Umdwebo wami ophelele

Ngakho-ke, namhlanje sizokhuluma ngenhlokokazi yasifazana - isibalo esihle.

Ngicabanga ukuthi kuwe ngeke kube nokutholakala ukuthi ngezikhathi ezahlukene amazinga womuntu wesifazane omuhle ayehluke ngokuphelele. Yenza isicelo kwizithombe ze-Inthanethi "abalingiswa besifazane" abadwebi be-Renaissance, izithombe zemibukiso 50-60-ies, izinhlobo ezifana ne-Twiggy, imodeli yanamuhla iTara Lynn. Futhi lokhu kuyimbono yaseYurophu kuphela yamaMelika yombalo omuhle. Kodwa kunamanye amazwe ase-continent - ama-Asia, amaNdiya kanye namaBushmen izizwe ...

Futhi kunezwe elihlukile elizwekazi elibizwa ngokuthi nina.

Phela, kunengqondo ukuthi zonke iziko, ubuzwe, inkathi, umphakathi uthanda ukuzikhethela. Futhi ubi kakhulu? Wena, futhi, kufanele ube nesibalo sakho esihle.

Ngifuna ukukubuza umbuzo oyinhloko: "Uhlobo luni lomuntu oyithandayo uqobo?".

Futhi lapha, okubaluleke kakhulu, akumele uqhutshwe ngabanye. Uma namuhla izinga elijwayelekile 90-60-90 lisaqhubeka likucindezela, liphonsele eceleni amahora ambalwa.

Thola ngaphakathi kwakho impendulo yakho. Indlela yokwenza ngayo - bheka ekusebenzeni okusebenzayo.

Ngokwethembeka, uma unelisekile kuwe empilweni yonke, khona-ke isibalo onakho siyokulandela. Imfihlo eyinhloko lapha ukuthi konke esinakho kuyilungele impilo esiyihola. Akucacile? Ngichaza. Isisindo esiningi nesibalo esibi sitholakala empilweni yakho ngezizathu eziningana:

- ufuna ukubonakala ngokwengeziwe nokubaluleke kakhulu, ukuze uqaphele (isaga esifanayo "indoda enhle kufanele ibe yiningi"). Awukwazi ukuvuma, kodwa awunakho ukuqashelwa okwanele nokusekelwa kwabanye, awuzibheki njengegunya emibuthanweni ethile. Futhi awukwazi ukufeza lokhu ngezinye izindlela. Futhi umzimba uyakusiza - ube ngokomzimba ngokwengeziwe, obonakala ngokwengeziwe, awukwazi ukunakwa.

- uma ungafuni ukubhekana nezihloko zakho ezibalulekile futhi ezibalulekile, unombuzo owodwa kuphela engqondweni yakho: "Ngithola noma cha kulolu gqoka?" Futhi uma angingenanga, konke! Ukuphila kuhlulekile futhi kancane kancane futhi ngokudabukisayo kufika ekupheleni .... Uyini umehluko wokuthi amadoda angabangezeli ("lokhu kungenxa yesibalo esidabukisayo nesisindo esinqunyiwe") ukuthi empilweni akuke kube khona into ejabulisayo kakhulu ("abantu abahlwempu akufanele"), izintombi endaweni ethile babaleka futhi abathandekayo abahlali ( "Ngezibalo zabo!"), Akazange akhulume nonina isikhathi eside ("kuzodingeka angondle konke"), angikwazi ukuthola umsebenzi omuhle ("ngubani ozothatha amanoni anjalo"). Ngempela, into eyinhloko "indlela yokulahlekelwa isisindo?"

Ingabe ucabanga ngempela ukuthi zonke izinkinga zakho zibangelwa isisindo esinqunyiwe nezinye izilinganiso? Qhubeka ucabanga kanjalo, umzimba uzokusiza, kuzosiza ukuthi ulahlekelwe isisindo - empeleni udinga inkinga enkulu, ukulwa okuzobhekana nayo yonke impilo yakho!

Lezi yizona zizathu eziyinhloko ezenza kubonakale futhi engenzi isisindo. Kunezinye, udinga ukuxoxa nawe ngokwakho.

Into eyinhloko ukuthi ngabe ukulinganisa kwakho kanye nemikhakha yakho yenza yini ukuba ube nesifiso sokudabuka nokudabuka, udinga ukuqonda hhayi ekuzivocavoca nasekhishini, kodwa okungcono kunazo zonke - ekwamukelweni kwengqondo kwengqondo. Phela, inkinga lapha ijulile kakhulu. Ungakwazi ukuzigqoka esitokisini, ukuhlukumeza ukudla okunempilo kunazo zonke, kodwa isisindo sizobuya. Uma kungashintshi lutho ekhanda. Yingakho kuzo zonke izikhungo ezithintekayo zokulahlekelwa isisindo, uzoqala ukukhulunywa kumuntu wezokwelapha.

Noma kunjalo, kukhona okunye okubalulekile okungeziwe.

Isisindo sakho akufanele sibangele izifo nezifo zomzimba zomzimba.

Kufanele kube njalo ukuthi uhlala kalula futhi kahle. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuhlanganisa okumnandi kuzoba ukusebenza okunempilo kwazo zonke izinhlelo kanye nezitho, ukuze imisipha iqiniswe, amalunga aphilile, isikhumba sihlanzekile futhi siyanwebeka, izinwele zikhanyisiwe futhi zinzima, izipikili namazinyo aziphuki noma ziphazamiseke ...

Ngalokhu konke ngizokwenza izincomo ezinsukwini ezilandelayo, kodwa okwamanje ...

Yini engingayenza khona manje?

Ukuzivocavoca ukusebenza ngesisindo sakho kanye nesilinganiso sakho

Zinike isikhathi esithile. Yiba ngumdala wakho, isiko, umphakathi. Bheka izithombe ezitholakala kumagazini naku-intanethi, zilalele futhi uphendule umbuzo - uthanda ukuthini? Zama ukuyidweba (okungenani ngokuhlelekile) ephepheni.

Manje bheka ngokwakho esibukweni. Kungakanani okufanayo? Vala? Kulungile-ke, uvumelana noma ungavumelani nomzimba wakho. "Futhi akazange alale eduze kwalo"? Cabanga ngokucophelela - ingabe uyayithanda ngempela isithombe owakhulume nayo, noma ingabe isithonya lemfashini noma ukufakwa komunye umuntu?

Futhi ake sifunde ukuba yizinhloso zethu.

Thatha iphepha elikhulu (amaphepha amaphepha we-Whatman azokwenza). Yinamathisela odongeni ezingeni lakho bese udweba isifuba sakho nge-pen-tip tip. Bese ubuyela kuleli shidi bese ucela othile ukuthi akusize - ulandele umbala wakho wangempela emzimbeni ophethe ipeni elizizwelayo lombala ohlukile. Manje bheka ukuthi amafantasti akho afana kanjani namafomu abo amahle kanye neqiniso. Ngokuvamile, sizicabangela ngokweqile kunalokho esikulo daba uqobo.

Zama bese ungibhalela okwenzekile.