Ukuthumba - kuyini, noma ukuthi kufanele uzivikele kanjani ingane yakho kusuka enkingeni enkulu?

Kusobala ukuthi lena ecashe kakhulu futhi ongaphakeme, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo ubugebengu ephumelela kunazo. Kungani? Yebo, ngoba ukuthumba obanzi kakhulu - iyona ukuthumba (kusukela igama lesiNgisi zokuthumba - "ukweba"), kodwa ngenxa izinyane impande ( "ingane"), ukubaluleka lo mqondo ibilokhu ayisesemikhulu a ukubaluleka "ekuthunjweni." Futhi lokho kungase kubize ngabazali kwezingane? Zonke izinto zabo lomtshikatshika abazali (zokuhlala, izimoto, Cottages, mink amajazi, imigexo, amasheya, ifenisha kanye nezinye izinto ezibonakalayo) emuva-breaking akasoze siyithole yokuthi akunakwenzeka ukuba alinganise izimpawu imali, - impilo yengane yabo. Loving umzali ubani obengama kuze kube nosizi nobuhlungu obungokomzimba, ungalokothi ume sokuhlushwa usongo empilweni yengane yakhe. Injongo lokuthumba ilula - imali.

Iyini injongo?

Umgomo oyinhloko futhi ezivamile izigebengu - isihlengo kule ndawo beveza okuthile "okungcono" akunakwenzeka, ngaphandle mncintiswano - ukuthumba. Ukuthi lokhu usizi eyesabisa kakhulu abazali, izigebengu ungacabangi. Kuyinto esabekayo, kodwa okwamanje ezibucayi. Redemption kuhilela ukuthintana okuthile nengane abathumbi (okungenani, ngenhloso izindawo zokudlulisa imali) futhi sethemba ukuthi ingane bayosinda. Amandla isakhiwo (amaphoyisa, njll ...) Kulesi simo kungcono ukungabaphazamisi - kungenzeka breaking lutho. Okwesibili, ngokubiza izibalo adabukisayo, icala lokuthumba - iyona ukubuya wengane komunye ababezokwakha abazali, njengoba umthetho, ngemva kwesehlukaniso. Kuyinto ephephile ukuze icala ingane. Lapha kubalulekile ukuba uvumelane (ukumangalela, kuphazamise phansi ubuhlobo unclarified) nge owayengumyeni wakhe (unkosikazi). Umgomo ezibucayi kakhulu futhi kuyingozi okuthumba - ukuthi udlame lwezocansi, ngisho kokuthola izibilini ukudayiswa izingane kushonelwa abazali (ezifana phesheya). Kulezi zimo, abathumbi ukuxhumana nabazali, yebo, ngeke uhambe. Uma emini kwakungekho izindaba wengane kanye akuyena obangela ukuba adedelwe - kulesi simo, kufanele zisebenze abomthetho!

Ukuthumba: ukuthi kuyini nokuthi ungazivikela kanjani?

izindlela Zokuzivikela yokuvikela izingane eziningi. ukuqaliswa yabo esisebenzayo, yebo, kuncike isimo sezenhlalo impahla inhlalakahle nabazali. Izindlela eziyinhloko isivikelo ukuthumba angaqoqwa zaba ngaphansi kwezihloko ezithile eziyisithupha:

• Sekela iqembu noma ukuqasha yemilindankosi (eqolo, kodwa indlela ephumelela kakhulu).
• Qasha umfundisi noma umphathi.
• Njalo ukwesekwa abazali.
• Ehamba izihlobo, abangane, nengangibajwayele.
• Ukuhambisa eqenjini ihlelwe kwezingane.
• Technical ukubhekwa izindlela (isibonelo, ingane yakho kufanele ibe ifoni nge module GPS futhi uhlelo ikutshela mayelana lapho ingane itholakala).

Kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo akufanele sikhohlwe mayelana izinyathelo eziyisisekelo uma kukhona izinsolo kancane wokuthunjwa kwabantu ngezizathu kungenzeka.

izinto zokucathula kodwa ezibalulekile

Kukhona ukuthi kungenzeka yonke imizamo yokuvimbela ubulelesi etholakalayo, iyathinteka nokuthumba. Kuyini lokhu? ukunakekelwa ejwayelekile! Izisulu abathumbi ngokuvamile izingane abashalazela eziyisisekelo imithetho kakhulu ukuphepha. Zama ukukhuluma nengane yakho ngezinto eziyisisekelo, kodwa ibaluleke kakhulu:

• Awukwazi ukuxoxa nabantu abangabazi emgwaqeni.
• Awukwazi ukuthatha phezu izipho omdala engajwayelekile.
• Awukwazi ukuya kuphi nabantu ongabazi.
• Uma kwenzeka ingozi, umntwana kufanele kungabi shout "Siza!" (Lokhu ngokuvamile ziqondakala kwabanye njengebhaxa umndeni ingxabano abavamile), futhi "Lena akuyona ubaba! Angazi lo muntu! ".
• Uma ingane Ophishekela, akufanele abagijima ngokuncintisana alley amnyama noma ukufinyelela lokuqala etholakalayo, futhi umphakathi, indawo ophithizelayo: esitolo, cafe, sebhasi.

Into esemqoka - singazilimazi!

Kubaluleke kakhulu: isidingo afeze ingxoxo zokuvimbela ukuze ingane akazange ukuthuthukisa noma ikuphi ukwesaba zokwesaba. Ukushiya endlini, akayikwaphula wesabe Barmaley darnel ngubani kuphela baphupha ukweba kanye ibhulakufesi lakhe. Ake ingane yakho ukuba icabange ngisho mayelana nokuthumba, kungcono nje emnandi entsha game.