Ikhaya Nomkhaya, Izingane
Ingane (iminyaka engu-2 ubudala) asaba izingane. Siza isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo yezingane
Ukukhulisa izingane kudinga isikhathi esiningi nomzamo omkhulu. Njalo umama nobaba ngiphupha ingane yabo zikhule enempilo, eziqinile futhi behlakaniphile. Kahle kahle, bafuna ukufundisa izingane emphakathini esebenzayo ozohamba ku contact nontanga yabo futhi bakwazi azwakalise ukunganeliseki kwabo. Kodwa akuzona zonke izingane aphumelele. Godu kuthiwani nengabe izinyane akakhulumi, besaba ezinye izingane nezilwane? Lapho uhamba nengane yakho indlela ukuthuthukisa amakhono ayo? Zama ukuqonda.
izimbangela
Uma ingane yakho ine ayithandi ukuba izindawo eziminyene, akakubekezeleli umsindo kanye nezinkampani, akusho ukuthi uJehova akayena unkulunkulu njengawo wonke umuntu. Ngezinye izikhathi izingane ufuna ukudlala ngokwabo, kodwa abazali kufanele abathinte ingane yabo. Ukunikeza imicabango nezenzo zakhe endaweni efanele.
Uma ingane (iminyaka engu-2 ubudala) asaba izingane, akusho ukuthi kuyinto autistic noma ebonisa ukuthi awuphilile engqondweni. Lokhu kungase kubonise ukuthi ingane ubuhlungu ezinye izingane. Wayengase nje musa siqonde lokho okwenzeka, kodwa gcinani lokhu engqondweni futhi ungafuni lesi simo ukuphinda ngokwayo. Cishe zonke izingane zinhle at ukukhumbula amaphutha isipiliyoni kuqala ezimbi. Akumangazi ukuthi awufisi ukuzwa imizwa engakhi futhi. Akunakwenzeka ukuthi ingane yakho ngaphandle kwesizathu ivikela uqobo nakwezinye izingane.
Zonke izenzo wengane ukhulume izimo lapho evakashela. Izingane okuthukelayo ukuya contact nontanga, kungenzeka kakhulu enamathiselwe nonina akuvamile phumelani umphakathi. Ngenxa yalezi zinto ingane akazi ukuthi baziphathe kanjani, hhayi nobungane izingane.
Amazinga izingane ezineminyaka engu-2
Ekuqaleni, kuyasiza ukuqonda amazinga eyenzelwe izingane ezineminyaka engu iminyaka 2. Uma ingane yakho ingasebenzi zonke izenzo ukuthi zichazwe noma akakhulumi wonke la mazwi, ungalilahli ithemba. Mhlawumbe wena nje abazange bazame ukukhuluma ngolimi lwakhe, futhi ingane sokusebenza kwengqondo ngempela Ukugunda. Vele ukuba nesikhathi esengeziwe ingane yakho.
amakhono Motor nokuthuthukiswa ngokomzimba:
- Ehamba izitebhisi phansi. Angaba ancike handrail noma ucele umuntfu isandla omdala;
- izinyathelo phezu izithiyo;
- iphelela;
- uthola othini;
- Ubamba ibhola aliphonse;
- ukudlala imidlalo ongaphandle izingane;
- idweba imigqa imibuthano / ovals;
- bakwazi zagoba ukuze sithathe into;
- elawula sobuso: uphendulela izindebe ibe tube, ukudansela isiginci sakhe izihlathi;
- Ubizwa ukukhahlela ibhola.
Ukuxhumana kanye amazwi:
- izifundo izingane kuleyo ndawo, uzama uxhumana nabo,
- amagama athile nezindlela asetshenziswa abute imibuto angakhuluma,
- Ubizwa ukudlala Fihla futhi afune,
- amakhophi abadala,
- Icela usizo,
- ukuqonda ezinye imiqondo, ezifuywayo,
- Ikhombisa ukuthi mingaki iminyaka, igama lisho.
Impilo nokuphila:
- udla siqu neziphuzo,
- yena emabhulashini amazinyo akhe,
- Uya imbiza,
- susa futhi agqoke ibhulukwe
- bakwazi ukuthatha off wembatha izicathulo ukuyona lula.
Lolu hlu elincane amazinga siphathelene nokuthuthukisa izingane ngesikhathi engu-2. Njalo izinyane ihlukile, abanye ukwenza konke okungenhla kanye nokunye, futhi abanye ungapheli. Sibheke ukuthuthukiswa kwengane yakho futhi ungaphuthelwa isikhashana lapho ungakwazi uzomthakazelisa. Abanye abazali usifundise zonke lezi izinqubo, ingane waya enkulisa. Izingane 2 ubudala ngokuvamile eyenziwa engadini, uma kungekho ezinye nemibandela imfundo.
