Imikhosi ehalalisela ngosuku lomshado, abazali bomakoti nomkhwenyana.

Ekuphileni komndeni ngamunye kunezenzakalo eziningana ezikhunjulwa ngokuphila. Futhi lomshado ungomunye wabo. Uma kugcinwe idili lokunethezeka, lapho izihlobo nabangane, abasondelene nabantu abathandekayo bekhona, khona-ke bangakwenza kanjani ukuthi lo mcimbi ube mnandi kubo bonke? Kuzothatha igqoke le- chic kumlobokazi, isitifiketi noma i-tuxedo yomkhwenyana, izimoto zomshado, indawo yokudlela, izimbali kanye nomhlobiso wehholo. Kodwa akusikho konke. Muva nje, izinkulumo zokubongela, yebo, izinkulumo, hhayi izintambo, ezikhulunywa ngabazali, abasanda kushada nabamemile abantu, bathandwa kakhulu.

Ungathola ukuhalalisela okulungisiwe ngosuku lwakho lomshado. Abazali, abangane nabangane nabo kufanele baceliwe ukuba bafingqa ngale ndaba, ukuze lo mkhosi ungabi khona ukuphindaphinda nokuthukuthela. Kungcono ukuqamba isimo lapho kuyobe kubhalwe khona ngokucacile ukuthi ngubani kanye nabameli. Ungayibhalela wena, inzuzo yamasayithi ngokuhalalisela kanye nezinkulumo ezihlukahlukene zokugubha ezanele.

Kodwa enye yezinkulumo ezibalulekile zokubonga iyisibusiso sabazali. Ngomshado, kuthiwa ngesikhathi sokuthengwa kwentengo yamakhosikazi, lapho uyise nomama beyala le nsizwa. Futhi inkulumo elandelayo yabazali emshadweni ishaywa ngumama nonkosikazi womkhwenyana edilini. Phakathi nomhlangano ne-caravan ne-champagne. Kungcono ukuthi uhlaziye kancane, ngoba lokhu kuyinto elula ukuthi ilahleke futhi idideke "emizwelweni".

Umkhwenyana ungcono kakhulu ukulungisa inkulumo encane lapho ezobonisa khona isimo sakhe sengqondo kubazali besifazane ozayo. Phela, ubuhlobo noninazala kufanele bukhule ngokushesha naphakade.

Imikhosi ehalalisela ngosuku lomshado, abazali bomlobokazi:

"Umama wami wesibili, ngiyabonga,

Siyabonga ngendodakazi yakho enhle,

Ngithemba ukukubona lapho uvakashela nsuku zonke,

Futhi borschtner wakho omuhle akafuni ukungizama,

Uyajabula indodakazi yakho iyoba nami kuphela,

Ngakho-ke, ngiyomthatha ekhaya. "

Ngokuba umkhwekazi, kungcono ukubhala inkulumo lapho kubongwa khona, kodwa kancane kancane njengomuntu. Ukuze ubaba anikeze indodakazi yakhe komunye umndeni ngezinye izikhathi awunabuhlungu kakhulu kunomama wakhe.

"Othandekayo (ubaba noma i-IO), ngifuna ukukutshela ukuqashelwa kwami okuqotho ngemfundo yendodakazi enhle kangaka, ongeyena wesifazane ohlakaniphile kuphela futhi ohle, kodwa futhi nomuntu ophethe kahle. Futhi ngithemba maduzane uzoba nomama omuhle wezingane zethu nabazukulu bakho besikhathi esizayo. Ngiyabonga ngokusuka enhliziyweni kuwe konke,

Ukubamba noma yisiphi isenzakalo esibucayi esihlotshaniswa nezinkinga ezimnandi. Kodwa abantu abasha kufanele futhi balungiselele ukuhalalisela ngosuku lwabo lomshado. Abazali kufanele futhi babongwe. Kungcono uma kuyinkulumo lapho abasanda kushada bekusho ukuthi ngiyabonga ngomkhosi olungiselelwe. Yiqiniso, amazwi ahlabayo kakhulu avela enhliziyweni, kepha abaningi ukuthi bakusho ngomzuzwana omkhulu kunzima futhi ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukubhala kusengaphambili.

Siyakuhalalisela ngosuku lwakho lomshado:

"Bazali, sihalalisela futhi sibonisa ukubonga kwethu,

Ngobusuku umama ongalali nokubekezela uPapa,

Ngalokho ababekufundisayo, baphatha, futhi sathandwa kakhulu,

Oomama nabathandekayo bami, ngiyabonga kakhulu nonke. "

Abazali abathandekayo nabathandekayo, sinamacala kuwe namuhla. Uma iminyaka eminingi edlule, ngamunye wenu wayengakabi ngesikhathi esifanele endaweni efanele, khona-ke manje kungaba yisikhathi somunye umbhangqwana. Ngakho-ke siyabonga ngokusuka enhliziyweni, ngoba ngenxa yakho sakwazi ukudala umndeni wethu, okuzokwenzela abazukulu esikhathini esizayo. "

Futhi into enjalo, into esemqoka yukuthi amagama ayekhanya futhi aphuma enhliziyweni. Futhi kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi noma ubani, ngisho nezwi eliphoqelekile, angathinta kakhulu ubuhlobo obuseduze nezihlobo. Futhi-ke, emva kokubhala inkulumo yakho eyamukelekile, kufanelekile ukufunda umfazi noma umyeni wakhe wesikhathi esizayo, ukuze uqonde ukuthi kuzojabulisa kangakanani abazali. Ukuphila komndeni okujabulisayo, uthando nokubekezela!