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Indlela yokuthola optimist?
Man - lena izwe elincane lapho kukhona umqondo wakhe okuhle nokubi, injabulo kanye nenhlalakahle. Lapho ngokuwina nalapho ashona, kodwa siyaqonda. Abantu abangafuni ubuhlungu amanxeba umphefumulo, kunalokho zama ukukhohlwa kubo noma ethathelwe isimo fundo ngokwabo. Abantu abacabanga omubi, isikhathi eside ukuvula amanxeba amadala futhi siqiniseke ngokuphelele ukuthi babengakwazi lucky empilweni.
Tinkinga sakha ngesimo sabo sengqondo ekuphileni. Izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo zithi lesi sifo pessimist kungenzeka ukuthi ayemakhulu amathemba ababenawo, kodwa lokhu udinga ukusebenza ngokwakho uma uthanda. Ziba nesimo sengqondo esihle maqondana nokuphila umzimba ezilula kuzosiza, kodwa ukwenza kubo nsuku zonke!
izinkumbulo ezinhle. Ekupheleni kosuku ngamafuphi futhi zama ukukhumbula izinto ezinhle okungenani ezintathu ozijabulele. Kungenzeka ngisho trifle - ngokwesibonelo, lapho sebephindela ekhaya nizwile ecula, noma kusihlwa nomlingani wakho ukuthi uhambile sishaywe wadla okumnandi ngokumangalisayo u-ice cream, noma wenza ukuncoma umuntu ababewazi. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ufunde ukuthola okuthile okuhle nsuku zonke zakhe - kungakhathaliseki ke yayiyinhle ngawe. Labo abasebenzisa le ndlela, uthi amasonto amabili kuthuthukisa isimo sengqondo.
Ukuxosha imicabango emibi. Abaningi ukuvimbela ukuphila ukuphila izinkumbulo ngokugcwele ezimbi, kokuphazamisa imicabango nemizwa. Sibonakala ugxumele kuwo futhi minza. Uma wazi isimo esinjalo, funda ukushintshela ukunakekela okuthile okuhle ngaso sonke isikhathi uma uqala ukucabanga mayelana ezimbi. Ungavumeli imizwelo engakhi nemicabango ukuthatha phezu phezulu. ukwazi yakho kumele zibonisa ngokucacile ukuthi ungakwazi futhi angakwazi ukulawula inqubo yokucabanga. Ucwaningo luye lwabonisa ukuthi emasontweni amathathu umuntu lo mkhuba ayikuvumeli yena ukucabanga mayelana ezimbi. Kodwa kudingeka sikwenze njalo, ngakho-ke, uqhubeke.
Kuyasiza nokuzindla. Uma kunzima kakhulu ukushintshela nokunakwa imicabango emibi ngokucabanga izinto ezinhle, zama sokuzindla. umkhuba Eastern kusiza ukuqeda okuvimba ezingokwengqondo, kodwa isimo sokuthi uzochitha Izikhathi zansuku zonke.
- Hlala phansi, phumula, ukugxila uphefumulele phezulu. Kancane ubala uye emuva kusuka 10 kuya ku-1, ake sithi uhamba ukuze lomfula ukubona isikebhe. Unquma ukuthatha uhambo elizungeze ichibi, phansi isikebhe emanzini futhi angene kuwo. Thatha oar futhi ukuqala kumugqa.
- Ingabe unomuzwa wokuthi isikebhe sinzima kakhulu futhi ulukhuni kakhulu kumugqa, uqaphela phezu Iminsalo isikebhe eziningi izikhwama ezisindayo, yingakho kunzima kangaka ihambe.
- Uya umnsalo kulesi sikebhe futhi sithathe isaka lokuqala uphawu "Alarm" futhi amphonse olwandle, ukugwedla sekulula, kodwa esiphazamisayo okunye.
- Wena phindela izikhwama futhi ulahle esilandelayo, ngamazwi athi "ukwesaba" irowu ngisho lula, kodwa kukhona abanye ukumelana.
- kwaba ukuqala isikhwama zokugcina. Lesi sikhathi kungcono isikhwama ngamazwi athi "okuphansi ukuzethemba."
- Manje ukhululekile, futhi ijabulele uhambo, kulula ukundiza nezinye izingcweti ngaphesheya kwamanzi.
- Khokha umoya, exhale kancane. ukuzindla sifundo iphelile.
Isimo esifanele. Odokotela bengqondo bakholelwa ukuthi labo akuvamile uyamamatheka, akakwazi ukucabanga wekusasa. Kulokhu, udinga smile u lwangempela hhayi nolukhohlisayo. Kodwa uma ucasukile, noma othile ekutshele into embi, angizizwa like smiling. Yini okumelwe uyenze?
Ochwepheshe ukweluleka ukwenza kanjalo. Vala amehlo akho ucabange into ekwenza imizwelo eyakhayo: ingane isilwane ezihlekisayo, ezihlekisayo isimo, anecdote ... Ngenxa yalokho, ungakwazi ukusiza smile, kwemizwa kuyoba ngcono kanye nemicabango bahambe.
Ungesabi ukuba ezahlukene. Ukuba nombono oqhakazile - hhayi ukubona izwe ngokusebenzisa izibuko rose-ezinemibala. On the ezidingekayo kuphambene azibonayo ngokoqobo njengoba kuba, ngaphandle ukunciphisa futhi ihaba izimfanelo ezinhle zezinto. Ngezikhathi ezithile ezinhle ukuba silahle ithemba, ukuba nesimo esibucayi, kodwa zikhona izikhathi lapho ufuna bajabule ngokwakho, wamisa phezu ezinhle. Ngokuvamile, kufanele sikwazi ukuba abahlukile, kuncike umuzwa kanye nezidingo okwamanje. Yilokho uma uzizwa inkululeko futhi ujabulele ukuphila.
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