Kanjani ukuphila, uma uhlala kungekho amandla? ITHOLAKALA KUPHI I-amandla okuqhubeka ophilayo?

I-Universal Declaration of Human Rights ushumayela olungenamkhawulo unelungelo lempilo, kodwa kungekho ndawo ebonisa ukuthi kuwumsebenzi wakhe. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, abantu bakhululekile ukuba bachithe siqu yabo, ngakolunye - phezu kwabo obusa yezenhlalakahle isiko, imfundo, inkolo nokuningi. Ukuze siphendule lo mbuzo, "yini okumele uyenze uma akusekho bhande ukuphila?" Ngeshwa, akunjalo elula.

Abe nesidingo sezinto ezingokomoya inkinga

Lo mkhuba ukuzibulala - inkinga enkulu ngokuphathelene nezimiso zokuziphatha, egcwele cishe kungenakwenzeka, ngoba njengoba inkolo uyekile abe nomthelela eliyisisekelo mayelana nokuziphatha emphakathini.

Ngaphambili, kwaba lula kakhulu. Ibandla iChristian Church, libhekisela ukuzibulala sebekubeke negative, lutho ukulalela izindaba amalungu abo ngendlela yokuthola ukuphila okunenjongo, uma uhlala azikho amabutho. Kukholakala ukuthi alikho a esonweni esingathí sina ngokwengeziwe, njengoba ihlanganisa ukuzibulala nokubulala abanye futhi balahle nethemba, futhi ngaphezu kwalokho, isoni phuca yena kungenzeka ukuphenduka. Ukuzibulala akusho ukufunda inkonzo yokungcwaba hhayi wangcwatshwa phansi lokuzehlukanisela kuze kube yilolu suku.

State yokubheka izinto

Njengoba impucuko European, ngokwengxenye enkulu, eyakhelwe ukuziphatha kobuKristu, isimo sengqondo esiqondile ukuba ukuzibulala kubonakala emithethweni esemthethweni emazweni amaningi lapho ukuzibulala Sekuyisikhathi eside kubhekwe icala lobugebengu.

Mhlawumbe omunye kuyokushiya umangele, kodwa e-UK uye saphela ezinjalo kuphela ngo-1961, lapho izikhalo eziningi kwamalungelo wobuntu abavikeli ophoqelelwe ePhalamende kubuketa umthetho ofanele. Kuze kube kuleli qophelo ngoba impendulo okungalungile yombuzo "indlela yokuphila, uma uhlala azikho amabutho" Kungenzeka ukukhokha inhlawulo abalulekile, futhi ekupheleni kwekhulu nesishiyagalolunye - ngisho ebulawa ngokulengiswa. E-Ireland ubugebengu ukuzibulala ezaqedwa kuphela ngo-1993 (!) Unyaka.

isikhundla zengqondo

nge savagery enjalo Manje kungenzeka nazo kuphela e-Afrika (Ghana, Uganda). Nokho, isimo sengqondo zomphakathi ngase ukuzibulala kuyadida futhi ziyahlukahluka kakhulu - kusuka ukwamukelwa ngaphambi sigwebo.

Kwaphela isikhathi eside kwakucatshangwa ukuthi inkinga: "? Kanjani ukuphila, uma akukho mandla" sici kuphela abantu uphazamisekile emqondweni. Lokhu ngemibono liyaphila kahle namuhla. Uma eHarvard isifundo esikisela bengqondo lokwenza ukuxilongwa esekelwe yezokwelapha idatha amarekhodi. Zonke iziguli zase wazibulala, kodwa akubona bonke abahlanganyeli kule experiment kubika.

Imiphumela yabonisa: lapho imbangela yokufa wayemazi ochwepheshe, baba uxilongwe nokugula ngengqondo e-90% amacala, futhi uma kungaziwa -% 22 kuphela.

Esinye sezizathu yezokwelapha ukuzibulala abizwa ngokuthi inkinga yokucindezeleka okukhulu - nemicabango yokuzibulala wavakashelwa ezingaphezu kuka-70% eziguli, futhi abangaba ngu-15% kudingeke imizamo efanele.

