Imithetho yokuziphatha izingane zasenkulisa kanye abasesikoleni. etiquette izifundo izingane

Fundisa izingane kanjani ukubonisa inhlonipho, kuyadingeka kusukela esemncane kakhulu. Kule ke kuxhomeke ekutheni ukufunde kahle kangakanani ingane zizongena umphakathi wanamuhla, indlela ngokushesha kahle nokuziphatha kwezamabhizinisi, yena uzodinga esikhathini esizayo. Imithetho yokuziphatha izingane wasebenza zokusebenza kwengqondo eziningi, kepha zona kufanele uyilethe kubazali.

Uyini nenhlonipho?

Lo mqondo simele ezithile indlela yokuxhumana phakathi kwabantu, ukuze phakathi kwawo tie ubudlelwano (ubungani, romance, umndeni, njll). Ukuziphatha ngoba izingane zesikole kwezinye izikole bafundziswe junior high, futhi amanye aze ngisho ungenawo nakancane mayelana isihloko esibaluleke kangaka. Kuyinto ukuba abafana namantombazane esikhathini esizayo obungenza evamile khona emphakathini, abazali kufanele sibafundise inqubo yokuxhumana.

Uma abaselona usizo walo?

Kubuka ngendlela yokuxhumana intsha yesimanje, ososayensi abaningi, odokotela bengqondo uyazibuza mayelana, futhi uma kungenjalo isiphelile ngokwabo nenhlonipho ngokomthetho. Nokho, ngokushesha ukudansela isiginci sakhe yena govoil ukuthi ngaphandle akunakwenzeka ukwakha ubuhlobo evamile, ngoba kuyoba khona buyisela emuva (nokucekelwa) izikhathi cishe nezakudala. Imithetho yokuziphatha izingane zingahlukaniswa zibe amaqembu amaningana:

• ithebula (ukuthi baziphathe kanjani etafuleni);
• isivakashi (ukuthi baziphathe kanjani emcimbini kanye nezivakashi);
• izwi (indlela yokuxoxa nontanga yabo, futhi amahansi amadala, ongabazi);
• ezindaweni zomphakathi (indlela aziphathe ezokuthutha zomphakathi, amapaki, izitolo, imidlalo yaseshashalazini, isekisi, cinema, njll).

Zonke lezi abazali kufanele kugxilise kusukela zisencane njengoba ebuchosheni masinyane ngaphezulu sokwetshisa Imininingwane nokuziphatha. Kuyaphawuleka ukuthi ukuhlonipha izingane ubudala zasenkulisa kuhlanganisa wonke amaphuzu ngenhla, nje zeminyaka efanelekile.

iminyaka 2-3

Phakathi nale nkathi, izingane ukuthi usanda kuqala uthatha zokuxhumana esebenzayo ngezwi nezwe. Futhi ngalesi sikhathi kubalulekile ukuba uqale ukubachazela imithetho zokucathula nenhlonipho izingane. Okokuqala, etafuleni. Kuyini lokhu? A isethi ziqondiso elincane kodwa kunalokho into ephawulekayo ukuthi kumelwe kwaziwe ukuze izingane.

etiquette yokudlela

Okokuqala, izingane akudingeki ukumkhafulela out ukudla, wayendlala phezu kwetafula, isuke plate. Lona oyisisekelo. Ezokudla Ukuziphatha izingane iminyaka 2-3 ubudala akuyona indawo ebanzi kakhulu. Kwanele ukuthi izingane ngeke baziphathe buthule nangomoya ozolile etafuleni ngeke ukukhuluma ngenkathi bedla.

Isiko yokukhuluma

Izingane balesi nzima lalukhuni, kodwa asikho isizathu uyozinikela. Izingane kusukela zisencane kudingeka ukusho amazwi "imilingo" ezokwenza badinga esikhathini esizayo. okungukuthi:

• siyabonga;
• sicela;
• sawubona (sawubona);
• bye (okwamanje);
• Bon appétit;
• ebusuku okuhle;
• Sawubona.

Lapho eneminyaka engu efanayo okufanele afundise ingane hhayi zicasulwe trifles, musa akhononde abanye. Kule incike indlela ukulungele yena abe usayizi enkulu eqenjini (esikoleni). etiquette amakilasi izingane iminyaka 2-3 ubudala kungaba kwenziwe ngesimo umdlalo izingane babe mnandi futhi kulula ukubona ukuthi iyini ulwazi olusha. Ngokwesibonelo, amathoyizi ozithandayo beat esimweni esithile (bunny bear "ngiyabonga" ngoba candy).

iminyaka 4-5

Ngalesi ubudala, izingane sezivele sikwamukele nakakhulu ukuba zamukele ulwazi olusha, futhi more evulekile eya zokuxhumana ngamazwi, ngoba silulumagama yabo ngempela ebanzi. A isidingo ingxoxo nokuxhumana kwandisa kakhulu. Kuyinto kule minyaka 4-5 usungaqala ukutadisha "nenhlonipho party" izingane.

imithetho lezivakashi zokuxhumana

Okokuqala, uya umngane wakho noma umngane Uthathe ajabule yendlu. Njengoba izingane walonyaka akuvamile hamba ukuvakashela bebodwa, abazali kufanele baqinisekise ukuthi, kuze kufike ingane yabo ufuna ukuya kuphi nhlobo. Uma preschooler ecasukile noma ucindezelekile, akukho okuhle zokuxhumana, futhi awukwazi ukuphuma.

