Izinsuku zokuqala enkulisa: kanjani ukusiza ingane ukuzivumelanisa

Ngokusho umthetho isiRashiya, engu-izingane, okuyinto kungenzeka kakade ukuyeka bathembele ngokuphelele ezintweni umama abe abafundi of enkulisa - iminyaka 1,5. Kukithi Kuleli qophelo abazali abazali bekupha ukunakekela ingane yakhe. zokusebenza kwengqondo eziningi ezindala esikoleni futhi baye bame kwelokuthi lokhu isiphi isikhathi esingcono kakhulu ukujwayela izingane enkulisa, bephawula yokuntuleka ingane walonyaka yokuqwashisa lapho kungcono, ngakho ezinsukwini zokuqala enkulisa mancane ezibuhlungu. Kodwa ngokuvamile ingane ikuthola kunzima ukujwayela indawo entsha.

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Nokho, ngokuvamile kwenzeka ukuthi okokuqala ingane eza enkulisa eneminyaka engu-4 noma ngisho engu-5. omude indawo endaweni yonakekelo lwezingane kamasipala, ikhono ukuba omama ikhefu lobuzali phambi ukukhishwa ingane iminyaka engu-3 ubudala, lami ugogo-umsizi - konke zinendima ethile. Futhi ngesikhathi umntwana zakhekile izisekelo kucabanga ngalokujulile, ubuza umbuzo: "Ngikhulumelani ukuhola? Kungani kufanele ushiye umama? Kungani kufanele ulalele anti yomunye? "Kwenza kube nzima ukujwayela e ngezinsuku zokuqala enkulisa. Nokho, ungahlala ukuthola indlela ukukhulisa ngokucophelela ukulungisela phansi ukuze izingane zithole okuya ngokuphepha ejwayele impilo entsha. Lapho kukhishwa isinqumo ukunikeza ingane enkulisa lithathiwe, kuqala usubhekene naso ngokwami, futhi abazali bami. Phela, nabo basuke bazi kahle ukuthi 'uma ngaphambili umntwana wachitha sonke isikhathi sakhe, yena, nonina, imodi ekahle bobabili, kodwa khathesi-ke kuyodingeka ukujwayela indawo entsha ngokuphelele, ukudla amasha, izimfuneko ezintsha, okwenza ushintsho olukhulu ekuphileni kwakhe. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukulungele abazali ukuba leli phuzu ngokufundisa umntanakho umbuso kakhudlwana sadikovskomu, ukushintsha kumamenyu nokuqhuba izifundo zokuqeqeshwa sessions, lokuphinda nemibandela izikhungo pre-school elulwimini lwabo akunakwenzeka. Yini esingakwenza, ukuthi lezi zinguquko kwakungezona ukucindezeleka esinamandla kunazo zonke sokuhlanganyela imvuthu? Phela inzondo esavela ngezinsuku zokuqala enkulisa, ziyonquma isimo sengqondo ingane ukuhlala izikhungo yezingane izinyanga, uma ukuza hhayi iminyaka.

Zengqondo ingane

Njengoba kufakazelwa izibuyekezo izinkulisa kubazali, okuningi kuncike uthisha, eziyobusiswa esikhundleni sazo ngoba ngosuku, izinsuku ezinhlanu ngesonto. Ngakho-ke, uma kungenzeka, kungcono ukuhlangana othisha eqembu ukuthi eqoshiwe ingane. Ungashiyi ingane ensimini, njengoba into, bezama ukuba ubalekele - kuzobangela kuye ukushaqeka umbhikisho okwengeziwe, okuzokwenza unqobe lo nzima kakade. Baby kubalulekile ukuba ngizizwe ngilondekile futhi qiniseka ukuthi akashiywanga. Kufanele sikulungele ngokwengqondo izindaba mayelana lapho engaya, ukuthi kukhona ukulinda. Ngokuvamile izingane ukuzama ukuxhumana kanye nontanga, ngakho le ngxoxo kungaba nikhuthaze ngilangazelela ukufika lapho.

Ezinsukwini zokuqala enkulisa kungcono ukushiya ingane nje ngaphambi kwasemini: angakwazi ukuxhumana nabanye izingane zidlale ngamaselula amathoyizi amasha ngaye, kodwa akazange abe nesikhathi miss umama nobaba. Kwezinye izinkulisa avunyelwe abazali izinsuku ezimbalwa ingane ehlezi endle umbono. Ngakho Wayenza ukuthatha uhambo ukuze engadini njengoba uhambo njalo nonina - ke nakuyicabanga esikhundleni lithathelwe yimpumelelo imvuthuluka.

Izinsuku zokuqala enkulisa ingane ethunjwa amathuba amasha, nabangane abasha, futhi uma abazali ngendlela efanele futhi ngokuphepha eyomsiza ukujwayela, njalo ekuseni ngeke ziqale baphanga kwemizwelo alenzele isihlawulelo, futhi abadala.