Kungani izingane nomphakathi?
abazali Yanamuhla Etholakala engu-ubuchwepheshe obusha ukhohlwe ngokuphelele ngamaqiniso elula. Okhokho bethu badlula isipiliyoni kanye nolwazi kwezingane, hhayi kuphela emisebenzini ukuqeqeshwa, kodwa ikakhulukazi ngokusebenzisa umdlalo wabo. Adume "Abangu-white emaceleni", "Ladushki" "Amahansi namahansi", nezinye imidlalo undeservedly ukhohliwe. Nakuba benza kungenzeka hhayi kuphela ukuthuthukisa emihle motor amakhono, kodwa futhi ukucabanga, inkumbulo futhi zingapheli amandla.
Izingane eziningi abazi kanjani ukuxhumana nontanga yabo. Inkinga ivela ebuntwaneni, abantu abanjalo ngisho nalapho esegugile ngokuvamile abakwazi kahle ukuveza izifiso zabo.
Abadala setha kohlaka inkhulumomphendvulwano futhi bafuna izingane zabo bazivumelanise lezi zenzo. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi ulwazi emhlabeni zengane ngayinye siqu sakhe, njalo izinyane uyakwazi ngokuzimela ukufunda ukuxhumana nabanye izingane, baxoxe, ukudlala ngisho ukuxazulula izingxabano. Ngakho ungazami ukuveza umbono wabo, uma ingalungile. ebaleni lokudlala Wezingane egcekeni - indawo enhle yokuthi intsha ilandele ukuxhumana.
Umbuthano ewumngcingo abangane
Eqinisweni, umama yena kuyinto wancika ngokwengeziwe ingane ube ncono kunaloko longiko ezivela kuye. Lokhu ngokuvamile isicupho ngokwengqondo kuyinto ezingaqondakali futhi edukisayo. Uma ingane njalo uchitha isikhathi wedwa nonina, uyise noma ugogo, kuyinto inkohliso, ukuthi asikho isidingo ngoba abanye abantu. Ngakho-ke, ukuvela emgwaqweni, ingane (iminyaka engu-2 ubudala) asaba izingane noma amaqembu ayiyi oxhumana naye.
Abanye abantu bakholelwa ukuthi uma ingane ubona inani elilinganiselwe labantu, kungase liziphathe ngobudlova emphakathini. Lena akuyona ngoba uhlamvu enjalo, konkhe kuvela neqiniso lokuthi wayeseholela alazi kanjani ukuxhumana e nohlu enwetshiwe. Ngenxa yokuthi ingane njalo uchitha isikhathi abadala, kulula ukukhuluma nabo kuka nontanga yabo. Ukuhlela imisebenzi zezingane, kuwe (ingane yakho) uthole injabulo enchubeni.
izenzo abazali
- Nweba indilinga labangane, hhayi nje bebodwa, kodwa futhi ingane.
- Ukushintsha imvelo.
- Imindeni bengabahlobo - abantu okwengeziwe, ngcono.
- Izingane ezingaphezu ukudlala imidlalo ongaphandle inkampani ontanga yabo umntwana.
- Ngokwabo ngithande amakilasi yezingane.
- Ngokuvamile badumise ingane.
- Okokuqala, ake ukukhanyisa umsebenzi, eziyinkimbinkimbi ke ngaphezulu. Emva kokuba ingane ukubhekana lokuqala, ethi kungaba, nje une ukucabanga.
- Okokuqala ukufundisa ingane umdlalo, bese ucela ukudlala.
elibambe
Izingane ezihlala wakhulela kanzima izinkinga zokuxhumana mkhulu ngaphezu kwezingane banconywa. ingane enjalo uyohlale abe ububanzi, abazama ukujabulisa. Nakuba cishe kuzo zonke izimo lezi zimfuneko kuphakeme izingane. Ngenxa yalokhu, ingane umonyukela yena, ngoba kulula ukuba adla, eniyokwazi angithethise, asidingi futhi ngeke njalo okungekho kuhle njengoba kufanele.
Ngesizathu esihle kunenkolelo yokuthi zonke izingane uzizwe futhi, ngokufanelekile, uma ingane yakho (iminyaka engu-2 ubudala) asaba izingane, khona-ke nje akuyona enokuzethemba ukukhathazeka. With izingane encane ukuba baziphathe abandayo noma cishe lokho ingane ngeke babhekane nokulahlekelwa, ngoba indlu kuwukusabela okungokwemvelo ngezinyathelo azithathayo.
