Abangane Kusihlwa esikoleni noma izitha lesikole kusihlwa?

homecoming usuku - lena usuku esikhethekile esiklanyelwe labo abaya njalo lo mkhosi waminyaka yonke. Kwabanye abantu, lo mcimbi kubaluleke kakhulu ukudlula ngisho Unyaka omusha noma lokuzalwa. Nokho, abantu abaningi bakhetha ukusishaya indiva ngokuphelele ukuthi usuku, naphezu balithole kaningi abafundi basekilasini wangaphambili. Siyini isizathu salokhu sengqondo?

Iqiniso ukuthi abangane kusihlwa esikoleni Anginakuqonda ezinhle party ubudala esikoleni futhi akuyona ithuba kuhle ukukhumbula ebusheni bakhe. homecoming usuku - kungcono umncintiswano onzima kabi, futhi isikhathi esiningi sihamba kusukela ngesikhathi sokukhishwa, kwakuya kuba nzima kuba imithetho athukuthele ngokungaphezulu futhi abahlanganyela kuso.

Into is, bonke abantu esikoleni zihlukaniswe amaqembu, ngamunye ephethe ngokuqinile eyabelwe indima isimo sakhe sezenhlalo. Lesi sikole nalabo abane- abakwazi ukuxhumana losers, futhi esimweni okubi, futhi kuziwa umkayo njalo. Kodwa yebudzala ukubusa imithetho ehlukene ngokuphelele nemithetho, okusho ukuthi isimo social ofunda wangaphambili kimi indlela okuphawuleka kakhulu. abaholi School kungenzeka ezansi umphakathi, kuyilapho losers wangaphambili ukuya phezulu.

Lokho kungase kube abantu abaye beza ngokuba abangane kusihlwa esikoleni uma bebona ukuthi labo ababeyizuzile liphazamisa udaka, manje ubadlula kuzo zonke izici? Ngokuqinisekile, uzozama zonke indlela ukululaza umuntu onjalo, esiphezulu bulging zako, kanye nomzabalazo ezifanayo ngeke iphele. Yiqiniso, lokhu akusho ukuthi ukhuluma ngani izimpi, njengasezikhathini zangaphambili, yi-kuyoba sengathi isimo idili ngempela like a party abangane abangcono kakhulu, kodwa ukukloloda ngeveli futhi usulu kuyoba sobala ukuthi kukhona okushaya kamnandi kangaka.

Nokho, lesi simo iyashintsha ngandlela-thile lapho endaweni umuntu ophumelelayo kuyinto kakhulu umuntu ophumelelayo. Cabanga ukuthi aphume ekilasini esikoleni esivamile ezivamile kwafika abadumile Umqeqeshi football, umculi noma sezombusazwe. Khona-ke zonke namagqubu basesikoleni ukhohliwe, futhi izimemo umuntu onjalo umane ngeke Abuya. Nokho, uma isifuna "inkanyezi" ukuba bahlanganyele kulowo mcimbi?

Uma lo muntu futhi umholi esikoleni, abangane esikoleni esiphakeme kusihlwa, okuzokwenza kuguquke kube umbukiso yomuntu oyedwa, sibhalwe ngokucacile lokhu welula kahle. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma wakhuthazelela ekuklolodelweni ofunda esikoleni, cishe ukuze bathethelele ngisho nangemva kweminyaka eminingi. Umuntu yimpumelelo ayidingi ukuba bagomela ngokwaso esikoleni endala inkampani ubone ezingemnandi akunandaba mqondo kubantu. Ngakho musa ukusheshe ngecala "izinkanyezi" ku ukuzidla, kungcono ukucabanga, yini maqondana kuye kwaba ngokwakhe eminyakeni yakhe esikoleni.

Esinye imininingwane khumbula ukubalula abangane kusihlwa esikoleni esiphakeme, - ubuhlobo phakathi kobulili. Cishe ngamunye wethu, ngisho eliphumelela kunawo ezinsukwini esikoleni, washiya esikoleni uthando, okuyinto eye yaba lungafinyeleleki kuleyo minyaka. Futhi manje ithuba elihle kakhulu ukufeza lokhu. Ngemva kweminyaka engu-10-20 noma 30 Ekugcineni bona iphupho, unikezwa ukuthi izindima social zishintshile. Kodwa kuyadingeka? izinsuku School akayikungilandela, abantu baye eside lishintshiwe, nokuphishekela i isithunzi esiyivelakancane kungaba kuphela ukuvula futhi amanxeba amadala.

Esidlule ingabuyeli, nilwele lokho kakade kade laphela, asikho isidingo. Yingakho abantu abaningi baziba usuku hambo. Esikhundleni "party", kungcono ukucabanga phezu iskripthi holidi kumbuthano abangane, abangane real, abaye nawe yonke indlela yokuphila, futhi kwenziwa inkazimulo. Nge nabangane bangempela , musa akudingeki ukuzenza ukudlala umdlalo "ngubani ongcono", akudingeki ukuba siqiniseke ukuthi ungaphuthelwa nento yokuklolodelwa. Kulesi inkampani ungakwazi ngempela ukuhlala phansi uphumule futhi ake umlando esikoleni kwenzekani emva kwalokho.