Kungani abesifazane ukushintsha

Abantu abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi owesifazane wadalwa ukuphila komkhaya futhi uyisidalwa monogamous, umsebenzi kabani main - wokunakekela le umkhaya, futhi lo muntu amthandayo. Noma ngabe wathi, futhi lona wesifazane namanje uyakwazi sokukhaphela. Ake sizame ukuqonda nezimbangela zayo kanye nezinye "izingibe". Kungani abesifazane ukushintsha?

Isikhathi esining impela zesifazane angabeka "uya kwesobunxele" ngenxa kudingeka umsebenzi wokuziphilisa omuhle. Abaningi baye for lokuzama ukuvukela uMbuso ukufuya noma nokugcina izikhundla. Ngiyavuma, indoda kwehle kahle usuku olulodwa ngesonto ukuze ubone indlovukazi yakhe kulo iviyo ubasi wakhe, futhi nakakhulu lapho ethola ukuthi "ibhizinisi" ezinjalo nemihlangano njalo.

Eyesibili isizathu, echaza ukuthi kungani ukushintsha abesifazane - izipho izimbali. Njalo girl enhliziyweni amaphupho ukuphila ngokunganaki futhi emuhle. Lapho yena ulinde Indlu kanokusho, unethemba lokuthi kuzohamba ukuthi kuzofika ngokukhulu isixha omkhulu roses futhi ibhodlela champagne. Ngenxa yalokho, kuza nge yikhona sikhuthalela kakhulu ulale udle ... Yingakho angakwazi makudle Lowo kwezithandani wakhe. Khumbula ukuthi owesifazane akakwazi ukulala nendoda nje ngoba uyathandeka, kodwa futhi ngoba abacebile akwazi ukunakekela.

Isikhathi esining impela amantombazane ushintshe yokuziphindiselela. Ezinjalo umuntu owayefuna ukuziphindiselela azokwenza ukuqinisekisa ukuthi umuntu bedonsa yokuziphindiselela, ubuhlungu, futhi waqaphela ukuthi wayenza iphutha kunoma isiphi isimo,.

Impendulo eyayivame kakhulu yombuzo "Kungani abesifazane ukushintsha?" Ingabe ukunganeliseki ngokobulili. Akuwona wonke umuntu uyazi ukuthi zingaki ucansi ufuna umngane wakhe. Akuvamile uzohlangana intombazane akhulume ngawo. Uma kungekho ingxoxo, umfana angase abe imbangela yokukhathazeka amadoda ngoba Ukuntula isithakazelo ucabanga zabesifazane nakho kungaba isizathu Ukufuna uthando ohlangothini. Abesifazane abaningi smart baphile esimisweni "Umyeni omuhle -. engeyena umthandi kwesithiyo lokuqala ekilasini"

Kungani amantombazane ushintshe entukuthelweni? Kwenzeka ukuthi yowesifazane embhedeni 'omunye' amadoda nje ngoba wayengenayise ngokwanele. Wayithola okuphakade carping umlingani unomphela, ukuthi injani, izimfuno kanye ukugxeka. Ezimweni ezinjalo, intombazane nje cinga ukuqonda ohlangothini, ufune umuntu owayeyoba ukusekela kwakhe. Iphutha eyinhloko amadoda - imicabango ezifana "noma ubani engase abe nesithakazelo, uma kukhona mina" noma "Yingakho kufanele yena umuntu uma enendawo kimi." Isikhathi esining impela, lezi guys esifushane sekuqhamuke ziphelelwe umsebenzi ... nabo bonke ngenxa izimiso kanye ngokweqile ukuzethemba!

Esinye isizathu, echaza ukuthi kungani abesifazane ukushintsha, alikho ngempela imbangela njengoba izaba "engozini"! Ingabe owesifazane angeke akwazi ukukwenza ngenxa nje yokuthi yaphuza kakhulu, indoda ethile limnandi abasha ahlinzekwa ukuze ngimbambe ... Kulokhu, futhi lokhu sikwazi bengavumelani, empofu ufanelwe ukuthethelela, ngenxa ke kwakuxhomeke kancane: isinqumo esithathwe utshwala.

Kususelwa bonke ngenhla, singaphetha ngokuthi kuleli zwe lutho kwenzeka ngesizathu, futhi uma kwenzeka lokho kwashintsha owesifazane yakho ucabanga: yini uma akusiwona wakhe?

Yini okudingeka uyenze intandokazi yakho wahlala ethembekile? Amathiphu amadoda:

1. Yigcine emhlabeni. Ngisize ngithole umsebenzi, ukuqala ibhizinisi, wagqoka kwezinyawo zakhe.
2. Nikeza izipho, izimbali, izinhlobo ezincane kodwa nice ahlukahlukene.
3. Zama uyothembeka kuye, musa ukushintsha. Uma konke kusenjalo kwenzeka, konke ukuqinisekisa ukuthi wayengakwazi ngakho.
4. Sanelise owesifazane embhedeni.
5. Akufanele bathathe ku trifles. Ungabeki yimiphi imibandela.
6. Nakani intombazane. Sondelana.
7. Nakekela wakhe njengoba kwakunjalo ezinsukwini zokuqala ngemva yabangane benu.

Uma umuntu ubambelele kulezi imithetho elula, owesifazane wakhe siyoba esithembekile kuye, futhi umbuzo "Kungani abesifazane ukushintsha?" Ungalokothi kuphakama.