Nge ukuzenyeza wengane kwandisa ukukhathazeka yokuzingabaza. Izingane ezinjalo ngokuvamile bathi abakwazi ukwenza lutho. Lokhu kusho ukuthi ingane uyawesaba nezinye izingane, futhi udinga usizo lwakho. Akazi ukuthi ukukubuza akufanele wenqaba. Wayengekhona beqiniseka amakhono akhe, nakuba ngingathanda uzame.
autism ekuseni
Icala nzima kakhulu akunakudluliswa contact Autism wengane kwezinsana. ebaleni lokudlala Wezingane egcekeni akakubangeli injabulo, ingane uvaliwe uqobo futhi esivumelana kakhulu abazali. Lezi zingane Ungahambisa izinto, ehlezi endaweni eyodwa ihora. izifo Modern imithi Ezimweni ezinjalo onyakeni wokuqala wokuphila kwengane.
izimpawu Early autism
- Kusukela beseyizinsana ingane ingavumi injabulo ukuxhumana nomndeni nonina.
- Lapho waphakanyiselwa, yena akafuni uthinte umuntu omdala noma yamanga.
- Ungabheki esweni.
- Ukuphinda izikhathi eziningi okufanayo ibinzana, ukunyakaza, senzo. Kamuva lezi izingane ukukhuluma.
- izingane Autistic izinzwane abo noma ukweqa nge nkulumo obujulayo futhi akayena ongangeneki.
Uma usola ukuthi ingane ingase ibe ogulayo, uthintane onguchwepheshe. I ukuthola esifike isifo - isigamu besebenza kukho. Ngemva udokotela uthi umntwana ophilile noma ogulayo.
Uma namanje ingane yakho autistic, qala nge oda zasekhaya ezincane, okuyinto akwazi ukwenza ngokuzimela. imidlalo Wezingane ongaphandle kuzokusiza ekuthuthukiseni isithakazelo ingxoxo. Gcina isilwane, zingabantu kahle kahle umthwalo wemfanelo ukusiza ingane bese ukuzivumelanisa nezwe emhlabeni.
Ukuxhumana phakathi izingane
Izingane eziningi ukukhombisa indlela abasabela ngayo kuqala kontanga bazo ngendlela emnene. Leli akulona inkomba emaqandeni, futhi indlela ehlukile ukutadisha kwezinye izingane futhi izwe. Ngo imidlalo enjalo, bakwazi ukuqaphela lapho "okwami", futhi lapho "umuntu." Ulaka - kuyindlela bakudala nokuba nobudlelwane namanye izingane. Ungashayela ke ezingeni lokuqala uthando.
Izingane ebucayi kakhulu, bayakwazi wasithatha imizwelo kanye sengqondo. Kodwa ingane wayenza ukuxhumana futhi ncane ukwesaba nolaka, kumelwe ukuba uzizwa kanjani ukusekelwa njalo kamama. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, imikhuba yayo zizoshintsha, kodwa kuze kube umama kufanele ukuvimbela izingxabano, ukuvakashela imisebenzi yezingane.
Ngokwesibonelo, ingane (iminyaka engu-2 ubudala) asaba izingane, ngoba wathatha ithoyizi Sandbox. Lapho ingane yakho zama amathoyizi akhe, futhi kwaba ngokumelene nalo, ngakho kufanele ucele lowo okonile: "Indodakazi yami Akanandaba uma kudlalwa?" - noma, "Sicela ubuze UKathy, oneminyaka engu-ke ukuthathe." Kuyadingeka ukuba ingane nomuzwa ukuvikelwa kini futhi ayikwazanga ukuvikela izifiso zabo. Phela, wayehawukela futhi umuntu, futhi kumelwe izifiso zakhe futhi imibhikisho. Kuzothatha isikhathi, ingane yakho izoba bebodwa ukufundisa izingane amalungelo abo.
Uma ubona ukuthi ingane yakho nje uxhashazwa aphume ndawo, ungami sibukela. Tshela osonile ithoni esiqinile ukuthi awukwazi ukukwenza. Lokhu kubi! kungakhathaliseki ukuthi neze ufuna ukuqhubeka, kodwa uma kungaphumeleli, bese ususa eceleni ingane abampofu. Ngaphambi kokufinyelela eminyakeni ewu iminyaka 3 umntwana kufanele ngokuphelele ukuvikela kwakhe uma engakwazi ukuphatha. Lapho ngineminyaka engu-izingane ezindala baqonde ukuthi uvunyelwe ikuphi, akhumbula ukuthi umama shoka them futhi bebodwa ukuvikela umbonwabo.
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