for kwasekuseni, kwasemini kanye dinner nsuku zonke nje kuphele ukuletha injabulo.

Ungacabangi ukuthi ungakwazi agqoke ubudlelwano emndenini ukuwela ngesikhathi esisodwa. Kukhona inala izindlela ehlukahlukene yokuphila ocansini. Njengomthetho, kuba owesifazane ngesikhathi ukuqaphela ukuthi ukuphila ubulili ilahlekelwe Ukukhalipha yayo yangaphambili kanye nogqozi. Ngeshwa, kungase kubabangele ukulahlekelwa umuntu athandana naye isithakazelo futhi, kodwa kunzima nakakhulu, ukuyiguqula. Ngakho-ke, bafowethu abathandekayo, ulalele amathiphu alula sendlela ehlukahlukene ubulili, nokudlulisa - avuselele ubuhlobo nomlingani wakho.

Okokuqala, sinake intandokazi, lejulile kokuhlaziywa kakhulu ngokubukeka kwabo. Mhlawumbe sekuyisikhathi ukuya wezinwele futhi ushintshe isithombe, ukwenza nezinwele zikanokusho yokudaya izinwele. Iqiniso liwukuthi ukuthi amadoda abathanda ezihlukahlukene futhi manje ngokuxhumanisa isiphetho sabo nawe, yena (ngethemba) akakwazi ukushintsha ophathina, okusho ukuthi kufanele ibe khona ehlukile. Cabanga ngalokho azikuthandi sibalo wakhe, mhlawumbe kufanele niqhubeke ukudla noma ke ukuqala egijima ekuseni?

Engeza ngokubukeka kwabo "gqamisa" - ukwenza ukubhoboza, ukugunda izinwele obuseduze noma khetha wena ziyabhalwa (kungaba "version ukukhanya" kokusebenzisa zehena). Ungakhathazeki, umlingani wakho ngeke umangale, futhi okubaluleke - ujabule lapho bebona lezi zinguquko ezingalindelekile.

Ukukhuluma ngendlela ehlukahlukene ubulili, awanakuziziba izindawo lapho ngokuvamile ukwenza uthando. Ngeke dissemble, ngoba, njengoba umthetho, imibhangqwana ocansini ekamelweni noma yokugezela, ngokuvamile ebusuku, lapho umntwana elele. Kuyinto trite ngakho futhi ngokuqinisekile uye laba yisicefe, ngakho zama ukubheka efulethini yami ngamehlo amasha kanye ukuthola indawo ocansini. Kuthiwani isenzo okuzenzakalelayo uthando egumbini lokuphumula, okuyinto usanda kwaba izivakashi zakho, noma mhlawumbe bazame ukwenza ubulili etafuleni lasekhishini noma egijima umshini wokuwasha, okukuhle dlidliza ngaphansi izibunu zakho? Futhi indlela ingabe ngalesi simo: Thatha ezijulile champagne nakusihlwa ophumayo kuvulandi, lapho ungenza uthando futhi ujabulele kusihlwa zasehlobo ezifudumele.

Float emcabangweni wakho, ngoba izifiso nokuguqulwa kumelwe nakanjani ukuba lusebenze, futhi ungesabi kubonakale cheeky ukuze indoda yakhe, kholwa yimi, bayathanda lezimanga ezinjalo.

Uma nicela noma yini abameleli ubulili bubuhle kanjani ehlukahlukene ngocansi, kodwa ngokuyinhloko ukukhuluma mayelana imidlalo Ekwenza Umlingiswa futhi ezahlukene ukuphindukuzalwa zesifazane. Udinga nje ukuthola lapho indlela iningi vusa umlingani wakho. Ungakhetha suit amageyimu ngokocansi kanye phambi kwakhe njengoba abanothando owesifazane Vamp noma yesikole zinesizotha futhi, mhlawumbe, umfanekiso inceku sizithobe kuyobenza babe munye oyikhethile.

Kodwa nokho, kulabo ufuna izimpendulo umbuzo kanjani ehlukahlukene ocansini okokuqala kufanele okungenani engeza nelivamile yabo simo ebusuku lothando zibhekise entsha, ngoba ngokusho izibalo, imibhangqwana eminingi zisebenzisa mafutha kakhulu "ububanzi" sobulili tikhundla.

Ungakwazi ukucela ukusizwa zakudala "Kama Sutra", lapho kusuka 1001 zibhekise kufanele ukwazi ukukhetha okulungile ngababili yakho. A umsizi omuhle kulesi simo kungenzeka Corny "movie abadala", umbono ngokuhlanganyela ukuthi kuzokwenza amadlingozi entsha.

Ngokuvamile, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi okhetha ukukwenza, into ebalulekile ukuthi nifuna kakade ehlukahlukene futhi ushintshe ukuphila ubulili bakho, okusho ukuthi umphumela ngeke silinde isikhathi eside qiniseka. Sebenzisa izindlela ezahlukene ocansini futhi musa ubuvila, ngoba une okuhle nenjongo etusekayo - ukunikeza ubumnandi umuntu wakho sithandwa futhi othandekayo - yingxenye yokuphakama kwalo yesibili.