Kungani baqamekela - ake sibone!

Futhi ngempela, kungani amadoda amanga? Yini le ebenza ubulili namandla, kuba yimpumelelo ngempela, abacebile ngokuqinile ngezinyawo zakhe, ngokungazelelwe ofihla amehlo akhe, ukumamatheka namahloni, othi awube, kabuhlungu ukuziqambela indaba ezinye ezimangalisa kangaka?

Kubonakala sengathi uma ungenawo acabangele abaqambimanga sokugembula noma izimo ezifana umhloli jikelele, isizathu sokuqala sokuba amanga banayo kuyafana ukuthi we sonke: nokwesaba abantu abaningi abasiqondi, ayaziswa, ongaceli. Uma sihlaziya isimo ejwayelekile - kungani baqamekela - kuvela ukuthi eyeqisayo kukhona yibona abanecala ngokuyinhloko. Man "shoulds" eziningi kakhulu: Kufanele uthole kahle, ukuba inhloko yomkhaya, ukuze bakwazi ukwenza konke endlini, yokwakha ama-career, evulekile-akhawunti okuqinile ebhange ... Kulindeleke ukuba izixazululo ekhethekile, iseluleko esihlakaniphile, izenzo juqu. Uma umuntu uyavuma ubuthakathaka, uma ngaso sonke isikhathi sibhekane ngokuphumelelayo isibopho sakhe? Phela, sonke - abantu, futhi lutho komuntu luphambene nakho kwethu, futhi amadoda - kuhlanganise! Kodwa lokho ngokuvamile lithi goodbye kuya wesifazane, le ndoda yamangalela, cishe ubugebengu. Ukumzwisa ubuhlungu, kodwa hhayi ngikhale, ungafaki! Kunzima, kodwa ube nesineke, musa akhononde! Alizange liphumelele ukwenza izinto, dreary enhliziyweni - lutho igcina sha, Okuthile Emibi! Yingakho amadoda amanga! Hhayi propensity baqambe amanga, isifiso ukubukisa, ukuba bathathe izinyathelo ukukhanya ukuzenza athandeke. Futhi ngenxa yokuthi ezinye zazo - losers, ngaphandle izimoto siqu abangenamakhaya futhi ohlonishwa, kodwa nge isikhwama Skinny ephaketheni lakhe, abesifazane ngokuvamile ukwamukela. Uma umuntu uqala ukuxoxa ngezinkinga zabo, uma kuvela ukuthi ngeke akwazi, kodwa kudingeka ihlombe, tandla tenu ekusizeni isandla - nobuhlobo obunjalo indoda, ngokusho izibalo, eziyisishiyagalombili aphume ke abesifazane abayishumi empeleni tie.

Lokhu - wokuqala futhi isizathu esiyinhloko baqamekela. Futhi enye - zokungazimiseli kwezinye nabobulili namandla babe namandla wemfanelo. Isizathu salokhu kungenxa e izindleko imfundo ekunakekelweni ezingadingekile futhi kocingo umfana, bese insizwa zokuphila okukhulu. Sekuyisikhathi eside kwezinsana, asocial kwaba izifo emphakathini wanamuhla futhi kuthonye ukuziphatha kokubili neengcezu lwesintu. Kodwa-ke futhi, uma abesifazane isibonisi yabo uthi goodbye, kwezinye izimo, abantu, maye, akukho. Ubuhlobo indoda eyakhelwe izikimu usumisiwe ngaphandle ezimweni ezithile.

Sekuyisikhathi eside Alondoloza indoda enakekela owesifazane owayeshushumbisa emsizayo uxazulule izinkinga, phumani nezimo ezinzima, ekugcineni, inikeza ukuzinza kwezezimali. Nakuba ukulwela manje kuragela, abesifazane abaningi bayakwazi imali futhi akhokhe izifiso zabo, izindinganiso zomphakathi we the archive ayikahlanganiswa umaluju. Ngenxa okufanayo, ukuthi, umuntu onamandla eqiniseka ukuthi Slender amantombazane, ngempama eyelashes ngendlela butterfly amaphiko - akekho kubo ngeke akubekezelele eceleni abantu bakhe effeminate besilisa abakwazi a tour de force. Bethembele winner zakusasa - yilokho bafuna!

Futhi ubani odinga indoda? Owesifazane abakwamukelayo kuyini ngempela. Nge zonke izakhiwo, zamorochki le kuhlulekile izifiso, amandla nobuthakathaka. Lokhu Psychology emkhatsini wemadvodza kanye nebafati kuhluke. Yiqiniso, ungakhohlwa mayelana isikhalazo ezibukwayo, ubulili, ikhono zizikhandle, ukugijima asemizini yawo ngisho aphansi - ukupheka. Kodwa bonke amaphutha kule ndawo besilisa zesifazane ukuthethelela uma umbhangqwana kuyoba ukuqonda nenhlonipho ngobuqotho. Uma owesifazane akuyona kuphela senkosikazi yazo kuye, kodwa umngane, umngane onokwethenjelwa futhi abaqotho.

Esinye isizathu - amadoda acabange ukuthi ungakwazi amanga "insindiso." Vikela abathandekayo besakhathazeka ezingadingekile, ikakhulukazi uma lezi thuthuva kwenzeka e amaphutha abo siqu, ukufihla iqiniso, ukuze singathwesi senze isimo sishube - babona kule panacea for eziningi engemihle. Yiqiniso, lena isikhundla sokuba nentshe, zifihle amakhanda ethu etshebetshebeni lapho ingozi, kodwa balusebenzisa kanjani.

Lapha futhi cabanga manje kungani baqamekela ...