Norma - Umqondo engenamali

Umbuzo ka-ingqondo, isimiso, angabhekwa evulekile. Ngakho-ke, ukukhala ngokusuka enhliziyweni: "Indlela baphile, uma uhlala azikho amabutho?!" akusho ukuthi umuntu - crazy. Ekugcineni, ngenxa izibalo ukuzibulala akuyona kakhulu icacisa isimo.

Ngakho, ngokusho kocwaningo UBANI, izimbangela zezinkumbulo 41% lokuzibulala awaziwa, 19% ukwenza kube ngenxa yokuthi sesaba isijeziso esizayo, u-18% - ngenxa inhlokomo siqu, inombolo efanayo (18%) - ngenxa yezifo zengqondo.

Kuyinto ephawulekayo ukuthi% 1.2 kuphela abantu abazibulala ngoba izinhlungu zokugula okungathí sina, ukuze imbangela asikwazi kuthathwe njengendlela mass, kodwa eqinisweni kuba agumenti main uThandeka, nibakhiphele ngaphandle kwekamu qotho ukuzibulala izakhamuzi.

Kulesi sici, kuyaphawuleka umkhuba ukubulawa kwesiguli emazweni amaningi aseYurophu ngohlobo izindinganiso eziphakeme eziphilayo. Ngokwesibonelo, eBelgium, muva iwine unelungelo lobunikazi ukubulawa ngosizo odokotela intombazane esanda cha attained engu-30 ubudala. Isizathu kwaba ukucindezeleka - akukho esinye isifo kungaqali. Eziyimbangela yalokhu abaningi abacabanga ongaphilile.

Befuna udumo

ukukhathazeka okuningi ngendlela yokuthola ukuphila okunenjongo, uma uhlala azikho amabutho, intsha kanye nobudala isifiso ukuzibulala iyancipha, futhi izimbangela ukuthola nezinye izici. Kucasula futhi esidumazayo phakathi intsha eyishumi edlule, inani labantu abazibulala liye landa ngokuphindwe kathathu.

Izazi zezokuhlalisana kwabantu nezazi zokusebenza kwengqondo kuthiwa okuzwakalisa inhlabamkhosi futhi bavame ukusola Inthanethi, bekholelwa ukuthi ukuzibulala ngoba abanye abameleli abasha lwesintu - ithuba lokusho okusenhliziyweni yabo, bese "mzuzu enkazimulweni 'yabo phakathi abantu abanazo.

Emazweni amaningi, kukhona amawebhusayithi enikelwe ukuzibulala, kodwa, naphezu kweqiniso lokuthi abanye States sacabanga ngayo ezidingekayo iyakwenqabela kubo (Japan), bona usakhula futhi banda like amakhowe emva kwemvula.

Kumele baqonde ukuthi necebo umbono ukuzibulala ngempela zibonisa khona inkinga (s). Uma umqondo iba esilawulayo, ibuyisela ngokuphindaphindiwe, nawe kufanele icabangisise ngempela izindlela ukuze uthole usizo.

ISoviet Union yakuqala hhayi kakhulu umusa ka psychiatrists, kodwa lo mkhuba kunephutha. Kunzima ukusho ukuthi bangaki abantu ziye ngabe usindiswe, uligucula ochwepheshe ngesikhathi. Uma umuntu ayikwazi ukuqonda izisusa, amhambise ukuzibuza ukuthi avelaphi ukuthola amandla ukuphila, kumelwe qiniseka ukuthi uvakashela owelapha noma ukuthola enye indlela nokuxoxisana ngezinkinga zabo.

Kwenhlekelele isici

Njengomthetho, umqondo ngobuze ubukhona bakhe uhambele nalabo abaye bahlupheka lokufelwa - ukuhlukumezeka ngokufanayo kwabangela: ukushonelwa othandekayo, isimo sabo emphakathini, semali imali noma emsebenzini. Ngo ingozi ethile ngabantu abangenalo umndeni: ngokusho izibalo, kunzima kakhulu ukuphendula, lapho ukuze uthole amandla okuqhubeka ephila ngemuva kokuxinwa ukulahlekelwa.

