Phela, ngesikhathi, kubani futhi sishiswa isikhathi eside kangakanani ukuba usho amagama ukwazisa okuthile siyakuhalalisela? Indlela beveza ke?

"Ngamunye wethu limnandi ukuthola siyabonga umsebenzi wabo." La mazwi kusho uSolwazi Dumbledore, hero of the noveli yodumo "Harry Potter" waseBrithani George. Rowling. Ngempela, njalo ziyamjabulisa inhliziyo ukwazisa siyakuhalalisela for ukunakekelwa ingxenye noma yonke usizo ngangokunokwenzeka.

Kungani sibonga?

Emdwebeni kwasebusheni bami saphathwa monkey banana futhi wabuza: "Wena-ke uthini". Yena yamemeza: "Unganginiki ngaphezulu!" Kuyinto engenangqondo! Kodwa ngokuvamile lapho isikhulile, lapho yinto enhle ngeke uzwe ngisho emfushane "Ngiyabonga."

thina Ukuzwa leli gama, uzizwa iwusizo ibhizinisi, ikhuthaze ukuhlonipha abanye kanye isimo sabo sengqondo esihle. amazwi okubonga Eqala siyakuhalalisela ngokuletha mail ukuze okumnandi idina okuphekiwe, siyakubonga umuntu ngoba ngabandayo yakhe futhi sonkana kithi. Lolu thando womuntu mutual, kuleli zwe enza.

Kusukela iphuzu lucebe umbono, "ngiyabonga" lumelela igama elithi "Nkulunkulu ukukusindisa" futhi "ngiyabonga" - ". Ngizokunika isibusiso"

Bani futhi nini "ngiyabonga"?

IZwi sibonga kufanelekile ukuthi, noma nini lapho siye zinakekelwe lapho sisiza noma asizange sikukhohlwe. "Ngiyabonga" zikhale hhayi kuphela esimweni zemikhosi, kodwa futhi ekuphileni kwansuku zonke.

Ezidabukisayo amazwi umsindo enhle ukwazisa okuthile siyakuhalalisela ngosuku esenzeka, ukuzalwa kwengane. Ngokomzwelo futhi inkanuko wambonga uthisha ngenxa yomsebenzi wakhe onzima, abazali emcimbini lomshado. Kodwa kudingeka engengaphansi ngobuqotho ukuphendula nalokho onginike indlela ukuthutha, bona saxhawulana, uphakamise futhi wachaza.

Kuphi ukuthola amazwi ukubonga inkulumo nawe?

Indlela elula isikhathi amazwi ofanele ukwazisa le siyakuhalalisela, othisha bekhulisa noma abazali ngothando lwabo nokunakekela ukubhala off isuka ndawo ndawo. Lolu khetho luhle uma udinga concoct impendulo ngokushesha, ngokushesha, noma uma ukwazisa uphinyiswa, "ngoba ngakho-ke samukelwa" futhi "yokubonisa inhlonipho." Kodwa abanjalo "ayengayilungiselelanga" uzwakale banal nokubanda, abanalo elikhuhluziwe.

Uma udinga ngempela ukubonga, futhi ufuna ukukhombisa ngobuqotho, ezomile, imishwana hackneyed futhi ezivamile kusuka ku-intanethi noma kunjalo bengakwamukeli. Lungiselela ngokwakho, wafaka umphefumulo wakhe. Phela, umgomo oyinhloko - ukubamangaza izethameli masinyane ngamathalenta azo futhi bebaqaphelisa ukubonga ngokusuka enhliziyweni ukuthi ubani-ke sibhekiswe ngokubonga.

Imithetho Simple azosiza ukulungiselela siqu ukwamukelwa inkulumo yabo

Empeleni, konke silula. Ungakwenza.

