Kuyini ukubhuqa

Uyini ukubhuqa? Buza lo mbuzo ukuze abangane eziningana, ngathola izimpendulo ezithi azifane - lokhu kuntuleka ubuqotho balo, zigutshuzelwe ihlaya phezu yokuntuleka omunye umuntu. Ngempela, kungani nathi, musa ukondla isinkwa, ukudansela isiginci sakhe "pin" interlocutor, futhi thina ngokwethu bayakwazi kalula zicasulwe ezinjalo e isiqondiso sethu?

Ososayensi baye babonisa ukuthi kungcono ukulinganisela Ukubhuqa kuyasiza ngoba kusiza ubuchopho bethu ukusebenza futhi afaka amahlaya of isimo sengqondo esingaqondile ngempela maqondana umuntu wethu.

Kuyini ukubhuqa kulabo njalo abakuyo? Mhlawumbe indlela yokukhuluma, ngendlela avuke, nijabhise omunye, kodwa ubuka ke hhayi ukukhanya kakhulu. Sekuvele kukhona odokotela bengqondo ukukhuluma - bona aluleke isexwayiso kulabo ukusebenzisa idatha unaphakade izikhali, ngisho izikhathi eziningana ngosuku. Iningi laba bantu banezakhiwo ukuthi ungajabulile ngokuthi uphatheke ngokwabo njalo, nokuthi akekho omunye waphawula, ithuba lokukhuluma kuqala. Njengoba ayaziwa ukuzivikela engcono - kuhlasela.

Okwakushiwo ukubhuqa kuchazwa njenganoma - ngokumamatheka okubi kuhloswe ngazo ukuqinisa ngokucacile umehluko phakathi kokukhulekela observation waveza ngokoqobo caustic. By the way, kwi-inthanethi kubantu abaningi ukubhala phezu izinkundla ukuthi lesi sigaba akuyona ezimbi njalo, ngezinye izikhathi kungcono mnandi futhi kujabulise - ukuba bahlekise ngayo abanye, nokunye okunjalo, ihlaya zombili ezinjalo.

Yiqiniso, kunokuningi okungakhulunywanga ngakho, ikakhulukazi ikhodi une abangane abaseduze, owaqalekisa ngazo ukwazi pheze konke, ebukisa isiqephu esithile empilweni - akulona isizathu ubheke bona isigaba sabantu, lapho lona wawulotshwe ngenhla uthi. Phakathi naleso sikhathi, odokotela bengqondo belulekwa ukuba abavuthiwe ukuba impande futhi ungase ubone onguchwepheshe ngoba abanye, uma u ufuna ukusebenzisa ulimi kancane embi, ongalifinyelela. Ngakho-ke yini ukubhuqa? A uhlobo oluthile umkhuba.

Isikhathi esining impela, le indida kanye ukubhuqa asetshenziswa lapho sikhuluma kuyahambisana, kodwa lokhu akulona iqiniso. Uyini ukubhuqa sesikubonile esiphethweni, kodwa udinga ukuqonda ukuthi lihluke kanjani indida. Indida enkulu, njengoba sazi, ngokuvamile utholakala ezincwadini, okungukuthi, kuyindlela ukuze abonise le into umfundi kungazwakali, kodwa ngaphandle alingcunule e okungona idumela.

Yiqiniso, ukubhuqa liyasetshenziswa abalobi, kodwa izinhlobo ezahlukene ngokuphelele. abalobi abaningi, abalobi uthambekele kulo Insimbi izihloko zabo ukuze adalule ngokoqobo, embule lonke iqiniso, mhlawumbe, ecashele abafundi.

By the way, okwamanje lwerediyo sanikezelwa ngesihloko esithi "ukubhuqa -? Kuyini", in okuyinto abantu babekhuluma ambiguously. Mina, njengenhlangano umbhali, nesithakazelo, yebo, umbono subjective, kodwa intombazane, ezisekelwe emaqinisweni ethize, efana ngaphezulu eningi.

Ngakho wangitshela ukuthi kwezinye yokutadisha kwethu, odokotela bengqondo yasekhaya wanquma kabusha isimo esithile lapho abantu bavezwa izinselele ezihlukahlukene ngokomzwelo. Ekugcineni kwathi bona sakubhuqa iphathwa "nozakwethu" yabo namashwa uma izenzo zabo okubangelwa imizwelo olunzima ezimbi.

Ochwepheshe, ngesisekelo salokhu, waphetha ngokuthi ngemva imaskhi Ukubhuqa ngokuvamile nje efihla inzondo okuyinto umthombo (umuntu) ezama imaski ngokucophelela ihlaya. It kuvela ukuthi ukubhuqa - kungcono intukuthelo futhi engemihle. Kodwa ngempela, kuhle ukucabangela, ngoba incazelo yegama elithi "ukubhuqa" kumbuthano abangane, cishe ukudida nokuchazwa indida. Nokho, ngokuncane bantu balunge kungaba acute ngolimi. Lolu cwaningo anezinye iqiniso.

Ngamafuphi. Kuyini ukubhuqa, uma kungekhona ngokumamatheka okubi, okuhloswe ngaso kudvwebela amaphutha omunye umuntu? Mhlawumbe ukudlala ku ukuqhathanisa yasetshenziswa abalobi nabahlaziyi, osopolitiki nezinye ehamba phambili izibalo eziningi zomphakathi ukwakha inkulumo acacile nangenakulibaleka. Khetha kulowo nalowo kithi, kulokho ngemithamo futhi lokho zisebenzisa isikhali esiyingozi, uma esetshenziswa ngendlela engafanele, uma kungekhona kubabangele izingxabano, ukungezwani, futhi lukhulise inzondo ezifihliwe.