Indlela ukuhlangabezana umfana kalula futhi unobtrusively

Njalo girl wake wazibuza ukuthi ngijwayele guy. Kodwa umbuzo onjalo iDemo efihla izinto eziningi: lapho ujwayelene kakhulu ukuqala indlela, ukuthi uzothini, kanjani ukuqonda noma cha ukuqhubeka nengxoxo njengoba hhayi ezifaka esimweni oyisiphukuphuku ... kanye nezinye izinto eziningi.

Ukuze siqale ukuqondisisa isihloko njengoba ahlangane okokuqala nge ukuma intombazane, yebo, kukhethwa indawo. Kungenzeka ukuthi kungumsebenzi wakho, noma isikhungo, likaqedisizungu okujwayele izindawo (yeshashalazi, nemibukiso, imitapo), ikhaya egcekeni, ezokuthutha umphakathi, izitolo. Yiqiniso, zikhona izimo ithimba kuphela abesifazane, club of isithakazelo ibizwa ngokuthi "ekunqunyweni futhi ethunga izifundo", nezindawo ezivakashelwa kakhulu kukhona nje ekhaya nasemsebenzini, futhi esihlangana nabo emgwaqweni noma izithuthi zomphakathi ibonakala okuthile okuyihlazo. Okufanele ukwenze ke? Ukucinga. Kunjalo, musa enethemba layo umhlangano abayitoho futhi Ngomzamo omncane nje ukuqinisekisa ukuthi lo mhlangano senzeka. Okulandelayo ukuze sinqume ukuthi uhlobo indoda okufunayo. Uma enamandla futhi sporty - ekahle yakho, bese izikhathi ezimbalwa iqembu labasubathi noma ukujabulela karate, noma uqale Ukushushuluza, ngokuvamile, njengoba isisho, ukuhlanganisa ibhizinisi ubumnandi. Uma wena yinto esemqoka amadoda intelligence imfundo, kubalulekile ukubheka umtapo, nemibukiso, ungenele izifundo ezincwadini noma umlando, ukuya ebhayisikobho. Yiqiniso, esitolo "Hunter futhi Umdobi" zingatholakala Ph.D., kodwa namanje ezindaweni "thematic" ematfuba iphezulu kakhulu.

Umagazini olandelayo we-uchungechunge "kanjani ukuhlangabezana nentombazane" kuyindlela ukuzibona. Iningi lamadoda ngokwemvelo zizivikele kanye nabasizi bakhe, kodwa ngokuvamile ngoba esaba ihlazo noma nesizotha, bona ungabonisi. Kulokhu, badinga usizo oluncane. Indlela elula kakhulu sokuba bajwayelane umfana - iwukuba sokumbuza ngisho nombuzo noma acele usizo. Ngokwesibonelo, uma wayethanda wena umfana wena wabona esitobhini sebhasi, ungakwazi sokumbuza ngisho nombuzo, lapho ibhasi kukuthatha stop ezithile, cela uma ebona lapho edlula 56 ( "futhi ukuma-othini; khona zonke cha, lapha ekuqaleni kakade sokungabaza ukuthi uhamba lapha nhlobo "). Into esemqoka akukona lokho okushoyo, kodwa lokho uye waqala ingxoxo, ngakho uma uthanda umfana, kuba-90% ukwesekwa yakhe.

Win win-isimo njengoba meet a guy - okusazoba esitolo onguchwepheshe ukudayisa gear bese ucela guy wayethanda akusize ukuthi ukhethe igiya njengesipho uPapa (bazalwane, omalume). Futhi uma ngesikhathi esifanayo ukuze ungeze ngobuqotho ngokuphelele futhi engajabule "Angazi ngempela ukuqonda lokhu, futhi uwena cool kangaka kuzo zonke zinhle" ongenawo indoda ongema phambi kwakho.

Uma ukhathazekile mayelana nalolo daba, njengoba original ukuhlangana umfana ke nakhu okunye ongakhetha elula: kuyiwe guy Vending futhi ngokuphelele ephephile okuthile okunjengokuthi: "Sawubona, indlela u-Oleg icala? Eminyakeni elikhulu namatjhumi simbone. " Uma umfana uqala ukukutshela ukuthi wenza iphutha, singakwazi kuphela namahloni futhi uqale ukuxolisa, futhi ngemva kwalokho guy kungenzeka ukuqhubeka nengxoxo yena, ngoba akekho 'umnumzana lweqiniso "lwaluyoba akuvumeli intombazane wayephatheke kabi ngoba wayenze iphutha oyisiphukuphuku ezifana . Enye kakhulu yokuqala, kodwa lokho kumane nje amantombazane efanelekayo kokuzethemba. Ukuhamba eceleni guy ezimnandi sengathi ukhuluma ocingweni nomngane (musa Amemeza emgwaqweni, kodwa ukuze yeswa) bese uqale "ingxoxo" ukuchaza ukuthi insizwa ezithakazelisayo iza eduze nawe. Yeka indlela abaphumelela kahle ubheka (figure omkhulu, kuhle, ngakho anesitayela abagqoke, izinwele zakhe nje ephezulu, futhi ngakho uhlu kuqhubeka), nokuthi unganakile ngisho at angabonwa kanjani ohlakaniphile ayilo emangalisayo futhi bejabule. Ngemva ezwa lokho okuhle futhi bejabule ke kuyodingeka ayikho into esingayenza ngaphandle ukuya ukuze nazi ukuthi konke lokhu kuyiqiniso.

Uma nizizwa nesaba lapho nibhekene ngowokuqala bajwayelane umfana nje ngoba ucabanga ukuthi ungakwazi ukubheka engenangqondo noma okungenangqondo, bese kuba ngu ukuchitha mini-ukuhlola. Cela abangani bakho 10 guys njengoba amagama amabili ukuchaza intombazane oyovela ukumhlangabeza, futhi uzobona ukuthi phakathi izimpendulo, "ngokugqamile", "ezithakazelisayo", "kwelivamile" Ngeke olulodwa "preposterous." Into esemqoka okufanele uyikhumbule kuyadingeka ukuze simazi kangcono kalula futhi unobtrusively, kubangela noma kwezenzo ezihlukumezayo lapha nje okungalungile.