Uma isizathu nemicabango yokuzibulala wakhonza njengephayona umcimbi, kumele wazi ukuthi psyche lomuntu liwumsebenzi batjhuguluka lula futhi akwazi ukujwayela. Okunzima kakhulu isikhathi - Ezinyangeni zokuqala eziyisithupha emva ukulimala. Ngemva kwalokho umuntu ucishe wakwazi ukubuyela ekuphileni okuvamile.

azizwe amukelekile kwabanye abantu

isipiliyoni kwaseNtshonalanga kungalandelelwa senza umsebenzi omuhle. Le ndlela yokwelapha njengeqembu ukwesekwa kumiswa abantu abanezinkinga ezifanayo, siyasebenza ngempela.

Okokuqala, umuntu ngeke engadingekile ukwazi ukuthi kunabantu abaye babhekana ekulahlekelweni okufana nokwabo, kodwa namanje ukuqhubeka siphila.

Okwesibili, hlala ayifakiwe inkinga kuphela. Kuyaphawuleka ukuthi% 24 kuphela ukuzibulala ukuxhumana nabantu abaningi, ngo-60% - zimbalwa futhi 16% sebebodwa ngokuphelele. Lesi sibalo ukhuluma esivuna yokuthi indima ebalulekile ekunqumeni ukuthi siphile, uma kungekhona amabutho, odlala ikhono ukuthuthukisa othintana nomphakathi.

Okulingana singasebenza njengesisekelo esiqinile sokufinyelela izinkundla ekhethekile thematic kwi-inthanethi, kodwa kukhona kufanele uqaphele: abantu inethiwekhi ngokuvamile liziphathe sibi kakhulu kunalokho empilweni yangempela.

isikhala Virtual kuholela ngokungacabangi, ngoba asikho isidingo ukubona usizi yothile (ukuthi kubuhlungu cishe wonke umuntu), futhi akukho amathuba isijeziso. zokuxhumana Siqu kunjalo ayethanda.

ukwesekwa Good - hotline okuthiwa, okuyinto ongabashayela yenza ngokuphelelwa yithemba. Nozwela ongamazi kungasiza ekuvimbeleni izinkinga.

Ukucinga luhlobo

Abaningi balabo abahlupheka a amashwa, ukuthola indlela yokuveza enkolweni uyayixazulula inkinga besonto umpristi. Ngomqondo onabile, ukusiza umuntu, hhayi ngaso sonke isikhathi kudingeka ukuba diploma - ngezinye izikhathi uzwela ngempela abavamile. Endabeni umpristi futhi kusiza konke ukuhlakanipha wakudala eBandla futhi ukholo olujulile uJehova.

Befuna nezimpendulo embuzweni ukuthi ukuthola amandla okuphila, noma ngayiphi indlela, sithwele ukuthula. Imiphumela emihle etholakale abawujabulela. Uma asikho isidingo ukuzama ukumthola.

izinhlangano eziningi zokuzithandela ukunikeza ithuba ukubaleka izinkinga zabo ukushintsha kwabanye abantu. Omunye kusiza ukuqaphela ukuthi "omunye sibi", omunye ungathola injongo yokuphila abahluphekile.

Mhlawumbe akukho iresiphi olulodwa ukhona. Ngisho ababhemayo uphonsa umkhuba, eqondiswa amasu ahlukahlukene. Kukhona labo uyayiqeda iphakethe likagwayi ungephansi kwemandla isikhwama: "Uma kukhona kakade ngempela babulawa, iziketekete" Abanye bazi ukuthi kwakuzodingeka bahlale kangcono kude ugwayi kanye neminye imibhalo yamasu. Ngokufanayo, i-ejenti yakhe kumelwe uthole kwabantu abaye bahlupheka ukulahlekelwa okukhulu futhi bengazi ukuthi aphile nalo.

