Golden Imithetho Facebook user, okufanele khumbula

Abacwaningi at Arizona State University baye basebenzisa focus amaqembu kanye ehlaziya abafundi ukucacisa imithetho eziyishumi ebaluleke kakhulu ukusetshenziswa inethiwekhi edumile emhlabeni wonke nomphakathi Facebook. Ngosizo lwabo, ungakwazi ukuqinisekisa ukuthi izenzo zakho kule yokuxhumana ngeke kuholele ukubonakala empilweni yangempela izitha zakho. Imiphumela cwaningo yashicilelwa eminyakeni embalwa edlule kwelinye emaphephabhukwini esayensi. Le mithetho ingase ibe khona ehlukile nobudala yomsebenzisi kodwa ngokuvumelana abafundi kwale mithetho abaluleke kakhulu futhi olufanele ukusetshenziswa kwalesi yokuxhumana.

Ilinde impendulo

Amalungu ukuqaphela ukuthi ukubaluleka okukhulu kuyinto umbuzo reciprocity. Ngakho uma odongeni yakho othile ushiye umlayezo, kucatshangwa ukuthi yini ozoyenza ke. Kungokufanayo uya okubhalayo ezindongeni ushiye abangane bakho.

Ithi "cha" indelelo

Uma beka umlayezo ukuchwensa ngomngane wakho ku-Facebook, kubhekwa ukuziphatha okubi. Zama ukuhlonipha abanye abantu ngendlela efanayo ubungeke ahloniphe nabo abaxoxi ngempela.

Cabanga ngaphambi kokuthi uthumele

Kubalulekile ukucabanga mayelana nomphumela ongemuhle ukuthi okuthunyelwe kwakho angakhiqiza. Kungcono ukuba ucindezele ngokushesha ukuthumela inkinobho umyalezo, bese ulinda isikhathi esijana kunazo. Cabanga kabusha funda ngalokho okubhale, ulungise izinto ezithile. Ungase uthole ukuthi kudingeka kabusha ngokuphelele okuthunyelwe njengoba indelelo sekungene ke.

Ungabeki iposi futhi

Uma omunye kususa okuthunyelwe ukuthi ibekwe, hhayi ethobekile uthumele futhi. Cishe, umngane wakho wayenezizathu ukuqinisekisa ukuthi asuse okuthunyelwe kwakho futhi uyokwenza okufanayo ne yesibili, ngaphandle ukuthi isilinganiso yona kakade edabukisayo.

Ungabi umuntu ongamazi

Facebook akungeni esikhundleni lokuxhumana lomuntu siqu. Nabangani empilweni yangempela, udinga ukuxhumana ngezinye izindlela, ngaphezu isayithi ku-intanethi.

Thembeka

Inhlonipho kini kungaba uma uzinikele ngokwethembeka nangendlela eyakhayo kubangani bakho.

Ungabi umlutha

Musa ukuhlala yokuxhumana isikhathi eside ukuze liqale ukugxambukela ekuphileni kwakho siqu kanye nomsebenzi.

Zivikele

Ungabeki ulwazi inethiwekhi, okungase kusetshenziswe kuwe.

Cabanga futhi

Abasebenzisi abaningi bathi benza nokuqalisa kokubusa "ingqondo" uma uxhumana nabangane babo on Facebook.

Cabanga ngomsebenzi

Cabanga indlela okuthunyelwe kwakho uyobheka umqashi ngaphambi kokuthumela ke.