1. Sidinga sokulungiselela kusengaphambili futhi ngomzuzu wokugcina, esimweni esikhululekile. Nakekela 2 amahora ngeke baphazamiseke. Ngezinye izikhathi, vakashela kushukumisa, futhi othile yayiphazamiseke, futhi okucatshangwa ukuthi walahleka phakade. Kuyihlazo.
2. Hlala phansi etafuleni, ehlome ipeni (kungaba ipeni obungangenhloko kakhanjana) futhi abangu-emaphepha langakabhalwa lanebukhulu. Ungenza ikhofi kanye amabhisikidi. Kusukela esihlwabusayo uthole inzuzo double. Okokuqala, amaswidi kanye uthuthukise ubuchopho elicwile amandla. Okwesibili, ajabule sibonga lula ...
3. Cabanga abamangalelwa main enkulumweni yakho esikhathini esizayo. Cabanga-ke nje sonke okuhle. Ibhalwe liyiphendula kanjani imibuzo elandelayo:

• Uyini umuntu (noma ithimba)? Thembeka, bahlonipheke evulekile, onesibindi, ohlakaniphile, engananazi uhlobo, onozwela, bejabule, abakhathalelayo, mnene, enhle. Izimfanelo ezinhle ozibhalayo, ngcono.
• Yini okuhle wakwenza wena ngqo? Yasiza, efundisa ephakanyiswe, abaqeqeshiwe, waphulukiswa futhi zilondolozwe, ngingahlukani ngomzuzwana nzima. Uma ulungiselela izwi sibonge siyakuhalalisela, cabanga indlela emangalisayo ukuthi ungakhohlwa futhi ufuna uzizwe ukhululekile.
• Kunanzuzoni kumuntu esabonwa abanye?
• Yini izinto ezinhle ngaye owazizwa lezihambi?
• Yini ongathanda ufisa lowo oye wabenzela lukhulu kangaka ngawe? Ezempilo, ezenhlalakahle, intsha, amandla, ajabule. Kubalulekile silibonise nokuqonda. Ngokungalungile ufisa bobusha Indoda eneminyaka engu-70 ubudala. Kuyafaneleka ufisa amandla, nobungqabavu kanye nokuphila isikhathi eside.

Manje kusukela okuholela okusalungiswa irekhodi umbhalo omkhulu.

amathiphu extra ambalwa

Ngokuvamile, nokwakheka kolimi lombhalo simiswe ngalendlela lelandzelako:

• Ubude ukubingelela. "Sawubona" futhi "zihlaba" - esebenzayo yezilungiselelo okuhlelekileko lesizukulwane esidala. "Intandokazi", "emangalisayo", "okusemandleni ami" - la mazwi asebenza kahle abantu enibathandayo futhi ontanga. Uma ulungiselela ukubonga ngokuhlanganyela ukuze siyakuhalalisela, usizo, iqhaza, sicela ngokushesha kubo bonke laba sebuningini.
• The main okuyingxenye - usitshele ngezimfanelo engcono ngubani ukubonga, ukuthi ziningi kangakanani izinto ezinhle le ndoda akwenzele kona futhi abanye. Noma kanjani ukhululekile usebenza iqembu friendly futhi obumbene ezinjalo.
• Ekuphetheni ozvuchte izifiso zweni yakho esuka enhliziyweni.

Ungakwazi pokreativit futhi kuqala ukutshela zonke ezinhle, ngaphandle aqalisa ubani. Ake Ukuqagela. Kodwa lokhu sekwenza diversifies friendly party ngokwethukela. amazwi okubonga Ezikhulumela le siyakuhalalisela nozakwethu kangcono hhayi ukuba ajwayelekile kakhulu.

kuthini "ngiyabonga" Kuyoze kube nini?

"Ukunqamulela - udadewabo ithalente." Catch ibinzana kungokwalabo A. P.Chehovu. Futhi kulungile! Ukukhuluma kwenu kuzothatha 3-4 imizuzu, kusaba khona, ngoba imizuzu 5 - lokho okuningi. Kungani? Ukusakaza umqondo somuthi, ungenawo ukugxila izilaleli main - ubani futhi yini wena onokubonga ngazo. Futhi izivakashi ngizithola futhi izuzisa yakho kabi. Ingabe ukukhuluma imizuzu isikhathi eside kunaleso 7 - abantu ngaso sonke ukuzisola ukuthi wayebuya ukuhalalisela nawe. On the table samaholide njengoba izibiliboco, zonke umthamo salivating, futhi usuvele 30 (!) Amaminithi baveze ukubonga abangane ngenxa siyakuhalalisela. Akwamukelekile ngoba behlupha abanye.