Yini ukubhala Girl abaxhumana ukuvusa isithakazelo sakhe?

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Kufanele uthi ngesikhathi esisodwa ukuthi isithakazelo interlocutor bakhe okufanele azame esigijimini kuqala. Ukuthi hook ingxoxo esizayo. Futhi uphumelele kanjani lesi senzo kuzoncika yonke ingxoxo. Uma konke kuhambe njengoba kufanele, khona-ke ngemva kwesikhashana sizokwazi ukuvumelana mayelana umhlangano.

Ngakho, yini ukubhala intombazane oxhumana naye? Ukukhuluma Ngokushesha kuwufanele okuzoxoxwa kuyinto mayelana nezingosi zokuxhumana nabantu, njengoba zithandwa kakhulu phakathi kwabasebenzisi. Eyokuqala ukukhumbula ukuthi umyalezo kufanele kube yasekuqaleni. Ngamanye amazwi, akukho imishwana, njengokuthi "Sawubona, ake abangane" akufanele kube. Ngokokuqala ngqá, ungakwazi kuqondiswe izifanekiso ngomumo eyenziwe obuvamile ku-intanethi. Kodwa-ke kudingeka ukuba uqonde ukuthi ingasetshenziswa kuze kube phakade, hhayi, njengoba umhlangano angaya kungabata lokutsite. Kuleso simo, uma ufunde indlela beveza ngokunembile isigijimi sokuqala ngaphandle kosizo kuwebhu, sizokwazi bajwayelane amantombazane futhi efanele, ukuhlangabezana nabo kaningi.

Impendulo yombuzo ngalokho ukubhala Girl abaxhumana, wakwazi ukukhonza njengephayona isithombe sakhe. Uma sibheka eduze ngokucophelela kukho, ungakwazi cinga into ethize, okuzoba ekuqaleni zokuxhumana. Ngokwesibonelo, njengoba isizathu zokuxhumana kokuqala kungase ukukhonza: ukumomotheka, izinwele, amehlo nokuningi. Futhi kufanele uzibuze mayelana nendlela ungaqala umusho wengxoxo (futhi sihlaziye). Kungenzeka ukuthi la mantombazane amahle ngokuvamile bhala ukuthi kubukeka amangalisayo, yena unamehlo amahle umamatheke. Konke trite futhi ungakujabulisi ngoba amantombazane amaningi.

Kunoma isiphi isimo, noma ngabe awazi yini ukubhala Girl ukuxhumana, udinga ukuba azethembe. Ukuxhumana kumele zenzeke i nokuwumisa alinganayo, naphezu umuzwa wokuthi ngeke uyavuza ukuthi singenzeka kwezinye izimo.

Kufanele ubuyele isithombe like intombazane. Uma siyiqaphele guys ngokuvamile uqaphela ukumamatheka futhi lovely enamehlo amahle, bese ubhala ngawo embikweni wokuqala ke akudingekile, ngoba abaningi benze lokho kanye. Ukukhombisa ababaphathisiwe futhi uthole ntombazane into efana nalokho, ukuthi akubonakali lapho uwubona okokuqala. Uma ubuka eduze lesitfombe, bese ngemuva kwesikhathi esithile umbuzo yini ukubhala Girl e VKontakte, uzonyamalala.

Kuwufanele ukukhumbula into eyodwa ngaphezulu elula: akudingekile kusukela okuthunyelwe sokuqala ukubonisa isithakazelo yayo intombazane. Yiba ezingalindelekile, bese bakwazi nentshisekelo yakhe. Kodwa nokho, uma ungeke ukwazi ukuthola lokho ukubhala uma uhlangana intombazane inthanethi, khona-ke kumelwe ukhumbule into eyodwa lekusasa: kuyadingeka ukuze ubhale umyalezo wokuthi ongeke uphenduleke e monosyllables. Futhi noma ngabe waphendula ngokugcwele, imiyalezo ngaleso sikhathi ngemva kwalokho nayo kufanele yasekuqaleni. Phela, akekho ekukhathaza ukuqeda elula ibinzana interlocutor e inqubo lokuqhubeka nengxoxo.

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