Lapho ngijwayele iphupho indoda?

Kuyini, ukuphila yilezozintombi zanamuhla? Ngakolunye uhlangothi, izinkampani esikoleni futhi umfundi, amakilabhu, ema-disco. Ngakolunye --Inthanethi kanye nomsebenzi. Le nyuvesi noma esikoleni, ungakwazi Yiqiniso, ukuhlangabezana umyeni wakhe wesikhathi esizayo. Kodwa le mibhangqwana intsha ngokuvamile aphule. Kukhona emgwaqweni, egcekeni, ulimi okuhlushwa, umculo noma emidlalweni yesikole ... Lona kwabasha kakhulu. Futhi kuthiwani ngalabo kakade ashisiwe - wayekade eshadile, ongayedwa ohlukanisile-handedly bokukhulisa umntwana? Emsebenzini kuvame ukuba kube yimi yonke noma oxhumene noma asishadile phakathi namanenekazi. Isikhathi amaqembu kanye ema-disco lapho. Ngakho kuphi bajwayelane indoda abazoba isikhuthazo nokusekelwa, lapho sizokwazi ukwakha umkhaya?

Manje, embalwa isizukulwane ngonyaka 25-30 abaneminyaka ihlose ukushada. Bayanda abantu beba kahle umthwalo wemfanelo ukuthi lihlale yomkhaya, futhi ucabangisise ngaphambi ufake isitembu ku iphasiphothi. Nokho, inani ukuphola sites akusho yehle. Kunalokho - izethameli zabo njalo uyanda. Kodwa namanje ezisikhungethe imibuzo:.? "Lapho ukuhlangabezana lomuntu engisebenze naye ngeke nje ukuya amabhayisikobho noma cafe kanjani ukuhlangana nomuntu bani ungachitha iminyaka yokuphila kwakhe futhi akazisolanga isikhathi elahlekile Ngemva imikhonyovu umshado, abantu engabazekayo esidlule futhi okungacaci izinhloso ngokugcwele futhi inethiwekhi, futhi ema-disco, futhi kwezinye bendabuko izindawo zokuthola izinsuku zezenzakalo. kanjani ukuba bashe? "

Okokuqala, ake ukuchaza izinto eziza kuqala. Uma unesithakazelo umbuzo lapho ngijwayele umuntu othile onothileyo, kufanele ukhethe izindawo lapho abantu abanjalo angaphila. Futhi akunakwenzeka kuyoba ezishibhile club noma umfundi party. Uma umsebenzi sakho sihlobene ukusebenza nabantu, cabanga le ndlela. imihlangano yebhizinisi, imitholampilo ezibizayo, amahhotela, izindiza, zokungcebeleka okunethezeka - lawa izindawo lapho ukuhlangabezana umuntu iholo ethile, ngeke kube nzima. Nokho, uma exchange of cards ibhizinisi ku okungaphezu kwalokho? Yebo abantu abaningi kanjani olulodwa ocebile osemusha ngifuna umngane womshado umphefumulo? Isikhathi esining impela, uma abantu kakade bafeza into empilweni, akusiyo kuphela unkosikazi, kodwa futhi izibopho ezinganeni. Mhlawumbe, njengoba inkampani emnandi ozikhethele wena uyothathwa, kodwa ngeke kukhona futhi ukuthi afuna ukwakha umndeni nawe?

Enye yalapho ngijwayele umuntu iphupho, angase abe ukusungulwa ezimbonini noma kwezohwebo lobuchwepheshe noma esikoleni sezomthetho, noma enkulu. Kunezindlela eziningana ukuzibonakalisa lapho ubuswa amadoda. Ngokwesibonelo, zobuchwepheshe, zezindiza, ubunjiniyela, isayensi lezempi ... Yiqiniso, impumelelo nolwazi lezo zindawo ukuthi unakekelwa ngesisa ukuze wesilisa kulula futhi elula, akwanele. Njengoba yonke indawo - emgwaqeni, omakhelwane, emsebenzini - ungakwazi uhlangana nomuntu kuzoletha eziningi ukukhungatheka ubuhlungu. Noma umuntu ukuba iyiqede umngane onokwethenjelwa. Noma nje umngane. Kwakuvamise ukuba abasha izintokazi wabantu, wethula izincomo, sashada ngo-abazali bakhe ... Futhi manje-ke zonke luncike bantu ngokwabo, izifiso zabo, amapulani kanye namathuba ukuba ndawonye.

Isizukulwane esidala akacabangi intanethi indawo lapho amaphupho ukuhlangabezana indoda ngempela. Kodwa thina - minyaka engamashumi amabili-bengamashumi amathathu amane akudingeki ukuchaza izinzuzo zokuxhumana ebonakalayo. Asazi ukushicilela ephephandabeni: "Mina ngiyindlela olulodwa indoda / v, w / v" nokunye okunjalo. Sikhetha ukwazi umuntu okungenani cishe. Kodwa kungase kwenziwe? Experience imibhangqwana owahlangabeza online, kubonisa ukuthi lena ngenye yezindlela ethembisayo. Kubalulekile kuphela ukulandela ezinye iziqondiso jikelele. Ngesitayela, ngendlela yokuxhumana ngokuvamile kungenzeka ukuthi luhlobo luni lomuntu phambi kwethu. Okungenani izisekelo: imfundo, izihloko izingxoxo, "okuthandwayo", nezinye izintandokazi, nabangane bakho - konke lokhu kwenza ulwazi mayelana umuntu. Futhi uma Uwafunde ifomu lesicelo, kungaqondakala nokulindelwe interlocutor yakho. Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, awukwazi ukusheshe ukuhlangabezana empilweni yangempela. Okungenani kuze kube yilesi sikhathi, kuze uyaqaphela ukuthi kukhona lokutsite labafuna kukusho komunye nomunye, futhi zombili sekulungile.