Yini sokulala ukulungiselela kithi: yini uyaphupha ukufa kothandekayo?

Yiqiniso, kancane ezimnandi ukuphupha mayelana nendlela othandekayo wakho noma isihlobo esiseduze kufa ... Kodwa yini ongayenza! Nakuba singakaze sizibone wafunda ukulawula amaphupho abo, futhi ngeke sikwazi kuphela ukuzichaza. Kulesi sihloko, sizofunda iphupho kokufa kothandekayo.

Vele ezolile ... ezolile ...

Abantu abaningi bakubona e iphupho kokufa nesihlobo esiseduze noma othandekayo, qala ukwethuka wesabe ukuthi kuzokwenzekani. Thina khawuleza Qinisekisani kinina bahlobo bami! amaphupho ezinjalo azizintsha neze iyimbangela yokukhathazeka sina. Abanaso a nezwi lisho. Yiqiniso, izincwadi ezahlukene iphupho ukuzichaza ngezindlela ezahlukene, kodwa izibikezelo eziningi kukhona nokho omuhle. Ngakho, yini uyaphupha kokufa kothandekayo kusukela iphuzu Ngenxa wezifo omkhulu American kanye Umhumushi amaphupho Gustavus Hindman Miller?

incazelo ngokwengqondo

Njengoba wonke amaphupho ngento kubhekwe elidala kudinga indlela ngamunye, futhi cabanga ngalokho akubona kulowo kubo kumele kube umongo izimo ezithile kanye nakho kwangaphakathi. It ucabanga ngakho Gustav Miller. Unikeza incazelo elandelayo yini uyaphupha kokufa kwabathandekayo: mhlawumbe lowo mphuphi walelo ungaphakathi uhlobo lamabutho esingokomoya, futhi ukufa kwelungu lomkhaya wakho - incazelo ongemuhle neze ubudlelwano phakathi ophuphayo kanye naye. Cishe, usukhulile abandayo nomunye njengoba izihlobo.

Uma dream mayelana nokufa kothandekayo, ngokuvumelana theory likaMiller, wena uyembulile isimo sakhe sengqondo banemizwa engqubuzanayo kuso: uzizwa balowo muntu isisa uthando okunamathiselwe, kodwa ufuna ngezithukuthuku ke ukucindezela zanqwabelana ubudlova, ukukhungatheka nentukuthelo.

Miller uthi ngokwezwi nezwi lisho la phupho azikashintshi. Yingakho ungenalo sikhathazeke. Zama ukuqonda ukuthi yini uzizwe ukuba lowo omthandayo, futhi kanjani esifudumele ubuhlobo bakho nezihlobo zakho.

Kungani iphupho ngokufa kothandekayo. Dream Ukuhunyushwa Tsvetkov

1. Uma ubona ukuthi isihlobo sakho eduze ufile, engacelanga ngokwesibonelo umkhulu noma unina, ukwenza Ningethuki! Kuzwakala Corny, kodwa laba bantu elinde impilo ende. Ayikho into embi eyokwehlela kubo.
2. Uma ngokuphindaphindiwe qala waphupha kokufa sinye siyafanana kothandekayo, kufanele wazi ukuthi udinga usizo lwakho. Khuluma kubo, buza ukuthi ungasiza kanjani kuye.
3. Uma aphupha ematfuba ambalwa sokufa (isib, ubaba, umama, umkhulu, ugogo), khona-ke sikhuluma ukungenela zangaphandle umona yakho. Kwezinye izimo, iphupho kusikisela ukuthi wena noma othile omaziyo kuwe liye phezulu umonakalo. Kuvele esiphuthumayo kudingeka kokuyikhipha wizadi kuze kube yilapho sekwephuze kakhulu.
4. Uma dream kufa yakho esiseduze ezandleni zakho, cabanga ukuziphatha kwabo. Leliphupho usikhombisa ukuthi empeleni ubonisa ukunakekelwa ngokweqile maqondana Lo muntu ofile wavuka elele. amaphupho enjalo ungabona izingane, abazali kanye abathandi, ngubani ngempela kakhulu athuthukile umqondo wobukhwele.

Abangane, siye sacabangela obunye ukutolika kunazo owaziwa lokho iphupho ukufa kothandekayo, kanye sibheke le nkinga kusukela umbono kwengqondo. Ngikufisela inhlahla!