Hlela ukuze ushintsho

Uma umcimbi elikhanyayo kuhlasimulise wayengekho nemicabango yokuzibulala basaya, udinga ukuhlala phansi, thatha ishidi nalutho sephepha, njengoba ngobuqotho uhlu izizathu kungani ngifuna ukuyeka. Le ndlela muhle bevela kuzo zonke izinhlangothi:

• amabutho ahlele imicabango yabo nemizwa;

• Inikeza ukubonakala inkinga;

• Kwenza baliqonde ngokujulile essence yayo.

Ngemva isici, ukuphoqelela ukucabanga, lapho ukuthola amandla ukuphila, itholwa, kubalulekile ukuba wenze uhlaka izindlela ukuze zilwe nabo. Kule ndaba, ngisho nesinyathelo amancanyana kuyoba yimpumelelo. Yiqiniso, uma usizo ezinhle okwehlela owelapha enobungane. Lapho kungenzeka Sokuzivikela kuchwepheshe khona, kufanele sizame ukuba imenze inkinga kothandekayo noma Inthanethi efanayo.

Kukhona ekhethekile inthanethi ngokwengqondo lapho ungakwazi ukuxoxa inkinga ulalele noma yini abanye abathi ngakho. Ukwahlulela abanye ukubuyekezwa, le ndlela ilungile impela khona. Into esemqoka - ukuba balungele ukushintsha futhi zicele kuwo iseluleko seBhayibheli.

Isexwayiso: izingane

Isigaba ekhethekile zabantu uyazibuza kanjani ukuthola amandla okuphila, kukhona intsha. Kuyishwa ukuthi they buza akusiyo nabazali. Futhi ngeshwa nakakhulu, uma ukuthola Isizukulwane esidala ukuqonda.

Abadala, ngokwengxenye, kungaqondakala: izinkanuko Shakespearean ekwenzeni amantombazane eneminyaka engu-13 ubudala sebeyakwazi kubangele, uhleko nokushaywa ukucasuka. Yiqiniso, umama wazi kahle ukuthi uthando kuqala - akuyona ukuqeda zomhlaba, "ihlazo esikoleni sisonke," - hhayi inhlamba ukuphila, njll Kodwa kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi intsha empeleni ngicabanga ukuthi kuphelile, futhi kube kuhle .. wenze isinqumo ukuthi uyongena ke ukuba uvale futhi abe nomuzwa njalo wecala ezingenathemba.

Ekugcineni, ukuhlaziywa ndathane idatha eqoqwe suicidology kusikisela ukuthi ngokuvamile imbangela ukuzibulala iba ukungabi nandaba ezizungezile.

Akubalulekile ukuba benze izenzo engelapheki

nezingxoxo eziningi mayelana nalolo daba ukuzibulala aqukethe isifaniselo cishe ngendelelo ukuthi "bamane bazame ngakho ukuheha ukunakwa." Kwaba njalo ngempela, kusuka 85 kuya 90% imizamo yokuzibulala ingaphumeleli, futhi phakathi kwabantu abasindile kukhona izikhathi ezingaphezu ezine abesifazane kunabesilisa. Kodwa ingabe iqiniso lokuthi umuntu has ngendlela efanayo ukuze nidonse ukunaka, awufanelwe uzwela?

Abantu kufanele kube enomusa komunye nomunye, ikakhulukazi njengoba ngokuvamile akubizi kakhulu. Khuluma izwi nozwela futhi ukulahla caustic - yini lula? Mhlawumbe-ke, ijika lokuzibulala ngokuqinisekile ingene phansi.

Dedela futhi unike noma ingasiphi isikhathi. Kunzima kakhulu ukuqhubeka ukucinga okushiwo khona. Akekho owaziyo ukuthi uyongena umuntu aphile futhi uma kwenzeka - kufanele azame ukugcina ithemba liphila. Boris Strugatsky, enika i interview wake wathi kubalandeli bakhe: "Akufanele neze enze izenzo engelapheki." Futhi lokhu kuyiseluleko esihle kakhulu sonke.