Okwesibili, akunakwenzeka ukuba zitshele okuthile umninindlu. Abazali kufanele chazela umntanakho ukuthi ukuvakashela uthinte noma yini ngaphandle kwemvume akuvumelekile. Futhi ngisho ukuba bazikhandle kakhudlwana! Lapha kulapho ungase basisize we "magic" amazwi ukuthi kid ungacela lokho afuna, umnikazi wendlu. Ukuziphatha kakhulu izingane zasenkulisa of age kusho ukuthi ingane izokwazi ngixhumane ngokuthula.

Okwesithathu, awukwazi ahlale kuze kuhlwe. Ngisho noma ufuna ngempela, ngisho noma akuzona zonke nemidlalo eminingi yayenzelwa replayed futhi iguqulwe amacala. Kufanele kube ngokushesha (ngaphambi kokuya izivakashi), chazela umntanakho ukuthi udinga balukhulume ngesikhathi ukudla, ugeze ubuthongo, kungakhathaliseki ukuvakasha kwakho, ngakho-ke, kudingeka uhambe ekhaya lapho abazali banqume.

Uma ingane yakho waya komunye, bese umqashi wakho kumele wazi ngendlela okumelwe aziphathe ngayo kudingeka:

1. Yabelana amathoyizi nezimpahla zabo.
2. Ungabacasuli hhayi ngenjongo yokuxhaphaza isivakashi.
3. amaswidi Ugoschad kanye izibiliboco.
4. Jabulisa izivakashi, ngakho wayengeke be bored futhi kudabukisa.

Imithetho yokuziphatha izingane akuzona ukuthi eziyinkimbinkimbi, kodwa uma wena miss ngisho omunye wabo, kukhona ingozi ukuze uthole Egoist futhi Biryuk izinyane esikhundleni obathandayo futhi enobungane.

Abafundi besikole sebanga eliphansi

Ngemva enkulisa kakade emva kwethu, ingane bacindezelekile abanye, kanye nesikole samabanga. Nokho, imithetho yokuziphatha zihlala zinjalo ngaye. Ngaphezu kwalokho, zenza usanda. Ngokwesibonelo, kulobu budala kuba etafuleni eziphambili efanele, inkulumo kanye inhlonipho ngabanye.

Kanjani ukuba etafuleni?

Ngo umthwalo yokuthi kwakuvele kwaziwa ingane ungeze imithetho emisha ezimbalwa:

• ungafaki izindololwane zakho phezu kwetafula;
• uqale ukuwadla nabanye, hhayi ngaphambi hhayi emva kwazo;
• kokuqeda ukudla ukubonga, ngisho noma kwakungeyona esihlwabusayo;
• udumo olunikezwa ukudla;
• asukume itafula abanye noma imvume omdala.

Yiqiniso, abaningi amaphuzu ngenhla zinganeliswa ngisho abazali. Kulokhu, udinga ukuqala wedwa, bese nifundise abantwana. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kubalulekile ukufundisa izingane esesendlini noma phambi kwe-TV, ngoba endaweni eyayibekelwe ngokukhethekile (etafuleni ekhishini).

Okufanele ukwenze izindawo zomphakathi?

Ukuziphatha ngoba izingane zesikole kudinga imithetho elandelayo zokuziphatha:

1. Yield esihlalweni sakhe kumuntu ezokuthutha abaphezulu.
2. Yeqa ngaphambi abesifazane (empeleni abafana).
3. Zivulele ladies (empeleni abafana).
4. Yeqa okubuya iminyango abantu, khona-ke vele uye.
5. Musa xhoxha umunwe wakho nganoma ubani.
6. Ungakhethi ekhaleni lakho, musa ukubhodla, musa Fart, musa ukuzamula nhlobo Navid (ongakwenza iduku noma ngenqindi).
7. Uma ukhwehlela noma uthimula ukumboza umlomo wakho nge iduku noma isandla.
8. Lokungangcolisi emgwaqeni khona nabantu nasezindaweni zomphakathi.

Lawa ulwazi sakugcina okufanele bachazela abazali kid sika. On kanjani kuzohambisana kwale mithetho incike Wafikelwa ukuthi isiko up, kahle kanjani ejwayele emphakathini wanamuhla. Imithetho yokuziphatha ukusiza izingane yibani nomusa kakhudlwana futhi elivulekele izwe ngaphandle. Ososayensi waphawula ukuthi abantu esinenhlonipho kulula ukuthola umsebenzi, ukuqala umndeni, ukuze aphumelele, kunokuba engamukelekile futhi abangaphucuzekile nakancane.